ponyboy Posted January 24, 2002 opinion polls shaw that most somalian are not happy the way they look, female are generally less content with their appearence then male. ask your self do I have self-steam? what is your opinion? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lulla Posted January 24, 2002 I totally agree with you.I had to struggle with my self-esteem but now i have very high self-esteem.I don't think it is just somalis that go through that phrase when u are not sure of urself.Everyone struggles with self-esteem sooner or later.They say the hardest thing is loving urself and accepting urself for who are and that takes time.So the job of founding who u are is not that easy.I didn't used to like the way i look.I mean i was tall for my age and i hate that.Now it is different story.I love my height. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jaber Posted January 24, 2002 Humans have the habit of never being content with what they have,take me for example,at age 18 I was in the best shape of my life weighed less but had the adorable 6 pack and eveything I wore no matter what looked good on me,still I was unhappy with my looks and wanted to gain few extra mass pounds and workout alot,I joined the gym and did both infact I gained more than I needed to a whopping 221lbs and I sarted to feel different,my cloths don't fit me no more,I can't run as fast as I use to,no 6 packs no matter how hard I try,I do a 100 situps and 65 pushups b4 I go to bed evernight with no or little success,now am trying to lose what I gained!...There you have it buddy,we never seem to be happy with what we got. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
imam.abdullah Posted January 28, 2002 cool topic yo even my self i have trouple my height lol and handsome owe some nigga Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RayZak Posted January 29, 2002 i know..am feeling.. me , ma self,,i .am skinny ..u know how that chickens legs are like?....even though i got the ups u know.. 6 packs.i hoop at the ymca n lift weights....am tryin to gain weight..and u guys tellin me that u r strugglin to loss it...every night, i drink like 3 to 4 glasses and 25% peanut butter.with half rooti ,1 percent each.lol..but i never felt that i gained something or so...i would be happy to have some advices on how to gain weight.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miskiin-Macruuf-Aqiyaar Posted January 29, 2002 Salaan... Why not? Absolutely. Oh, of cousse I am not a perfect, but I am very content the way I look--or supposed to look--today. Any further personal questions? __________________ Macsalaama!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hibo Posted January 30, 2002 I am not a 100% happy with what I've got....but I am working towards accepting what Allah has given me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hibo Posted January 30, 2002 "i feeel good baby" by James Brown, lol thats me Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Baydan Posted January 30, 2002 AlaxmaduLilaah, I have no complains. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ponyboy Posted January 31, 2002 do you think its cool topic? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ONKOD Posted January 31, 2002 CALIENTE BABY.....TOO HOT.. AUCH!!! ALL@$%^..... A BAG OF NACHOS WITH JALOPENO. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Honesita Posted February 1, 2002 I think we all should do this.....instead of looking at pple cuter than us....we should look at pple who r uglier....or should i say less attractive than ur self....!!! Iimaankaa kuu dagaaya....!!! Me....alxamdulilaah....everythin' that is wrong with me is somethin' correctable...but lazy asses like me dont put da effort....all they do is complain.....!!! It'll neva get me any where i'm sure....!!! Salaamz ------------------ Another piece of my ultimate honesty...! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hibo Posted February 1, 2002 Salaam lol Honesita abaayo no need to look at people less attractive then u to make u feel good...all we need to remember is that Allah (swt) created all of us...and Allah (swt) did not create anything ugly, therefore we all look good Alhumdullilah, I got my two hands and feet all working in the way the should be working no complaints...when I look myself in the mirror, no matter what anyone tells me...I know I am beautiful because Allah (swt) has created me! Ma'salaama ppl Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hibo Posted February 1, 2002 Salaam here is a poem for everyone... Beautiful face Delicate features Her shiny Silky hair Cascades against the outline Of her firm jaw She attracts many Amazed by her irresistible beauty And she grins because She knows Always knows what to say How to act To keep them all hers She knows her life will always be Just like her Perfect… But look a little further And you will see Her beauty Is only skin deep On the inside She is repulsive A hollow statue Shallow and fake Not a care in the world surpassing her An artificial beauty That ill continue to fool people But she is only an illusion Stripped of all dignity… Is this what we call beauty? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hibo Posted February 1, 2002 i feel blessed.. Alxamdulilaah... even them models don't bug me .. cos unlike them everything i got is real. Alxamdulilah. We live in a society that loves o dictate everything to us, what we eat, what we watch, what we hear, what we like and how we look. Thats why you get so many people trying to be someone else. Hence the result of the opinion pole. I guess i fitted into that category when i was younger, but now i get agetated at people who complian about their looks. Honesita, nayaaaaaaa sujuu nimadaadii haday soo baxdey ... somaaliyad weligeed ma dhahdo wax baa iga xun! p.s chat 2 U soon .... waan soo socdaayee no court order yet pls!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites