Wearing white

[somalee]

How can a sane Somali woman with an iota of self-respect ever marry an ajnabi? Waxaas waa filth, naag cadaan u hooyatay waa ish iyo uff. Wallahi dhaqankeena markii la eego, naagta ajnabi guursata waa naag dhimatay. Haduu doono ajnabigu wadaad ha ahaadee. Nasabiyadu waa qaali, wixii qudhun ah unbaa nasabiyada ka gudba.

[Narniah]

GaroweGal;914309 wrote:

I’m beginning to suspect that the likes of Aaaliyah and Narniah are in the closet waiting for a convert who will most likely be a convicted criminal. Girls go ahead and jump in bed with buuryoqab by all means but please stop projecting and promoting your twisted views, ajanabi-loving anti-somali agenda as a model and something to aspire for.

Lol you sound like one bitter woman who got some deep issues. Jump in bed? You sound disturbed and somewhat jealous. Why do you care if they are in bed with their husbands? I'm sure your safely tucked in with your khat chewing 3 times divorced, deadbeat dad taxi driving Somali husband, no?

 

See we all can be ignorant, dumb n throw a few generalizations around but thank god some of us aren't that thick.

 

I just asked someone what buryoqab means hehe. Maybe you don't know this but a lot of Non-Muslims are circumcised by birth because of their religion too and some even do it for their sons because of requirement of health as it's beneficial hygienically.

 

Btw It's also perfectly possible to love your people/culture and marry an ajnabie. Won't make them less of Somalis. Just because you have af deer doesn't mean you are any better than them. So get off your high horse. When you die and your laid in your grave, Allah will not ask you about your Somalinomo but was your af deer safe from other Muslims n his creations? Nope. Maybe you should work on that before you stick ur nose where it doesn't belong? Just a suggestion.

 

I have third generation Indians and Arabs as friends and they would never contemplate marrying outside their own race. In contrast the self-hating Halimos have no hesitation in jumping the convert’s bandwagon and have no qualms in joining the Somali bashing brigade. It appears many Somali sisters on this forum cannot fathom this and would rather prefer that we sugar coat the truth and bury this issue under the carpet, however that’s not me and I say it like I see it, to some this may sound harsh laakiin Rabigeen runtuu jecelyahay.

No one bashed Somalis. We can criticize our people, they aren't Immune from imperfections just like any other community out there. Doesn't mean we hate them or wish them harm. Quit patting urself on ur back. You didn't say anything of value or intelligence. You just threw a few insults around and barked. Let other people be. If you decide to marry a Somali man or already are that's your choice but to wish upon me that I will marry a convict shows you are a bitter evil spirited woman. Maybe you aren't happy with yourself that's why you spread hate. Maybe I will marry a highly educated loving righteous man who Is a revert, or Maybe Allah can inflict upon you that wish upon people. Allah is most just.

 

There's no need for you to say I'm a closet 'revert lover' I have always said I'm totally open to the idea on this forum so It's no secret. I don't see anything wrong with it and vice versa.

 

I also noticed that many of the brothers have their eyes wide open and can see this double standards and disturbing phenomenon and have no problem in calling it like it is.

See I don't care what these brothers think or you. But I see you care, Good luck.

[GaroweGal]

somalee;914620 wrote:

How can a sane Somali woman with an iota of self-respect ever marry an ajnabi? Waxaas waa filth, naag cadaan u hooyatay waa ish iyo uff. Wallahi dhaqankeena markii la eego, naagta ajnabi guursata waa naag dhimatay. Haduu doono ajnabigu wadaad ha ahaadee. Nasabiyadu waa qaali, wixii qudhun ah unbaa nasabiyada ka gudba.

Somalee I couldnt agree more, so thank you for saying it like it is.

[Salahudin]

Narniah u have the right to be buryaqab lover...just stop brainwashing our righteous sisters...

[GaroweGal]

Narniah;914947 wrote:

Lol you sound like one bitter woman who got some deep issues. Jump in bed? You sound disturbed and somewhat jealous. Why do you care if they are in bed with their husbands? I'm sure your safely tucked in with your khat chewing 3 times divorced, deadbeat dad taxi driving Somali husband, no?

I find it funny how you you can comment on my private life when you hardly know me, this just proves how shallow minded and ****** woman you truly are. oops.. didnt realise I hit a raw nerve but I cant help exposing the Ajanabi-loving somali-hating like you.

 

Narniah;914947 wrote:

Btw It's also perfectly possible to love your people/culture and marry an ajnabie. Won't make them less of Somalis.

