Guzel Posted August 25, 2013 This is a question to the men, would you restrain yourself from a passionate kiss with a lady you are seeing if both of you have decided not to have sex, but occasionally enjoy fondling, a bit of foreplay? The man in question refuses to kiss,bite, use his tongue, his excuse is it will set him off and he would not be able to stop himself from having full sex? I am finding it hard to believe him, what do you think? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Che -Guevara Posted August 25, 2013 I thought you were married haha To your question now, are you asking the Western audience in SOL or the Somali ones? We have Johnny Bravo answers, Khayr answers, and Nur answers. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cambuulo iyo bun Posted August 25, 2013 LOL nah i wouldn't restrain myself :cool: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Coofle Posted August 25, 2013 Restrain yourself after kissing....A lot of BS... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guzel Posted August 25, 2013 I am asking men in general, is there a point you would stop at before you lose control or isn't that we are always in control and in charge of our minds and bodies. I think a kiss is innocent and should not be witheld, it is the start of intimacy so how can he say it will make him lose control? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wyre Posted August 25, 2013 Im not wadaad but believe me i won't sit next to woman i am not married to forget about kissing her Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Somalia Posted August 25, 2013 Cambuulo iyo bun;974776 wrote: LOL nah i wouldn't restrain myself from men:cool: Oba, Oba wtf man :eek: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cambuulo iyo bun Posted August 25, 2013 whoa dafuq yo? akh tuf Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Che -Guevara Posted August 25, 2013 Innocent, nagadaa qofyahay. Nothing innocent about two grown azz people exchanging salive. It is only natural he wants to exchange other internal body secretions. Coofle. You forget the fondling part, which could me anything haha Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guzel Posted August 25, 2013 Che -Guevara;974785 wrote: Innocent, nagadaa qofyahay. Nothing innocent about two grown azz people exchanging salive. It is only natural he wants to exchange other internal body secretions. Coofle. You forget the fondling part, which could me anything haha By innocent i mean a kiss will emotionally connect me to him further, it is what i would remember after he leaves my place, he is not opening up to me, i don't want just dry humping, which is fine but without the kissing part, i am left feeling there is something missing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Che -Guevara Posted August 25, 2013 Sheekadu dry humping haday gaadhey, it might be above my pay grade. That said, ultimately a man has control over his urges, but in the context of intimate relationship where sex is implicitly and explicitly expected. It is difficult not act on one's urges. On different point, kissing will set him off but not dry humping...haha Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YoniZ Posted August 25, 2013 Che -Guevara;974791 wrote: Sheekadu dry humping haday gaadhey, it might be above my pay grade. That is classic ya Che :-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cambuulo iyo bun Posted August 25, 2013 Guzel;974787 wrote: By innocent i mean a kiss will emotionally connect me to him further, it is what i would remember after he leaves my place, he is not opening up to me, i don't want just dry humping, which is fine but without the kissing part, i am left feeling there is something missing. LOL if y'all are dry humping why not do the whole shebang? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wyre Posted August 25, 2013 Astaghfurullah war Ghuzel ma dumar baa allow ceeb astur ceeb ma asturnee :D aaway JB suufi bahaluul kiisi iyo Nuune jimankiisi markii loo baahdo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guzel Posted August 25, 2013 Che -Guevara;974791 wrote: Sheekadu dry humping haday gaadhey, it might be above my pay grade. That said, ultimately a man has control over his urges, but in the context of intimate relationship where sex is implicitly and explicitly expected. It is difficult not act on one's urges. On different point, kissing will set him off but not dry humping ...haha Exactly my point, he is the one who puts a stop to the dry humping, i go with the flow and don't resist it, he can then also do the same with kissing if he wanted to. He is full of BS. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites