“Somali Men find themselves dispensable, with no meaningful role and no stake in the future,” says World Bank-funded study

[Admin]

 

NAIROBI (Thomson Reuters Foundation) - In Somali culture, men are expected to provide all household needs, from food to security. However, many women have become breadwinners since the 1991 ouster of Dictator Siad Barre, creating an identity crisis for men.

 

Many Somali men are addicted to an amphetamine-like drug called khat, traumatized, depressed and physically disabled, the study found.

 

"Men find themselves dispensable, with no meaningful role and no stake in the future," said the World Bank-funded study, based on interviews with 400 men and 90 women living in Somalia and neighboring Kenya.

 

"Men of all ages and backgrounds commonly recalled periods when they experienced some form of mental breakdown."

 

Khat, a leaf that is chewed for several hours, has become a "social epidemic," said Said Mohamed, one of the researchers.

 

"It's a way to escape from reality," he said. "Men feel useless."

 

After the collapse of Barre's government, which was the country's major employer, many Somali men lost their jobs, causing a "personal catastrophe for many men, from which many have not recovered," the report said.

 

Those living as refugees in Kenya are legally barred from working or leaving the camps, and depend on aid agency rations given to their wives.

 

"He lost respect in the house," a mother of seven said about her husband in the report. "Even his children do not listen to him."

 

Young men are under increasing pressure to provide for their families, often through illegal means such as piracy or through the barrel of a gun, the researchers from the Rift Valley Institute Nairobi Forum said.

 

"The picture that emerges is really a very depressing one," said Judith Gardner, one of the report's authors.

 

The men "join al Shabaab or another militia group that would pay (them) a salary ... or (they) try to escape to Kenya," she said.

 

Rates of divorce were reported to be "very high," with some men in their 20s having been married more than three times.

 

Verbal abuse of men by women has also increased, the study said.

 

"When I come home in the evening I will find her with some meager income she has earned that makes her think she has taken over responsibility for the family," one man told the researchers. "She will start yelling at me, 'He is sitting there idly!'"

 

Men have started seeking wives to support them financially, the study found.

 

Most common are "Diaspora marriages" with Somali women overseas, or "gigolo" arrangements in which "a young, healthy man marries an older woman to live as her sexual companion, assistant and financial dependent."

 

The researchers called on donors to pay greater attention to men's needs.

 

"There are lot of men who have suffered enormously and are not getting any support," said Judy El-Bushra, one of the report's authors.

 

Source: http://www.catholic.org

[Tallaabo]

At last the much awaited transformation of the Somali society is successfully nearing its completion. These are the times when the role of the silly, aggressive, and completely useless Somali man is reduced to a mere sperm donor :-D

All power to the Somali woman. Our society's future is a matriarchal one. Waa in hooyada lagu abtirsado. The only thing which now needs to happen is for women to take control of politics too.

[Nin-Yaaban]

LooL a sperm donor.

[Dhagax-Tuur]

And the dubious source of the article is catholic.org??

 

Societies can indeed nudged to one direction or another, but this takes the beeswax, if you would pardon my french. Somali men might be in difficulty, to put it lightly, at this point in their history, but they're not out of the picture as this useless piece of so called report calls it.

 

An insult, indeed.

[Tillamook]

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At last the much awaited transformation of the Somali society is successfully nearing its completion. These are the times when the role of the silly, aggressive, and completely useless Somali man is reduced to a mere sperm donor :-D

All power to the Somali woman. Our society's future is a matriarchal one. Waa in hooyada lagu abtirsado. The only thing which now needs to happen is for women to take control of politics too.

 

Hmmm...

 

Horta, xagee baan ku arki jirnay Qaldaan rabo in habar lagu abtirsado?

 

Wait, don't answer that!

 

Lest you expose Tallaabo's obvious bias in advocating for changing the abtiris system from the sperm donors to that of the sperm receptacles of our society.

 

But I only speak in jest... I beg the pardon of our honorable womenfolk

[burahadeer]

truth to the kat problem more than epidemic its catastrophic, nonetheless its more about unemployment but reality far from what is stated above.Men are the bread winners.

[Tallaabo]

It seems a couple of guys here are somewhat averse to the acknowledgement of their mitochondrial lineage!! Can you give us the reasons why you prefer to use your fathers in your identity and not your mothers?

[Alpha Blondy]

the article is little sexed up balse Somali men are useless for the most part. just yesterday, my friend was saying, after seeing a project on early marriages on TV, that it should be lowered even more. he continued...''women were made to bear children, every cycle missed, is a wasted opportunity''. this is the mindset here.

 

the solutions to better our society is within us. outsiders should not dictate.