Possible guidlines to improve this forum..

[Fabregas]

http://tayyibun.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=3

 

 

A. General Behavior applicable to threads, posts, signatures and avatars

 

1. Adhere to correct Islamic Adab (etiquettes) while discussing or debating issues.

2. Any abuse of the forums in any way will result in an immediate ban.

3. You are not allowed multiple usernames. If found guilty of such, all your usernames will be banned.

4. Do not post anything with links to Jihad videos and other such sites as they will be removed. As a rule, you may discuss theoretical aspects in theological terms without specifying place or time.

5. This is not a matrimonial message board, so please refrain posting marriage ads.

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10. Any thread or post that is simply a link will be candidate for immediate deletion. Include a small description of or excerpt from the link.

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13. Off topic and pointless posts/threads are subject to deletion.

14. A thread may be deleted upon request by the starter of the thread, however, it still rests on the discretion of moderators.

15. Posts or links to external Islamic courses may be deleted upon the decision of the admin should it conflict/clash with the subjects of the Institute.

16. Only rare exceptions will be granted, so please think before you post.

17. Do not quote the entire previous post to add 1 small sentence.

18. Pirated software is not welcome here.

 

 

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B. Gender Relations

 

1. When registering please register with a nick name as your user name rather than your real name.

2. Winking emoticons directed at the opposite gender are not allowed.

2. Joking with the opposite gender is not allowed.

3. Excessively praising the opposite gender is not allowed.

4. Flattering the opposite gender is not allowed.

5. Declaring your love (for the sake of Allah) to the opposite gender is not allowed.

6. Unnecessary PMs towards the opposite gender is not allowed.

 

The moderators may innocently overlook some violations as they may fall into some themselves. We are not perfect, so please be patient with us and point out the oversight in a tactful manner.

[NGONGE]

^^ Improve? With that uptight rubbish? You may as well stay there, saaxib.

[Skipper]

13. Off topic and pointless posts/threads are subject to deletion.

 

Sheikspear you are spot on. Pointsless posts has largely dominated SOL for quite some time now. Post like i am back, i am gone, what you done today, waaan duuse, is just as pointless as it could get. So i hope such things will stop in the near feature. Sheikspear thanks for bringing this up

[Al-Muminah]

Salaama Alaykum,

 

Good ideas, but I don't think anyone would follow the rules.

[Libaax-Sankataabte]

... and they thought SOL is a prison run by maniacs.

[Nephissa]

2. Winking emoticons directed at the opposite gender are not allowed.

L0L. b..b..but it's not a real eye winking at them! What if you do laakin? what are they going to do? dry hump their computer monitors..kkkkkkk!

 

Geeljire: What's your point? Are you asking Admin to re-write the Golden Rules?

[rudy-Diiriye]

say whaat! i think we should improve GJ! whaddya say folks!

 

first thing, gj sol court has sentenced u to be rudy's roommate for week! lool..

 

caution! bring your ear covers if u dont like loud rapp music.

[Nur]

Brother GJ Sheikh-Zubeir

 

I Have already posted a sufficient and an appropriate message that is intended to welcome Nomads to this site, inform them of the aim and purpose of this page, as it differs from that of the Al Tayyiboon Institute, and in a very polite way have reminded Nomads to be considerate and respectful.

 

SOL Islam page is a discussion board on broad Islamic issues, its not a technical forum nor an institue with professional scholars, its mainly run by volunteers such as myself, when we have time, together, we are in a learning journey, and its this style that makes SOL Islam page different.

 

This forum attracts all kinds of viewers, and lately, since 911, active participation has noticably decreased to a boring level, thanks to George Bush's war on basic freedom's, such as Freedom AFTER speech.

 

Our example to emulate was the Prophet SAWS, the best teacher who've ever walked on earth, he dealt with common people and knowledge seekers alike, in the same gatherings, and at times, knowledge seekers learned from complete laymen/ bedouins as they have approached Prophet Muhammad SAWS with all kinds of questions ( that would have been banned according to the above rules), even disrespectful ones, and he has never ejected anyone from his gatherings for inappropriate gestures, to the extent that a bedouin has urinated in the Masjid (Mosque). The Prophet simply ordered the cleaning of the Masjid( mosque), no big deal.

 

His tolerance to nonsensical or even vulgarity was examplary; a young man once appoached the Prophet SAWS to find a solution for his preoccupation: To pass a fatwa (edict) to make fornication sex Halaal ( lawful), the Prophet calmly convinced the young teen that the edict, if passed, can have harmful side effects since his mother and sister who he holds in high esteem, would also be eligible.

 

 

What we are suffering from today is over regulation, and over reaction, and in the process, we are losing sight of the most pressing and important Islamic issues of the hour. What we need instead is the philosophy of mind over water, to react as much as the disturbance calls for, under reaction or over reaction are detrimental to our sanity, we need to look Islam as a wholesome experience whose parts fit and not conflict.

 

With utmost respect to your suggestion, I feel that these rules, some of which are already politely implied on the (Welcome To SOL Islam Page) thread, may come across as disrespectful and discouaraging for would-be mature particpants at a time this thread is in dire need for active partipation.

 

 

......Geeljiroow, mesha dad kuma heynee, inta yaroo hartay hanaga kala didinin!

 

 

Nur

[Fabregas]

I posted this in the General section but sum 1 moved it 2 the Islamic section. I was being somewhat sarcastic and attempting to scare a few lads..with regards to gender relations ;)oops i broke the rules .but anyway.........these are interesting rules don't you think.....?for any forum......

[Abdulladiif Al-Fiqih]

Winking emoticons directed at the opposite gender are not allowed.

2. Joking with the opposite gender is not allowed.

3. Excessively praising the opposite gender is not allowed.

4. Flattering the opposite gender is not allowed.

GJ Sheikhspear, whom did you have in mind when you penned down these particular lines?

 

Comeon, si sarbeeb ah ayaa wax loosheegaaye sowdigga odeyadii qarxiyey!