biG mOm Posted April 26, 2003 - I Wake up my wife for Fajr. - I teach my wife, and I do all it takes for her to learn Islam. - I talk to my family about the example of the Prophet, sallallaahu alayhewa sallam and I strive to emulate his example as a husband. - I know it is my responsibility to help with housework and I give my wife days off and do the work she would normally do. - I assist my wife in the care of our children. - I am patient with my wife and I show her love and affection. - I speak to my wife in a kind, respectful and gentle manner. - I sit with my family and present topics for discussion. - I ask my wife for advice and I accept and appreciate getting constructive criticism from her. - I take my wife out for recreation and exercise. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shyhem Posted April 28, 2003 U see i rarely do all the things u mentioned above and thats the reasons im interested in an extremely good and decent lady so she can say "my dear husband wake up its time for fajr prayers" I'm not a good man, but a good women beside me won't hurt the relationship. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
biG mOm Posted April 28, 2003 looooool shyhem good luck brother Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Iffah Posted April 28, 2003 BigMom...thanks for that piece. May we all end up with a good man that does all that and more Guys--Hope you find what you're looking for as well. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Batuulo Posted April 29, 2003 :rolleyes: he wake up to you.. he assist you.. masha allaah you are very lucky. make him du'aa as he did.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
biG mOm Posted April 30, 2003 masha allaah ty guys THE CLOWN - bro- ask your allah help, you w'll get nice one Insha Allaah. Ilhaam ty dear. Batuulo eedo lol I got you nice dirac. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
muslim sis Posted May 8, 2003 mashaa alaah big mom i don't think our male can be like that.. alaahu akbar jasaaka alaah kher mom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites