Living good married life: A Proper Geeljire’s Guide

[wyre]

There is something Called Mujra Dance Asian Muslims practice It "They Call It Islamic Erotic Dance and Prostitution"

Only Pakistani's And Hindu's Muslims Practice It,

 

Some People Just Do Something Xaraam In The Name Of Islam

[Mario B]

^^ There is nothing Islamic about mujra, stripping/pole dancing, prostitution, erotic dance etc....also there is nothing islamic about forcing entire women to wear burqa like neo-salafist do in Afghanistan or in other parts of the muslim world. This deen is a middle way!!

[Malika]

Wyre - they confuse their culture/tradition to Islam - mabaa jiirto 'erotic dance' in Islamic way of life, now it doesnt mean one cant dance erotically for her husband..

[nuune]

Malika;831933 wrote:

now it doesnt mean one cant dance erotically for her husband..

If she does that in front of her husband, he will erotically label or call her to be heekaleey from the past, yaa ku barey waxan would be his first reaction, and yaad ku niikin jirtey ama u niikin jirtey would be his main question.

[Mario B]

nuune;831953 wrote:

If she does that in front of her husband, he will erotically label or call her to be

heekaleey

from the past, yaa ku barey waxan would be his first reaction, and yaad ku niikin jirtey ama u niikin jirtey would be his main question.

Nuune, that is puritanical way of thinking, not every girl that can shake her booty like Shakira is some whore. Also Islam that I know is based on having good opinion of people.

[nuune]

^^ Sxb, naag ha kugu niikiso waa mushkilo, laakin ha kuu niikiso waa wareer, isla niikiya waa kadeed, laakin kolkey kugu niikiso ayaa laguu baqaa, kuwaa aaminsan kol hadey kugu niikiso yaa u diidayo iney ku niikiso dad kale ama u niikiso.

 

 

Waxan waa dhaqan Soomaali een ka hadlayo, anigu ogalaan maayo naag ha kugu niikiso, dhaqanka yaan na looga cayaarin, dad waaweeyn oo isku niikinayo ama wada niikinayo waxaa dhaama ayagoo ibriiq madaxa ka lalmiya

[Mario B]

Warya Nuune this is geel jire thinking and it's doing Islam disservice, your wife sharing erotic moments in the privacy of your room/space is all healthy and permissable in Islam, "dhaqanka yaan na looga cayaarin" is just contrived mambo jambo.

[Wadani]

I agree with much of what Abtigiis says, but we part ways when he attributes to Islam those things we both mutually find reprehensible. Where does Islam condone a marriage where the husband signs a contract knowing he won't be fully commited? The whole purpose of the contract is to represent commitment and also the sanctity of the union. So, contrary to the 'prostitution' Abtigiis ascribes to the deen, its Islam that would vehemently oppose and condemn many of the actions of these wandering men and fake wadaads, since deception and shamefully using women as sexual objects is totally haraam.

[Malika]

nuune;831953 wrote:

If she does that in front of her husband, he will erotically label or call her to be

heekaleey

from the past, yaa ku barey waxan would be his first reaction, and yaad ku niikin jirtey ama u niikin jirtey would be his main question.

Only a Somali would think that - other cultures prepare their young ladies for the life of marriage which includes the 'intimate' aspect of it.

Your comment reminds me of many stories I have heard, of girls actually being divorced just because they showed interest in that department..yaaah??..Lol

[Che -Guevara]

^I was once told a dude who grew up in Somalia divorced his new wife who grew up in the west when she kissed on the lips. Some stories tend to be exaggerated but there's some truth to it.

 

Blessed...There are no winners except for witch doctors whose service might be sought after by new clients and priests who would framed this story as mucjiso.

 

People...If you can't reference things, please don't just throw it out there.