Hunguri Posted March 5, 2007 Aliya, the guy has a good name, that would match the prayer , Yeah, Sheekhoow Kulmiye dee waxkale garan maynee Alla hakula kulmiyo tu yaroo daadax ah . Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted March 5, 2007 hungru lol havent thought of that ...thanks for pointing it out, guess he didnt need any du'a hahaha wa salaamu alaikum Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Paragon Posted March 5, 2007 Originally posted by Hunguri: Aliya, the guy has a good name, that would match the prayer , Yeah, Sheekhoow Kulmiye dee waxkale garan maynee Alla hakula kulmiyo tu yaroo daadax ah . Amiin, Hunguri. Allow sahal umuuraha. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jacaylbaro Posted March 5, 2007 Ilaahay hungurina mid hunguriga u buuxisa ha siiyo ,,,,, Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hunguri Posted March 5, 2007 Aamiin Allahayow Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Crystal_Clear Posted March 5, 2007 Yaa ku haboon in laguursado? The tall one the short one the fat one the skinny one the ugly one the pretty one aniga ayaada the "sheeqeda" the not so "sheeqad" one almost sheeqada ceeyal suuqata the educated one the geeljirad! the divorced one single motherka the widow the old one the young one ..........tii adiga kuu cajiibeso kuurso! they say marriage is like putting your hand in dark hole,you dont really know what you're getting out .....good luck! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted March 5, 2007 crystal clear lol I would have to disagree with u, marriage is not like putting yr hand in a hole as u put it. If u dated a guy for few years before u tied the knot, I am sure u have an idea what you are getting yrself into, unless ofcourse u are referring to arrange marriage, a farah yr parents selected for ye, den I can clearly understanding where u are coming from wa salaaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted March 5, 2007 ^^what makes you think they will not put on a face for a few years (or the few hrs you see them) then you get married then its too late for ya to make a runner, you can only limp fromt he scene a couple of years later! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted March 5, 2007 ibtisaam walaal from my point of view I dont think a guy can pretend to be what he is not for few years,,,,lets say 2 years???....ofcourse he could hide sum aspects of his personality, bt not all, u have to have at least sum idea of what u are getting yrself into. If it doesnt work out , at the end of the day u gonna divorce him ofcourse, bt thats why there is something called "dating" so at least u get to know him to sum extent. wa salaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ameen Posted March 5, 2007 AAliyah, I can see where you’re coming from and where you are headed and you do have a point. BUT! To be completely honest (and since I’m a guy I should know a little more) a guy, as you said can’t possibly conceal his entire personality especially if the relationship is being dragged on. However, he can always conceal the worst part of his character and later (unwillingly) present that to you as a "wedding gift" (I’m sure that wasn’t the wedding gift you were expecting) hence why they say “dating is just a big waste of time” (not to mention Haraam). So if we can’t date Islamically and reality makes it clear to us that dating brings about more evil than good, than how do we go about it? Ummm....ummm....the question that many people have been asking themselves but the answer never really came to them. and Allah knows best Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted March 5, 2007 well I wouldnt say dating is a waste of time like I said earlier u would know about the brother, and sum of his personality. Perhaps he would hide the worst part of his personality, but lets not forget that there is possiblity that you might be able to know of it , since u two are dating for a few years like I said maybe 2 or even 3 years .so I would say it is better to date den to just marry right off, and it is not haraam. Well when I say dating I mean getting to know a brother and nothing more , ofcourse intimacy and all that should be left for after marriage.. wa salaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cara. Posted March 5, 2007 Originally posted by Paragon: 1- Ma naag aad adiga qabto ama guursatooo kuu og ninnimadaada, mise; 2- Naag aad iska qabtaan ama is guursataan oo dooneysa talada reerka in aad wada qaybsataan? LOL. Translation: 1. Underage doormat 2. Adult Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emperor Posted March 5, 2007 Su'aal: Yaa ku haboon in laguursado? Jawaab: Sheherazade Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sheherazade Posted March 5, 2007 ^LoooL. To answer your question, poster: mid kaa fiican. You can't go wrong there. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jacaylbaro Posted March 6, 2007 looooooooooooooooooool@Emperor ,,,, Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites