Girls a Question for you

[NGONGE]

Mrs F,

 

Unlike you, Malika is full of naxarees. I welcome her head biting anytime.

 

But I stand by my original thought. Women, in general, are thick.

 

I mean look at some of the girls there. They are asking about an experienced man as opposed to a virgin. How experienced is experienced? A porn star?

 

Because, surely, a man that made a couple of mistakes could not be called 'experienced' and would hardly arrive equipped with any extraordinary knowledge.

 

And, since the birds, bees or even stray dogs never bother themselves with such self-created dilemmas, even though they are brainless animals, it stands to reason for one to conclude that women, in general, are thick.

[Malika]

^Oh my daisy! With all the human evolution,you compare us against animals? taani baa noogu daraan mantaa.. :mad:

 

Will be back,with the safeeta.

[sheherazade]

Originally posted by NGONGE:

And, since the birds, bees or even stray dogs never bother themselves with such self-created dilemmas, even though they are brainless animals, it stands to reason for one to conclude that women, in general, are thick.

Who says men are logical creatures? WTF was that? Not had that 100th cuppa yet, dear? Fear of the SL visit hoovering out the brain cells? Come on.

[Faheema.]

^

 

Malika, maxaan ku lahaa ka hortag inaatu ka darin

 

NGONGE, we'll see about that

[MZanzi]

I guess women are at a disadvantage because their anatomy allows them to detect their virginity! Men can sow their seeds at random and no one would ever figure out.

[Chocolate and Honey]

Often the polite little Somali brother who prays, goes to Uni and finds a good job does all of this without compromising himself, culture and his deen. I’m not talking about Holy-boys but real, honest “proper” Somali dudes who are just as shy but just as horny as you are to marry-but decide to wait and marry properly like the rest of us. Dudes like my own brothers…

 

I’d even go as far as to say the majority like 90 of Somali dudes are within this category then the 10% who sweet talk you, flutter their lashes and tempt you into giving up your sharaf.

 

This is where you are completely wrong, dear. The majority(90%) of them TRY and I mean with all their might to sweet talk YOU in the hopes of commiting a faaxisha with them. Only about 10% are god fearing and decent.

I HAVE never met a Somali guy who is a virgin(not that I interviewed all of them, mind you :rolleyes: you can tell by their life-style and the way they treat women like objects to be possesed).

So most girls dont have the luxury of saying NO THANKS, If you aint a virgin .

 

My friends and I are were having a similar conversation about the DOUBLE-STANDARDS. We were talking about how EVERY former playboy-married friend or cousin or a distant relative, ended up with VIRGINS, innocent little girls. And my friend was like thats not fair in fact, it isnt supposed happen like that. If you're a ZAANI, you're supposed to end up with Zaaniyah but how the HELL did all these dudes who've been arround the block TOO many times ended up with virgins? :confused: Please someone explain the context for this Aaayah.

[Ducaysane]

If a man is in love with you, He will careless about your virginity. pluss, If you are looking for an expreirenced man chances are you also have an expereince.

[NGONGE]

I rest my case.

[LayZie G.]

I HAVE never met a Somali guy who is a virgin(not that I interviewed all of them, mind you you can tell by their life-style and the way they treat women like objects to be possesed).

xataa the infamous teddy is not a virgin??? thats a shame, considering that he will end up with a honey like you.

[Cara.]

Isku xishood Layzie.

 

Ngonge, you too! You know I never read The_Siren's posts too thoroughly for fear of receiving a lesson too graphic to unlearn

 

But I agree with you and Ibti to some extent, the girls have been all over the place on this one. I can only assume it's some sort of biological mechanism to perpetuate the species. Do you know the first thing a male lion does when he takes over a pride? He kills all the young cubs. And do you know what all the lionesses do, after seeing him crush their babies' skulls in? They go into heat and mate with him right away. This is thread reminds me of that phenomenon to some extent...

[The_Siren]

Chocolate-Honey- Sister, simply because you've never met any clean sharaf filled V-boys doesn't mean they don't exist. I personally have met plenty and trust me its not hard for a Somali boy NOT to be a virgin unless he's the type to shag other AJANABEE's. Usually you don't have the time to meet other Somalis and often our ladies don't give up their nachos (Lady bits) so they don't get any either until the wedding night.

 

Sheherazade LOL I apologize when I get a little vexed sometimes I fall into grave smutty mouthed sin. I shall endeavor to repress this silliness.

 

Ps Simply because Society is corrupt enough to accept double standard imbecility is by no means a reason for us to accept its terms. We must strive to uphold some semblance of morality and a free sense of fair justice. If I'm anything I'm fair, so no horny buggers for me. Well, not if their of the haram (Alaa ceebta_ variety) anyway.

 

Ps the ones that shag all kinds are the ones that hang out in sleazy, horny Moroccan sheesha joints (I'm not judging but those places make me laugh) and rub themselves over you in weddings.

 

Che- And what others reasons could this growing fondness of yours be due to?

[Ducaysane]

The Siren don't worry about Sheh, she is rarely comes in here. keep posting all you want. your threads are the bomb.

[Legend of Zu]

^^^ A female version of you, eh?

 

As long as there are no videos ala Paris Hilton, Kim kardashian - roaming around the net then no worries...

 

Cheers

[Aaliyyah]

I agree with siren ..Somali society is double standard. Like read their proverbs there are mostly anti-women...like gabadh god ku jir ama guri..naag iyo caruur labada wa la sasaba...thats just to count few. But coming back to the topic will you honestly even know if a guy is pure or not. I doubt you can, so theres no need to fuss. Just put your faith in Allah swt that you will find someone clean and faithful. As Allah swt said idkurnii adukurukum (remember me I will remember you)...am sure if a sister is religious and keeps herself in the right Path Allah swt will protect her...

 

my 2cents

 

salaaam

[Indhoos]

May be if a lady stays "pure," she will end up w/

a "pure" guy. And may be all of the guys who are claiming to be experienced are just bragging their ... off. Considering all the stories about who did what is from the male population (I am yet to meet a girl who says that she has slept with what-was-his-face) Which goes back to bragging.

And if there is anyone who can claim that they have seen what-was-his-face making an "experience" w/ whatchamacallher...

Well look at it this way...

If it is a guy "Negro Please"

If it is a lady, (here goes the double standard) We question your......(Darn it, I could not finish it)

 

Bottom line, zaani with zaani, and bikr with bikr, no matter what the advertized reputation looks like.