She Has Expressed Her Love To Me But I Don't Love Her.

[Waranle_Warrior]

I agree with Nuune, stop corrupting the innocent girl and let her be - gabdhaha yaan lagu cayaarin.

[Narniah]

Alpha Blondy;905823 wrote:

listen you scorned woman....,

 

i made my virtual advances to you but you completely ignored me yeah.....i've moved on now and you might as well move on and STOP hating on my latest escapades. STOP being jealous and get on with your life. i'm not coming back. just leave me alone and stop stalking me..OKAY!. have you NO shame......don't you get it or do i have to spell it out for you.....LEAVE ME ALONE.

Loool You really made me laugh, Did I hit a nerve there Alphy! Ouch!

 

...Haha!

 

=D

[Tallaabo]

Alpha Blondy;905494 wrote:

the strangest twist, has suddenly taken what was a blossoming friendship to take a turn for the worst. we meet recently and i cannot seem to recall the exact date but it's about one month and half now. we meet, we clicked, we exchanged contact details. she became a friend and i became a friend but within a wider circle of friends. i've recently left the group to pursue other interests but occasionally meet up with them. that was then, but it seems i'm now a permanent fixture, once more.

 

she was over-friendly from the get-go and that didn't seem to sit very comfortably with me. i was wry and held back to further study this fascinating character. i concluded from these observations that she was harmless and maybe it was just her personality. she's different, you see and has something alluring about her person. i'm often greeting with a wanting peck on the check and another random peck about 59 mins later. it's witnessed by all and yet she seems to care very little. i don't like this. i don't like my private space being invaded like that, especially in front of friends, who look on with indifference. what's more concerning are the intensity of the phone calls, text messages and demands to be added to facebook. i've become reluctant to see my long term friends because she she's now the social glue that binds them together. her constant shouts of

''where are you baby?''

and

''why are you avoiding me?''

are worrisome. she's even given me a pet name but imagine it to be

'Alpha-lino''

 

she's nice and i've already done the SWOT analysis of dating her but these have already concluded a big fat

''NO''

. i'm concerned by her dominatrix-like possessiveness and over-obsessions with me. she knows where i live and since banning all my friends from visits to my house, i'm worried she'll just decide to turn up without notice. she has no qualms with me visiting her and meeting her mother and friends, as they're

''liberal''

. in fact, she's insisted they are very keen to meet me. the real worrying started when she recently revealed a bombshell -

she dreamt about me

. i inquired about these seemingly ever more frequent dreams with a serious face but with a sarcastic inquest. she hasn't relented in further exploring these visions and what they could mean for

'us'

. she continues to speak of

'us'

as opposed to individual entities who are just friends and nothing more. i never interject in her long soliloquies.

 

earlier today, i found we were all of a sudden alone together - no doubt because of her crafty intervention, when she made a major scoop for me LOL. the talk was no longer trivial but turned serious, the tone tense, the atmosphere could have been cut with a knife and the focus solely on me. she started talking of relationships and getting to know each other and stuff. i told her that she's cool and that we're good friends, albeit still getting to know each other, without wanting to disappoint. i left abruptly to leave the friends about an hour later and as i got ready to leave, she followed me with such stealth-like tenacity, before insisting that i pick up the phone later on tonight as she had a burning desire to tell me something important.

 

this is madness! i don't like it and i'm not in the least bit concerned about hurting feelings and interrupting the social harmony of the group dynamic. i've blocked her number and have ceased all communicable contact since 6pm. i barely left the coffee shop when she called to say

'what are you doing tomorrow?'

LOL.

Waar give the poor servant her wages. She does not have much phone credit to call you everyday. Miyaanaad Alle kacabsanahayn?

[sharma-arke451]

rooble latasho, he is excellent in tala bixin.

 

P.s. Am told, indians don't keep secrets, alpha keep yours.

[Alpha Blondy]

nothing happened today.

[Alpha Blondy]

Narniah;905969 wrote:

Loool You really made me laugh, Did I hit a nerve there Alphy! Ouch!

 

...Haha!

