Mukulaalow Posted March 12, 2012 I am even writing a short poet now to impress her that day, I am not good with poetry, but I will try some jacbur. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Somalina Posted March 12, 2012 Little things can be so much more meaningful than overblown displays. If you can't write a poem, instead tell her in simple words how she means everything to you, describe the best moments of the past 10 yrs with her and add little bit of honey and voila! p.s. Get an expensive paper to write on. hmm Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mukulaalow Posted March 12, 2012 p.s. Get an expensive paper to write on. hmm see, I never thought of that, women are very good on detail, I am feeling glad now I posted this thread. good advice from you. thanks. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Somalina Posted March 12, 2012 Don't mention it. Good luck. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Juxa Posted March 12, 2012 Aaliyah any opportunity to make a wife happy, to suprise her, to confess you appreciate her waa HALAAL iyo nus! Infact Islam encourages kindness and generousity within a marriage. the more a husband uu gacan furanyahay the happier his household is (iweydii aniga:)) Most of my suggestions involve £££ when money is not an object, in fact maxay tahay lacag badan ma spend gareyn karo, you knew this anniversary was coming up, you should be well prepared, meeqa mar aan idin dhahay preparation is the Key to success in aduunka iyo aaqiradaba....tut tut tut. in all seriousness, if you two have kids, i would suggest you arrange time alone, just the two of you, go for a drive, if you are in the UK take her one of those villages to relax for a long weekend etc. otherwise just book a night or two away from home, let her have spa treatments etc and most importantly apologise unreservedly for all your falfalxumo over the 10 year period and give salaatul-shukr that she stayed with you. wont any woman be happy? hade waa ku kaa, good luck, kheyr iyo bishaaro Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mukulaalow Posted March 12, 2012 in all seriousness, if you two have kids, i would suggest you arrange time alone, just the two of you, go for a drive, if you are in the UK take her one of those villages to relax for a long weekend etc. otherwise just book a night or two away from home, let her have spa treatments etc and most importantly apologise unreservedly for all your falfalxumo over the 10 year period and give salaatul-shukr that she stayed with you. Valuable advice, thnks Juxa. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted March 12, 2012 Juxa lol that wasnt my issue dee..i have been hearing numerously that it is haraam to celebrate mother's day/anniversary (things of that nature) I am assuming their reasoning being you are kind of reducing motherhood or marriage to just one day. Other than that like i said in my previous post islam encourages for a husband to be loving , and romantic and what not.... anyways, mashallah you gave him a good advice. For them to spend some alone time away from home is probably a good thing. No amount of gifts can be equated to some quality time spend together. Or, maybe they can take the kids with them and have some good family time hehe. salaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Valenteenah. Posted March 12, 2012 Ten years together - well that can only mean one thing: Ten presents! One for each year. Congratulations and may you enjoy another 50 years together with Allah's blessings. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted March 12, 2012 how come i forgot to make dua for this guy lol (i guess i thought he was married for 10 years duca uma baahna) hehe..thanks val fr the reminder. congrats walaal...labadii isku waara noqda ubadkiinana ilaahay ubad wacan haka dhigo oo ni anfca inshallah. ameeeen Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mukulaalow Posted March 12, 2012 Thnks to all of you, I will make sure Inshallah it will be an unforgettable anniversary, I am still gathering hints and signals from her and from the kids to know what she loves most. She is not a material woman, but she loves affection and appreciation and that is what I will have to do. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Narniah Posted March 12, 2012 Congratulations on your 10th anniversary! I think you should make her a note book telling her 100 reasons why you love her. Take it to the printing press compile it into a book. Make sure you design the note book, make it personal. This requires a lot of heart, and it would be forever. Something she can always read and it would make her smile.=) May Allah bless your marriage ameen. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nuune Posted March 12, 2012 Waxaad u iibisaa Calculator Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Showqi Posted March 12, 2012 oo maxay ku xisaabin:rolleyes: horta yaa meeshan inooga yeedhay labadeena... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nuune Posted March 12, 2012 waxyaala badan bey ku xisaabsan sida inta sano oo la is qabey times two iyo waxyaala la mida waan yaabanahey, dalaq leeba iska soo dhahney sidii subxaanyo gaatameyso Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mukulaalow Posted March 12, 2012 Waxaad u iibisaa Calculator Xaasid waaxid, jarbaad rabtaa inaad iga tuurto horta yaa meeshan inooga yeedhay labadeena... you two are the kind of who will just enter the ladies lavatory. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
