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Iraq farmer marries 2 women in 1 night

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rago rag aniguna rah...miyoo dahey frogey...horta how do u say a frog in af somali???

 

this what happens when a country looses alot of guys in wars...remaining dudes can have as many wives as they want!! I think its time i visit homeland to get more wives.

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Why are we so shocked and amazed simply because of the cousin marriage, why act like you are a westerner, have always been and white of the whitest. You are Somali, you have only been in the west for you few year, and the reality is cousin marriage is fine in the Somali community, not only fine its well liked not only but actually its encouraged, arranged and or forced to some extent. Markaa huuhaada inaka daaya.

 

As for the two wives in 1 night, its a new phenomena, although I'm pro multiple wives, I don't welcome the whole one nigh thing.

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Samafal   

Xaaji Xunjuf;824310 wrote:

The most important step was to persuade the two young women. Intidhar said: “He told me, ‘We will marry, me, you and Suad, in one night, so what do you say?’ And I told him it is all right, if you treat us both the same way.”.”

The first half hour is important here!! How is he going to treat them equal without one becoming mental?

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faarah22   

Depends on which part of somalia you come from mario B. are you from clan******? then those folks do indeed marry their cousins.

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Mario B   

faarah22;824424 wrote:
we never marry cousins, us somalis mario.

When I was a little boy, they called me a liar, but now that I am grown up, they call me faarah22! :D

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uchi   

^ lol, my somalialand relatives marry each other all the time~ A little too close for comfort imo.

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It depends what cousin, most Somalis marry Paternal cousin that is your cousin from your father-side, but its very rear to see marriages between Maternal cousins. But according to our religion its fine, I have seen many many many relatives who are the product of this type of marriage and they are fine and healthy.

 

But the west always attacks this kind of marriage and claim to produce deformed children, which scientifically not proven. At the same time the west tells us Homosexual activity is fine and healthy and two men can get married. uuuf

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faarah22   

stop being ridiculous, get rid of west this west that small mentality. yes i'ts proven to produce genetic defects, havent you heard of inbreeding it a fact of science. ****** little african always bring wedge issues about homosexuality. are you secretly gay? why are you so against it then.

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The twin sisters who share a HUSBAND (and he’s also married to their cousin)

 

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From their brunette hair to their dress sense, twin sisters Vicki and Valerie Darger have a number of things in common.

 

But the 42-year-olds share more than just their looks - they are both married to the same man.

The sisters are in a polygamous marriage with Joe, 43, who is also wed to a third woman - their cousin Alina.

The Dargers, who are fundamentalist Mormons from Salt Lake City, Utah, live together in a large family home and have 24 children between them.

 

In the eyes of their Fundamentalist Mormon religion, all three women are equally married to Joe.

They each have their own bedroom, and Joe alternates between the three rooms each evening.

Valerie, who works in the family cleaning business with Alina, 43, said: 'The fact that Joe was married to Vicki didn't bother me at all. I took it as a sign he would be a good husband for me as well.

 

'As teenagers, Vicki and I liked some of the same guys. I thought it might even be good if we married the same man.'

 

Vicki added: 'I know that some people are uncomfortable at the thought of two sisters sharing a husband.

'But there's a good chance if a husband is compatible with one sister, he'll be well matched with another.'

Brave Joe was just 18 when he began dating Vicki and her cousin Alina at the same time and married them in a joint Mormon ceremony in 1990.

 

The following day, Alina became his legal wife when they married again at a ceremony under state law, while Vicki acted as witness. 'Even in our community joint courtships are rare,' said Vicki. 'We knew we were taking on a huge challenge and responsibility. 'The accepted pattern in our culture is for a couple to prove themselves first in a monogamous marriage, before taking on the challenges of a second wife.'

 

Describing their joint dates, Joe said: 'Since Alina and Vicki were close friends and were interested in pursuing me together, the best thing I could do was to nurture that combined friendship.

 

'I was attracted to both girls and knew that individual relationships would develop in time.'

Vicki and Alina had been married to Joe for ten years when they both encouraged him to start pursuing a relationship with Vicki's twin Valerie.

 

Valerie had just gone through a divorce after her marriage to an older man Donald, who had six wives, broke down due to his gambling and abusive treatment. One evening, while Valerie and her five children were staying with the Darger family, she felt a sudden spark of chemistry with Joe. Joe admitted: 'I had a connection with Valerie, but the fact she was Vicki's twin was weird - they both had the same mannerisms. But Vicki opened my mind to it.'

 

Alina added: 'I was excited at the prospect of Val becoming part of our family. I had a genuine love and concern for her and wanted her to be the happiest she could possibly be.'

 

Joe and Valerie married in another Mormon service in their home, with Vicki and Alina standing beside them, and celebrated with a family meal. The Dargers were investigated by state authorities several years ago for their beliefs and attempted to keep their plural marriage secret for many years. But two years ago, they decided to talk about their relationship to raise awareness, and to try to overcome prejudices against their religion and lifestyle.

 

Although polygamy is generally illegal in all 50 states, practitioners are almost never prosecuted unless there is evidence of abuse, statutory rape, welfare fraud, or tax evasion. The three wives and their husband have co-written a book 'Love Times Three', and some of their adult children also contributed to the story.

 

'We hope that by talking about our way of life, polygamy will step closer to being an accepted lifestyle and the laws that criminalise it might change,' said Joe.

Xigashol

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Mario B   

faarah22;824905 wrote:
stop being ridiculous, get rid of west this west that small mentality. yes i'ts proven to produce genetic defects, havent you heard of inbreeding it a fact of science. ****** little african always bring wedge issues about homosexuality. are you secretly gay? why are you so against it then.

Do you listen to yourself when you speak? Not only are you self hating somali who also happens to hate his religion [correction, you're an atheist] but you also tell porkies! So why don't you hold on to your righteous indignation and go and marry your boyfriend.

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only mom's boyz marry their cousins n produce more handicap kids....it aint kol...i dont understand how anyone can marry their cousin? thats awful.

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