Qac Qaac Posted August 26, 2004 Hey this question just came to my head, is basically for the ladies. who live in western countries. my question is would u ladies go with ur husband if he wants to live in Somalia. 4 ever. or u would tell him no can't do sir. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Passion_4_Fashion Posted August 26, 2004 ^^^bal tan aan ka fiirsado....(waa su'aal fiican) xaalada hada ey ku sugan tahay Soomaliya, runti ma'aha meel loo guuri karo. Allaha naxariista baan ka baryeynaa inuu wadanki noo hagaajiyo. Bal hadaan u soo noqdo su'aashaadi, labada quf marki ey is gursadaan sidaad u ogtahay'ba wax kastoo weey kawada dhexeeyaan, sida shirkad camal. aniga qaas ahaan wexey ila tahay naagta wax garadka eh oo weli haysato dhaqankeedi regardless of qurbada kusoo kortay baa dhaqan karta odigeeda. su'aal baa meeshaan ka dhalaneesa, taasoo eh; Goormuu familka dhaqmi karaa? taas jawaabteeda waxaa waaye, midda uugu muhiimsan iney tahay ninkoo la dareensiiyo inuu yahay Rajjaalka gurika (head of household), shaqadaasna wexey u go'an tahay xaaska, sababtoo eh raggeena annaka (dumarka) baa qiimo u yeeli karna ama bah dili karna run ahaanti. Inkastoo ninka yahay odigi guriga, laga maarmaan waxaa eh inuu latashto xaaskiisa arin kastoo ku cusub, maxaa yeelay taasi wexey u sabab noqoneesaa IS AF GARAD (everyone can speak their mind) markaasna go'aan baa meel la isla dhigayaa. waxaan kusoo koobayaa...labadii quf oo xikmadaas leh baa is dhaqan kara, weyna ka dhax bixi karaan imtixaanka aduunka. aniga hadii uu yahay odigeyga waxa kor aan uuga soo hadlay, haa waan la guuri lahaay, inleen qufna lama rabo dhibaato reerkiisa. PS, Ilaaheey hanaga wada dhigo umadii isku dhaqanta, aamiin. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Reality Check Posted August 26, 2004 Personally, heck no! If he has "dano" there, let him go and take care of it. But I have no business going there, unless I want drop everything that I know, have or invested in to go back to a land that I hardly know. Besides, if one is married, they typically talk about stuff like this ahead of time, and see how their partner feels. To be honest, the life of a nomad is really not the life for me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Qac Qaac Posted August 26, 2004 Lol @ waryaa dude nin waalan baa tahay. 911 badan na waa sugi doontaa. thanks ladies for the 2 different answers u gave out. thanks DA. thanks the persecuted reformer, reformerkii horay loo dilay. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Xarago Posted August 26, 2004 Qacbaro , waa ujeeda dhaqan celis ayad kusocota lakiin suashada waa mid mesha ku jidha. Horta sideedaba dani waxay ku jidha wax uu dan ah labadaqofood, ayatiin koda iyo dhalankooda hadi Illah (SWT) uu wax si yay. Horey aya waxa lo yidhi "nag ku rabta diriin wey kugu la sexaan". Aduunkan aan hadi nimiid ayad moda in ay dadki indha uu fudhen oo danwadagti laga tagey...marka sasabasho iyo xeelad dheraad ah ayey ka rabta qanciin. So kob nagti ku rabta wey kula gudh, midi aan ku rabiin de waa howlaheeda iyo danaha marakiibta. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GlassEyeGirl Posted August 26, 2004 Good question Qac. Soomaaliya aan aadno ma xumaa, waamaxay sababtu. If the husband has business apportunities in Somaliya and will be able to take care of me and the family, most definitely or if he's being deported lol. Laakiin, let's go back to Somaliya because I missed the weather and caano gaal, it's not gonna fly. Eventhough the husband is the head of the house hold and he's the one who should be making such a decision for the family, laakinsa what if things don't work out in Somali and I'm asking my family to send me labo boqol in xawaaladaha. What will happen to my degree and job, am I suppose to just up and leave. I don't know. Sheeko macquul ah haduu ilaa yimaado haa, hadii kale..alahaa ka ala aboow. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Juxa Posted August 26, 2004 sa wr wb, reformer i do agree. its all about what labada qof ku hishiiyaan. whatever reerka maslaxadiisa ku jirto, and always its good, in familka hal meel isla joogaan. to answer the Q, yes i would go bck, wixi umada qabaan la qabtaa,,,,where ever my wali is,,,,,,that is where my life is. iam sure he aint gonna risk our lives,,,,so case closed Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Xarago Posted August 26, 2004 ^^^ waa hablihi la yaqaan oo aan dahsoneyn^^ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nuune Posted August 26, 2004 ^^^^^ been maadan sheegin wallee Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Qac Qaac Posted August 27, 2004 ar taas way i kor martay. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Juxa Posted August 27, 2004 story of yr life? such a common men trivia. wax kastaa ku kormara. its like u aint even here. madaxaaga korkiisa aa hadalka maraa. i think i changed my mind, i dont know to what. bt i come bck with the whys Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rahima Posted August 27, 2004 Yes of course! But only in one of 3 cities. Otherwise Mombasa for me, close enough to home and a Muslim area. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Qac Qaac Posted August 27, 2004 juxa.. bax ii soo qabo nooh, waxa i kormaray. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Juxa Posted August 28, 2004 ^^^^^^^^taxtal amrak, dooro yaaqaboooooooooy. iam gone, looking for it Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Qac Qaac Posted August 28, 2004 maanta yaa kuu duceeyay waxbaa dhageysanoosaaye. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites