murefu Posted October 11, 2006 i dont mean to criticize somali women but for real it exist among you guys, it is like you living in imagination boggling? when you see somali man whom u dont know u simply change ur condition, there is something wrong in you that makes you overact someone you are not.something that deviating you from ur normal condition, there must be something i can't understand..are somali men causes this deviation, or you living in imagination boggling..or most of u going to be mad... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Valenteenah. Posted October 11, 2006 Maxaa dhacay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
N.O.R.F Posted October 11, 2006 i think your onto something there Murefu,,, Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Che -Guevara Posted October 11, 2006 I don't know , but it might be the nature of Somali women to scorn Somali men. Something lights up in their head and turns them into little monsters. I remember one time I was with my brother on train. As we boarded the train, we saw this gal standing right across us. My brother glanced her way, and said "A/calaykuM". Big mistake, I have never seen someone change the face expression that fast (lighting fast..lol), such contempt on this woman's face. It was like we killed her father or violated her in some manner. You should have seen the look on my bro's face, and I started cracking up. Well that didn't help the situation. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ms DD Posted October 11, 2006 Salaam Che If it was me, i would smile and reply back a better salaam " Wa aleykum salaam Waraxmatullahi wabarakaato". Oh..and i am female. Not every women are the same. There is nothing in our nature that scorns our male folks. If we do this, who can we save for our chilled, laidback nature? Lets not generalise eh? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Che -Guevara Posted October 11, 2006 W/Calaykum. Didn't generalise walaal, and dat's why I only speak of my experience. Of course I realise not every Somali woman would have reacted the same way,but it is something in culture that nurtures for lack of better word Haruuf by girls towards their menfolk. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ms DD Posted October 11, 2006 lol@huruuf.... The only reason i could think of is "many guys try it on and the guys dont take into account where they are at that time (i remember a guy hitting on a girl outside the masjid) or sometimes they cant guage whether the girl is having bad day or if she is having none of it. They just dont get the hint. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
murefu Posted October 12, 2006 i asked one of my friend Whay somali ladies make Haruuf When they see somali man around and her reply was: she is so eager to date...if i was woman i wouldn't not do that, just give smile and happy face.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
murefu Posted October 12, 2006 Che ..same happened to me at the time i was writting this post, it is a second time this happened ..i simply asked are you somali right? but unfortunatly i got receivt Haruuf plus rude reaction to my Q...her answer was iam not somali ..i am from ethopia.. i never ever mistake typical somalilady from galkacyo for ethopians...after someminutes her mobile ring and she answered in somali language..i tried to help here but..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
raula Posted October 12, 2006 lol@che. I would have cracked up too. Who knows maybe its just our way of cajoling I think back in ancient times nimankii baa umaleyn jireen gabar hadey haruufin maba ahaan mid 'inaba caadi aheeyn' marka they went with the flow ayagiina sidii bey kutageen dee Sanbuufis waaba suuro ok kiddin. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
murefu Posted October 12, 2006 If it was me, i would smile and reply back a better salaam " Wa aleykum salaam Waraxmatullahi wabarakaato". Oh..and i am female. Not every women are the same. You sound intellectually great ..lakin Halmalaay ayaa bada qurmiya abaayo..if all those ladies were like u..BEELO ayey ahan laheed.. I think there is needy in them that arises tension when they see aman around... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
murefu Posted October 12, 2006 Sanbuufis waaba suuro HMMMM...malmahaan xata wajigoda ma fiiriyo cuz i hate sanbuufis.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Legend of Zu Posted October 12, 2006 ^^^ Then where do you look sxb? Just a question I haven't had any bad experience yet... Murefu...did you talk to her while you were chewing? mise you looked south to her face and then said " Are you Somali? " Ma ogtahay dad neceb baa jira in la weydiiyo soomaali miyaad tahay... their response would be " haddaase, ma soomali inaan ahay baadan u jeeding "... Sxb..hadda ka hor oday soomaali ah baa iyiri "ii tilmaan masaajidka"..markaan u tilmaamay buu iyiri "adeer ma eriterean baad tahay" kaaga darane odaga dhowr jeer buu guriga inagu soo booqday oo horay baan u arkay...bal taas ka tali! Salaamaat Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
murefu Posted October 12, 2006 ZU ..sis she came my job-place for imtixaan, waxa u maleena Next week she will join into this company(the company i am working for) hadana Same department(Marketing), Kaligeed ayey meelfadhiday weyna fikiresay..i was chatting with others..lakin geber somali ..iyada iyo aniga kaliya madoow meesha kanahay soo firi ayaa is dhahay lakin maxa iga racay...waxan ku dhahay somali baad tahay ayaan u maleena? ..qalad miyaa... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Legend of Zu Posted October 12, 2006 ^^^^ Well...am a dude first... I mean sxb..were you checking between the towers [was avoiding to say that] before you said "Soomaali maa tahay?" BTW she prolly got issues! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
