Aaliyyah Posted May 13, 2012 rudy-Diiriye;829215 wrote: sibling seriiously...u would let your sibling do this to yah?? nooooo...thats wrong. LOL the old man is just kissing her hand..if she was his sister, there would be nothing wrong with that. It is cute. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rudy-Diiriye Posted May 13, 2012 If u do that...dont touch me!! lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sharma-arke451 Posted May 13, 2012 Bluelicious;829299 wrote: sharma-arke451 & Paragon - And for all the people who don't know that love exist or are not sure about it this applies to you. Love is something that exists in this world and is also mentioned in surat Ar-Rum verse 21 in the quran. You can find love before marriage or after marriage just look around you in the world and you will see. that is where we part ways. @blessed,saas ma istiri? lol. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Blessed Posted May 13, 2012 LOL. It's how I read your post. I agree with Blue, though it's not the same sort of love. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bluelicious Posted May 17, 2012 sharma-arke451;829442 wrote: that is where we part ways. So you wanna tell me know that love before marriage doesn't exist. You are wrong again! Love before marriage exists it's mentioned in Silsila Sahiha. If love is something real that exists in this world it's common sense to also know that it comes in different stages in life such as before and after marriage. Like I've said before take a look at the world around you. Prophet Muhammed (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: We do not think that there is anything better for those who love one another than marriage. (Narrated by Ibn Maajah, 1847; classed as saheeh by Al-Busayri and by Shaykh Al-Albaani in Al-Silsilah Al-Saheehah, 624) Basically it means that if there is love between two people, that love can't be increased or made to last longer by anything like marriage. You can love someone or be in love with someone without being married to them. It's allowed and permissible in Islam because it's a normal human emotion that you have no control about so therefore it's not a sin nor is it haram. However it's how you act upon that love that determines whether it becomes haram or becomes halal because love on it's own is pure and noble. If you act according to those feelings and get in a illicit relationship with that person which results in marriage. Then the love that comes from that illicit relationship will be haram and their marriage will never be stable because of the way they started which will reduce the blessings from Allah. Their love can't be increased with a illicit relationship and will never increase and their love will also not increase when they get married because of their commited sin and therefore taking their blessings away for indeed Allah says for Him to bless people and increase the love between them are only for those who reflect and do it in the proper way. And among His signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between you; verily, in that are signs for people who reflect. (Quran, 30:21) But if you act according to those feelings and get married with that person for the sake of Allah so you don't fall in sin and do haram things then that marriage will be stable and succesful, and because they didn't sin in the process they will get the blessings from Allah and He will increase their love for each other and make it grow stronger with each day. Also the love that comes from that marriage will be halal. Usually people think that falling in love with someone and then having a illicit relationship where they do haram things will make their marriage stronger, but that's not true because sin is a major factor that reduces blessings from Allah and the opposite happens. Prophet Muhammed (peace be upon him) said: You have seen nothing like marriage for increasing the love of two people. (Narrated Abdullah ibn Abbas (Radiallahuanhu) Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 921) The love between the two people who love or are in love with each other will increase and grow stronger every day only in marriage nothing else. So as you can see from the above quote it does indicate there is love before marriage because in order for something to increase further there must be something before that. This is a follow up of the earlier quote. Your belief that love altogether doesn't exist and also before marriage comes from you not being knowledgable enough about the subject. Next time don't oppose things according to your own mind but do it according to the Quran and Hadith Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