Again you show your shallow-mindedness, this has to be the dumbest statement I have ever heard.. what a contradictory and callous statement. I am sure no self-respecting Somali would ever contemplate marrying Ajanabi.

 

Narniah;914947 wrote:

]Maybe I will marry a highly educated loving righteous man who Is a revert

There's no need for you to say I'm a closet 'revert lover' I have always said I'm totally open to the idea on this forum so It's no secret. I don't see anything wrong with it and vice versa.

I always wondered why are some Dhoocilo like you self-hating. I probably think the Somali brothers can see your ugly character, personality, and low grade intelligence therefore your only hope of ever getting married is to try your luck with a former criminal who has recently converted. I recall one of the brothers on this forum, I think it was you Che once saying that it is always the ugly Somali chicks who end up marrying outside their race, the reason being they are rejects and left-overs, so I have no doubt you fall into this category quite perfectly. This further underscores and underlines why you so vigorously, viciously and shamelessly advocating for the Ajanabi-loving anti-Somali agenda.

[Che -Guevara]

lool@GaroweGirl, that was misconstrued.

 

But in all seriousness, at this point we know where everyone stands, before it further deteriorates, let's cafis iyo saamax. Let's respectfully disagree with each other day, n live and let live.

[Ibtisam]

Lol This thread is mad! No need to insult each other- each to their own.

 

" Waadigaanse labaati iyo luugah is la weye, meel saare lalamanyee,

 

Liibaantaad addunyaad, ruuxna lasaan maye, maxaa lureey naftaadi"

 

Marrying a foreigner does not first have to be WHITE or revert- there are lots of already-Muslim different races and secondly you can still have no wedding or big wedding depending on what you like as an individual. Lastly marrying a foreigner does not make you any less Somali. Imagine I married a Bangladeshi-Indian and live and work in Somaliland for the most part- who can claim to be more Somali than me Your marriage is WHAT you make of it.

 

Anyone who decides what RACE they are going to marry BEFORE they meet the person is limiting their options.

 

As for the original question on colours. I prefer no wedding, I'd rather be sitting at my house watching TV then posing uncomfortably on a stage bullied by old relatives. But the colour and style must fit your body- no point squeezing into a white dress and looking like a vera wang boat.

 

P.s. On a different note- the mehr for a wedding I am going to in Hargeisa is 900g of gold- that is like $47,000. I asked the guy why, he said this is for show, laakin wey iga saamixi. Is that even normal!!?

[oba hiloowlow]

GarooweGal Somali xalaal baad tahay walahi bilahi. Kudos to you!

[Ibtisam]

Most proper Somalis waa xaraan some would say- their parents probably eloped in the miyi But then again what does anyone know about "real" Somali or not.

[nuune]

lool Soomaali xalaal baad tahey, well idinkey idiin taalaa kolleey anigu Jimankeyga ayaan iskaga jiraa, and I am 100% Somali-Jinni

[Ibtisam]

Oh My God, white revert aa la isku heestey- Now you are on about marrying Jiins. 100% Somali Jiin nevertheless of course!

 

Ninkii dhimaan waaya maxa aragtii kuu laaban!

[oba hiloowlow]

lol did you you feel hit by my words?

[Aaliyyah]

Ibti, the right maahmaah is "ninkii nool maxa aragti u laaban"...Narniah and GG cut it out. Kala xishooda. Aflagaado meel ma lugu tago. Tii somali rabtana somaligeeda ha xareesato, tii kale cadaankeeda. Yaana la is faduulin. Mesha ma waxa la isku khasbaya waxan aaminsanahay amin waa yaab. Each on his own. Kala weynaada,

[nuune]

looool Ibti, wixii la isku heesto soo in laga carara ma ahan, yes, I prefer Jinn qalanjoos to Somali qalanjoos, in fact, I already got few Jinni qalanjoos oo pure ah such as family fiican oo Jinni ka dhashey yacni, it is a long story, will narrate it to you one time.

[Ibtisam]

Oba: No, not at all. I can normal tell the members who are performing much like a peacock in search for mating partner- people act in extremist in the hope of attracting a partner here. So, certain behavior, insulting and bashing here makes perfect sense (proofing how Somali or religious one is compared to others etc- it is only fair those who the performs was put on for respond in kindness).

 

With that said, Aaliya, dont take it personal, we are just in the way of the show, kinda blocking as it were. On a serious note I agree with you.

 

I've heard both saying- I use to use the same one you write laakin people here keep correcting me to use the one I wrote. Oh well, you get the meaning.

 

 

Nuune- I highly doubt it, but all those jiin kids is beyond a Somali qaalanjo.