 

=D

LOL@Narniah,

 

are you still dating your brother's friend who use to carry the shopping bags for you.

 

Narniah;881425 wrote:

I'd like to share with you all. please Give me some insights

 

There's a guy who is really close friends with my big brothers. I know that he likes me for quite awhile now.

 

The thing is, he thinks

I'm out of his league and he'll never have me to like him

. This guy is so shy, even

shyer than me

. When he sees me he gets really nervous I can almost feel his heartbeat from a distance lol. It's quite amusing but strange all at the same time.

 

He is the only guy on this planet I feel comfortable talking to without feeling shy and running away!

If I knew a guy liked me, I wouldn't dare talk to him. I don't like talking to guys who think 'they're good looking or think they can impress me with their car or their looks'. With him I feel like I can almost look into his eyes even lol. Without feeling the need to feel awkward or uncomfortable. I don't know why I feel so brave around him? Is it because of his calm/shy nature that draws me to him?

 

I bumped into him today in our local grocery store. He greeted me, and immediately took my shopping from me

. Even though it was hardly heavy. When I walked next to him even though he spoke to me he made sure his gaze never met mine. It's hard to stare or take a good look at someone who's constantly starring at you, this is why I don't know what most of the guys I've been told like me look like. As soon as I see them from a distance I make sure I don't look at their direction. I'd like to avoid them as much as possible.

 

When

he gave me my shopping back at my door, he almost dropped it when he thought he almost

touched me

, but luckily I caught it. It was quite something, hard to put it into mere words.

 

I also know that he's not always so shy, I've heard him scream when he scores a goal (playing games with my brothers). He only acts so shy around me.

 

What am I suppose to make all of this?

how could you sell yourself like a piece of battered meat? LOL

[Alpha Blondy]

sharma-arke451;906055 wrote:

rooble latasho, he is excellent in tala bixin.

 

P.s. Am told, indians don't keep secrets, alpha keep yours.

LOL@ Sharma-arke451,

 

walahi you know me in real life and i'm just NOT sure how much i've given away on these boards. please respect the rules of the SOL and don't EXPOSE me. woe to me. this site is messing up my life. another SOLer who knows me. we're probably friends but i bet you've never seen this OBNOXIOUS side of me.....you can't even be safe online, these days?

[Alpha Blondy]

Tallaabo;906027 wrote:

Waar give the poor servant her wages. She does not have much phone credit to call you everyday. Miyaanaad Alle kacabsanahayn?

my maid tahribbed to djibouti last week. i loved her but were unable to date due to our different social classes. LOL

[Haatu]

Alpha Blondy;906069 wrote:

my maid tahribbed to djibouti last week. i loved her but were unable to date due to our different social classes. LOL

lol wax waalan :D

 

lol@ battered meat wax waalan again

[Showqi]

I think Alpha is Baagamuudo once again. waxan oo hadal ah!

[Nin-Yaaban]

Alpha Blondy;905823 wrote:

listen you scorned woman....,

 

i made my virtual advances to you but you completely ignored me yeah.....i've moved on now and you might as well move on and STOP hating on my latest escapades. STOP being jealous and get on with your life. i'm not coming back. just leave me alone and stop stalking me..OKAY!. have you NO shame......don't you get it or do i have to spell it out for you.....LEAVE ME ALONE.

IoI

[Miyir]

alpha what? woman likes me?

[Coofle]

Alpha Blondy;906069 wrote:

my maid tahribbed to djibouti last week. i loved her but were unable to date due to our different social classes. LOL

I believe such man is called "Jaariyado-gaade" ....

[Alpha Blondy]

Coofle;906376 wrote:

I believe such man is called "

Jaariyado-gaade"

....

how did you gaade your new lady friend? LOL

 

whatever that works sxb!

[Alpha Blondy]

Showqi;906208 wrote:

I think Alpha is Baagamuudo once again. waxan oo hadal ah!

LOL@Showqi,

 

i've spent the best part of a day finding out this Baagamuudo means sxb LOOOOOOOOOOL

 

apparently it means 'unemployed'. LOL!