Mooge Posted March 22, 2013 Men seem to have an evolutionary aversion to becoming sexually attracted to their friends' wives, research claims. A University of Missouri study that found adult males' testosterone levels dropped when they were interacting with the spouse of a close friend. Understanding the biological mechanisms that stop men constantly competing for each others' partners may shed light on how people cooperate to form communities, the research claims. 'Men's testosterone levels generally increase when they are interacting with a potential sexual partner or an enemy's mate. 'However, our findings suggest that men's minds have evolved to foster a situation where the stable pair bonds of friends are respected.' Evolutionarily, men who were constantly betraying their friends' trust and endangering the stability of families may have caused a survival disadvantage for their entire communities, says Professor Flinn. Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-2297528/Do-men-evolutionary-aversion-affairs-friends-wives.html#ixzz2OJB28Cxq Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GaraadMon Posted March 22, 2013 Natural selection :cool:. Nature favours men who haven't had their faces beaten in. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wadani Posted March 22, 2013 There's two types of caddaan men. One type would walk in on the situation in the picture, and then quietly walk out,and go to the kitchen and break a few coffee mugs against the wall. He'll eventually forgive his wife after a few sessions of marital counceling...but she'll resent him for his spineless cowardice and lack of dignity, and once a women loses respect for her man that relationship is history. So not only did he get cheated on he'll get asked for a divorce on top of it....hahahaa. The other type of white guy would go to jail for life. The end. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Reeyo Posted March 22, 2013 LOL. What? Missing the point here Wad. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wadani Posted March 22, 2013 I get the point, but I could help but imagine what the white guy on the other end of the picture would be doing lol. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Reeyo Posted March 22, 2013 It could easily be a black man. As the man in the picture is. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wadani Posted March 22, 2013 I knew u were gonna say that lool. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Reeyo Posted March 22, 2013 Well then don't assume the obvious mate. Stereotyping and misjudging a simple picture Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cara. Posted March 23, 2013 Is there a third option available to non-white men? Like they'd join in or something? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wadani Posted March 23, 2013 Cara.;929496 wrote: Is there a third option available to non-white men? Like they'd join in or something? Hahaa. Non-white men don't have a spineless doormat epidemic. That was my point. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Posted March 23, 2013 ^Being civil isnt being 'spineless' - what will be the point of beating anyone , if you were to find your wife with another man or your man with another woman? ...it wont make him/her love nor respect you or care...marka, as long as someone shows themselves, waa message lagu siyee ee iska socoo weyaan shekadu..no need to beat up people cause they dont love you or respect you enough. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nuune Posted March 23, 2013 ^^ Malika, I don't think love knows wax xishood ah when it comes to these things, waxaan ula jeedaa, dee dareenku haduu kor u kaco jaceyl iyo howlahaasi eey baa cunayo, maaha. glad it is Jinni lady for me though waxaas ma yaqaanaan gogol-dhaafka, waayo each Jinni lady got 2-3 private parts, maxaaba meela kale laga aadi, Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ambassador Posted March 23, 2013 It obviously doesn't work for all men given the amount of people that go behind their so called friends' back or least make the attempt. Does the same to apply to women....I wonder? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Coofle Posted March 27, 2013 Wadani;929413 wrote: There's two types of caddaan men. One type would walk in on the situation in the picture, and then quietly walk out,and go to the kitchen and break a few coffee mugs against the wall. He'll eventually forgive his wife after a few sessions of marital counceling...but she'll resent him for his spineless cowardice and lack of dignity, and once a women loses respect for her man that relationship is history. So not only did he get cheated on he'll get asked for a divorce on top of it....hahahaa. The other type of white guy would go to jail for life. The end. As Somalis that is something we don't expect..Alxamdulilah For being Somali. But it is not worth it to go for jail and lose your life with shame following everywhere unless you are in countries where honor killing is leniently handled. but murder is murder irrespective of the motive even in eyes of Allah... gogol dhaaf is deal breaker,,,,,You can forgive your spouse for everything except that... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
