Juxa Posted March 15, 2012 Bless our geel jire men! To them waa bla bla so must appreciate that they are trying. It is not easy for them to get it right at all In time they view the wife as baby momma and family carer, that is where the problems start, resentment and misunderstandings So make her feel special. Soo xad ama soo xoog adigey ku jirtaaye Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sierra Posted March 16, 2012 Decorate her entire house with Feng Shui furniture:) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Taleexi Posted March 16, 2012 Sierra -- baaba ka darta ... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mukulaalow Posted March 16, 2012 Feng Shui furniture Sierra, Feng Shui what??? is it a Chinese wall paper??? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
raula Posted March 16, 2012 Aaliya lol...maybe i forgot to add if there is no sitter for the kids. However, i disagree that wedding anniversaries is supposed to be all about the couple.. All in all...if they can get away together well & good. Ok, now I am gonna do a 360 degrees & say..speaking of baby momma's drama's....Mukulaalow..IMPRESS your baby momma's momma (if she's alive)..you feel me..you'll get proven mad props & never ending favors from your in-laws..marka dhinacaa iska giiji baan ku iri. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Posted March 16, 2012 ^Indeed, nothing will beat taking 'baby momma and her momma' to hajj... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
raula Posted March 16, 2012 ^^^Ditto. or send/give her some money..especially if she's back home etc. Malika..wise as always & experienced shall i say. As for me...sikujua kama kulikuwa na 7' yr itch..I know what to do now..I got plenty of demands lol. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jacpher Posted March 16, 2012 Aliyah, because it is so hot and seksi. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Posted March 16, 2012 Lol - raula, sista wangu..experience tume maliza nakwambia....asante na compliments, maisha ndio mwalimu wangu. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Blessed Posted March 17, 2012 Juxa;804364 wrote: Bless our geel jire men! To them waa bla bla so must appreciate that they are trying. It is not easy for them to get it right at all In time they view the wife as baby momma and family carer, that is where the problems start, resentment and misunderstandings So make her feel special. Soo xad ama soo xoog adigey ku jirtaaye True, laakin hadaynu runta isu sheegno gabdhahuba ma dhaamaan oo qaar badan oo sida dhoocil la shukaaminayo seeyigooda afka ugu taaga ayaa buuxa. I personally think that little but consistent acts of love are more powerful than big gestures. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Juxa Posted March 17, 2012 Lol@ dhoocil Aftaaga stems from sheer frustration. I think best solution is to appreciate one another on regular basis. Hadii kale everything will be mundane and boring Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nuune Posted March 17, 2012 I didn't read they lasted 10 years, I can say lots of things but will reserve my gaafo later Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted March 18, 2012 is this thread still going on? his anniversary wali may dhaafin miyaa? lol malika, loved your advice abt taking his wife and his mother in law to haj. Mashallah..nin nocaas ah waaba mashallah..im sure his wife and her mother would be so happy..and nothing else will beat that!..duca badan wuu ka heli. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Posted March 18, 2012 ^soo mahaa! indeed, kaasi oo kale, marwo inaa loo noqdoo waa xaq - not the waste of space sorts...lol Aaliyah - ninkasi oo kale waa miid illahi laga duceystaa dear.. dee mid kheyr leh aan kuu rajeneyaa insha'allah. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Complicated Posted March 19, 2012 Buy a one way ticket to Mogadishu for her and the kids with Turkish Airlines. That will surprise her without a doubt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
