She is your mother...

[Mr.Faarax]

Your Mother

 

1. When you were 1 year old, she fed you and bathed you.

You thanked her by crying all the night.

 

2. When you were 2 years old, she taught you to walk.

You thanked her by running away when she called.

 

3. When you were 3 years old, she made all your meals with love.

You thanked her by tossing your plate on the floor.

 

4. When you were 4 years old, she gave you some crayons.

You thanked her by colouring the dinning room table.

 

5. When you were 5 years old, she dressed you for the holidays.

You thanked her by looping into the nearest pile of mud.

 

6. When you were 6 years old, she walked you into school.

You thanked her by screaming, "I'M NOT GOING".

 

7. When you were 7 years old, she bought you a football.

You thanked her by kicking it through the neighbour's window.

 

8. When you were 8 years old, she handed you an ice-cream.

You thanked her by dripping it all over your lap.

 

9. When you were 9 years old, she paid for Qur'an lessons.

You thanked her by never even bothering to recite it.

 

10. When you were 10 years old, she drove you all day, from soccer to gymnastic to one birthday party after another.

You thanked her by jumping out of the car and never looking back.

 

11. When you were 11 years old, she took you and your friends to the movies.

You thanked her by asking to sit in a different row.

 

12. When you were 12 years old, she warned you not to watch certain TV shows.

You thanked her by waiting until she left the house.

 

13. When you were 13, she suggested a haircut that was becoming.

You thanked her by telling her she had no taste.

 

14. When you were 14, she paid for a month away at summer camp.

You thanked her by forgetting to write a single letter.

 

15. When you were 15, she came home from work, looking for a hug.

You thanked her by having your bedroom door locked.

 

16. When you were 16, she taught you how to drove her car.

You thanked her by taking it every chance you could.

 

17. When you were 17, she was expecting an important call.

You thanked her by being on the phone all night.

 

18. When you were 18, she cried at your school graduation.

You thanked her by staying out partying until dawn.

 

19. When you were 19, she paid for your college tuition, drove you to campus, carried your bags.

You thanked her by saying good-bye outside the dorm so you

wouldn't be embarrassed in front of you friends.

 

20. When you were 20, she asked whether you were seeing anyone.

You thanked her by saying "It's none of you business".

 

21. When you were 21, she suggested certain careers for your future.

You thanked her by saying "I don't want to be like you".

 

22. When you were 22, she hugged you at your college graduation.

You thanked her by asking whether she could pay for a trip to Europe.

 

23. When you were 23, she gave you furniture for your first apartment.

You thanked her by telling your friend it was ugly.

 

24. When you were 24, she met your fiancé and asked about your plans for the future.

You thanked her by glaring and growling, "Muuhh-ther, please!"

 

25. When you were 25, she helped to pay for your wedding, and she cried and told how deeply she loved you.

You thanked her by moving halfway across the country.

 

26. When you were 30, she called with some advice on the baby.

You thanked by telling her, "Things are different now."

 

27. When you were 40, she called to remind you of a relative's birthday.

You thanked her by saying you were "really busy right now."

 

28. When you were 50, she fell ill and needed you to take care of her.

You thanked her by reading about the burden parents become to their children.

 

29. And then, one day, she quietly died. And everything you never did, came crashing down like

thunder on your heart.

 

IF SHE' S STILL AROUND, NEVER FORGET TO LOVE HER MORE THAN EVER. AND IF SHE' S NOT, REMEMBER HER UNCONDITIONAL LOVE, GIVE SADAQAH AND PERFORM OTHER GOOD DEEDS FOR HER & PRAY FOR HER

 

 

your brother in islam

[xiinfaniin]

^^Hooyo waa hooyo, dead or alive, she will always accupy that especial place in her child's heart.

 

Thanks for the reminder.

 

P.S: lol@ at first part of your signature . Waxay dhoosad ?

[TenaciousSoul]

such worderful reminder!

 

3. When you were 3 years old, she made all your meals with love.

You thanked her by tossing your plate on the floor.

in my defense, the plate was greasy :mad:

[Urban]

mr faarax

 

Your post made me wanna call my mum right now.

[Legend of Zu]

Well...Some ppl need a reminder of who their mom is...I don't

[-Nomadique-]

^ More Pertinent question. Why spell Mum like an American?

[Mr.Faarax]

Mums, MOM, Umii, Hooyo, Mama, Umaayey..whatever name you use, It doesnt matter as long as you say it with love. (Although i hate people who use "mother" when they call their hoyo macaan)

 

But keep it real and tell your hoyo how much you love her. and for the young people who spend their time beefin' grillin' speakin dat ghetto language' Keep it real keep it gangsta show your moms some lov' and for the intelectual political debators spending their time talking about which organizaton will take over what' keep it rational and develop special breifing with your mother-last but not least for the wadads-itaqilaah and share your kheyr and dua with your umii.

 

one love

[Legend of Zu]

Originally posted by Nomadic Princess:

^ More Pertinent question. Why spell Mum like an American?

Well... too much of american programs on Aussie TV

[RedSea]

the Prophet, peace be upon him said, "whoever wants pradise can find it under the mother's feet" just to point out how important in obeying the parents is, the mother especially.

 

lol @xiin, so seriously don't you know what Dhoosad means? I can't tell ya, it's very nasty term.

[Modesty]

That was so beautiful, i got teary eyed thinking about my mom, and how I should be a better daughter.

[Rahima]

Well... too much of american programs on Aussie TV

Not good enough sir, I’ve already started the petition to have your citizenship cancelled.

 

This is truly sad!

[uchi]

Thank you Faarax, I really needed that

 

 

On another note:

 

I should get going, I need to move, find an apartment find a fiance' and get married. From those dates 23 isn't far off.

[Mowgli]

oh mummy...how i jacayl thee

 

Beautiful post

[Aaliyyah]

Asalaamu alaikum

 

When I read this post. Walahi it made me cry. But, I have no memory of what I use to do back when I was younger :mad: . However, from the day that I matured till today I have always been here for my mom , as much as she is been here for me. Alhamdu lilaah I will strive harder to make her happy as long as I live. Nabiga csw wuxu yidhi “ janada waxay tahay hoosta lugaha hoyooyinka†>>ina janatu taxta aqdaama umahaat. Which reminds us how important it is to please our mothers. Remember this hadith whenever you get angry at your mom or vice versa. And do bear in mind if ur mom ever tells you something and you think it is not the right thing for you, just let her know without being hard on her, because you know your mom wants the best for you. on top of it she was pregnant with us for 9 months , it is beyond my comprehension how can we not always be there for her? :confused:

 

Wa salaam.

[Didi Kong]

Originally posted by Mr.Faarax:

Mums, MOM, Umii, Hooyo, Mama, Umaayey..whatever name you use, It doesnt matter as long as you say it with love. (Although i hate people who use "mother" when they call their hoyo macaan)

I call my mom my 'amijaan'. :cool: