(10 Tips} How to be a Successful Husband

[SAGAL]

1. Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good.

When was the last time us men went shopping for designer pajamas? Just

like the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her

husband to dress up for her too. Remember that Rasul Allah - sal Allahu

alayhi wa sallam - would always start with Miswak when returning home and

always loved the sweetest smells.

 

2. Use the cutest names for your wife

Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - had nicknames for his wives,

ones that they loved. Call your wife by the most beloved names to her, and

avoid using names that hurt their feelings.

 

3. Don't treat her like a fly

We never think about a fly in our daily lives until it 'bugs' us.

Similarly, a wife will do well all day - which brings no attention from the

husband - until she does something to 'bug' him. Don't treat her like

this; recognize all the good that she does and focus on that.

 

4. If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment!

This is one of the ways Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - used

when he would see something inappropriate from his wives - radi Allahu

'anhunn. It's a technique that few Muslim men have mastered.

 

5. Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often.

Smiling is Sadaqah and your wife is not exempt from the Muslim Ummah.

Imagine life with her constantly seeing you smiling. Remember also those

Ahadith when Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - would kiss his

wife before leaving for Salah, even if he was fasting.

 

6. Thank her for all that she does for you. Then thank her again!

Take for example a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans the

home, and a dozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the only

acknowledgement she receives is that there needed to be more salt in the

soup. Don't let that be; thank her!

 

7. Ask her to write down the last ten things you did for her that made her

happy. Then go and do them again.

It may be hard to recognize what gives your wife pleasure. You don't have

to play a guessing game, ask her and work on repeating those times in your

life.

 

8. Don't belittle her desires. Comfort her.

Sometimes the men may look down upon the requests of their wives. Rasul

Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - set the example for us in an incident

when Safiyyah - radi Allahu 'anha - was crying because, as she said, he had

put her on a slow camel. He wiped her tears, comforted her, and brought

her the camel.

 

9. Be humorous and Play games with your wife

Look at how Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - would race his wife

Aisha - radi Allahu 'anha - in the desert. When was the last time we did

something like that?

 

10. Always remember the words of Allah's Messenger - sal Allahu alayhi wa

sallam: "The best of you are those who treat their families the best. And

I am the best amongst you to my family."

Try to be the best!

 

In conclusion: Never forget to make Dua to Allah to make your marriage successful.

 

 

And Allah ta'ala knows best

[silent-sistah]

MashaAllah.......that was beautiful advice.

 

and trust me,,,girl gets all that and she would be the luckiest, happiest being that lives!

 

and she would go out her way to please her man back!