Abtigiis Posted October 5, 2008 Originally posted by Valenteenah: To me, what came across in the story was that, for whatever reason, Ayaanle was not willing to allay his wife's fears properly or permanently. In fact some of his 'assurances' (like the part where they are arguing in front of their respective families) seemed designed to make Ugbaad look and feel even more irrational. Now, a man who is not capable of making his wife feel cherished or secure has failed in his duty as a husband. He doesn't deserve the beautiful, loyal and loving Ugbaad. Don't you agree? I disagree. What if Ayaanle feels she is petulant and ungrateful,and don't want to set a precedence where she will take for granted what she has. What if he is doing a lot of work to keep his families living standard and barely rests. Shouldn't you try to see why he is aloof and what other factors are involved before you pass judgment? Characteristic of dear Cara,she once again thinks all women are perfect and must have good reasons for whatever evil things they do. When will CARA et al be emancipated from the poor-wronged-women complex and become impartial? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
