checkmate Posted September 17, 2004 Baashi, thaank you walaalkiis and walaahi i have thought of that stuff and done it already, but what skipped my mind was, that she is at a stage of being very very picky/walac. usually soon as she gets home, i pop a precooked macarooni&cheese in the microwave, have it ready in 5min.But nooo she craves for something different in every 20min or so, if i can't make it, i have to go out and get it....at this stage dumarka that are having baby for the fisrt time are unpredictable sxb. marka amar dowlo waa in aan adeecno........baashi xalay cunto aan kariyey, ilaa saqdhexe ay u soo kacaysay si ay u biis biisto...walaalkiis shaqo iiga soo raadi.hotelada waan qalin jibiyayee xataa safaari NIcolte ku taala waan u shaqaynaa Khery, a lot of times waxaa shaki iga gala, in aad tahay nin waligii aan xil qaadin ama nin xilqaaday oo xilqaad micnihiisaba aqoon. hadaba aan run kuu sheego sxb....Ninka ragi ah wuxuu mutaysan yahay in uu reerkiisa dhaqo, taa soo soo raacda dulqaad, naxariis, garasho, dareen iyo damiirnimo walaalkiis....micnaha aad reerka ku dhaqaysid kuma fadhiyo in aad dhariga oo qura keentid, ee micnihu waa mid kaa ka qaalisan... i hope you realize that intaadan qaangaar noqon, qarul sa'uul in aad tahay baan kaa dhadhansaday sxb, igana raali ahoow hadaan kuugu xadgudbay AS, boooooooy am i glad i ain't married to you (just kidding)loool...thaanx for the advice, but am the type of faarax that likes the learn namean betta late then neva....cleaning and laundry am familiar with and cooking is now a pending process insha allaah asxantu Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Qac Qaac Posted September 18, 2004 Brother waxana dhan la isku heestoba waa intaas, helping the family.. how/when/what/ all those questions waa in laga jawaabaa b4 aa la isku bood boodin.. akhyaaroow gabdhahaan waxay rabaan in wax laga kariyo.. so haddaba iska sii ogoo what kind of woman u r marrying... pls ppl. let's not use hadiths to prove our points.. that is dangerous.. hadiths don't contradict.. we shouldn't be having our own agendas about the hadiths... the part of woman not cooking is exactly right... no one is arguing about it... but love starts when the two ppl help each other, and cook for themselves if they don't do that to each other.. then how and where is the love gonna come from.. anyways... we supposed to be human.. if some one is tire, the other person should cook. girls/guys pls naga dhaafa sidaan i am scared wallahi for the future somali houses or families.. this kind of argumentative will always be held at home... culture clashes... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Juxa Posted September 18, 2004 sa wr wb, just wanted to comment on the suggestions of send her away? to her relatives :rolleyes: :rolleyes: i dont get it. who is the father of the baby? you are? who is the husband? you are? marka yaa dhibka iskaga dhigaysaa? comeon, dhexdo xero and be a MAN qacbaro, your Qs are good, but i really dont see what the big deal is. waxan dhan named shaqo guri does not take more than 2 hrs and yes that includes even vocuuming the entire bloody house. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Qac Qaac Posted September 18, 2004 as long as, ee aniga isoo gaarin labadaas saacadood gees iga mari.. hooverta, windex.. iyo wlm ah. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
checkmate Posted September 21, 2004 looooool@qacbaro ileen vacuuming aad ka cabsataa sxb.....walee way ku sugi shaqo badan asxantu Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
raula Posted September 21, 2004 ^^^waxaan ku weydiha jaale maxaad machineka uu rakibeyse hadaad wacdarada ka timaado adna xamili karin :eek: (ma yarreysato waad ogtahay) laguguma so korin miya alaabahas hadaad taabatid-waa ku dhamaate cajiib. waxaa la yiri jini ninkii keena bixiya ..adi le og sidaad u habeyn laheyd ariintaas. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
checkmate Posted September 21, 2004 loooooooool@raula....ooo hadaanan aniga rakibin machineka yaa rakibi lahaa? waa su'aalee lool......sheekada hada jini ninkii keena aa bixiya ma taagnee waxay taagan tahay insaankaan ninkii keenaa korsada lool ...... asxantu Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bess. Posted September 23, 2004 Originally posted by Qacbaro: Brother waxana dhan la isku heestoba waa intaas, helping the family.. how/when/what/ all those questions waa in laga jawaabaa b4 aa la isku bood boodin.. akhyaaroow gabdhahaan waxay rabaan in wax laga kariyo.. so haddaba iska sii ogoo what kind of woman u r marrying... pls ppl. let's not use hadiths to prove our points.. that is dangerous.. hadiths don't contradict.. we shouldn't be having our own agendas about the hadiths... the part of woman not cooking is exactly right... no one is arguing about it... but love starts when the two ppl help each other, and cook for themselves if they don't do that to each other.. then how and where is the love gonna come from.. anyways... we supposed to be human.. if some one is tire, the other person should cook. girls/guys pls naga dhaafa sidaan i am scared wallahi for the future somali houses or families.. this kind of argumentative will always be held at home... culture clashes... BRAVO ...WOW...qacbaro i think u get the point ...it is not about the cooking or cleaning literaly....i think it is about being supportive of ur spouse...and if we don't have support, wat do we have...where is the love ppl?..... respect Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Qac Qaac Posted September 23, 2004 let's celebrate Besbaaso we agreed on something oooooh aaaaah... yeah of course it is about the supportive part.. but hope we see that the same way.. it may differ depending how u see it, from which angle.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bess. Posted September 23, 2004 i doubt we see it the same way..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tuujiye Posted September 23, 2004 Abootooy!!! qacbaro abidkaa qorax kor ka maka nuurin, laakiin hadee ka nuuroysaa. "shabshololob gadaal shololob aabaloo baaq aan wadnaa...Isii Isaar.."..lol..Ani baaq aan meeshaan ka dareemay nooh.. cafimaad badanaa!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Qac Qaac Posted September 24, 2004 i doubt we see it the same way..... Definately not.. I don't think i see it, the same as u.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
