Blessed Posted March 8, 2012 Markaad heshid mid ku aqbalsha. Numbers are kind of pointless, runitii. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Khalid-Jnr Posted March 8, 2012 Aaliyah, Gabdhahana ka waran, da'dee "ideal" ah?. Mise da'da raga minus 10 weeye? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nuune Posted March 8, 2012 ^^ I used to say this about gabdhaha: 16-18: Boojaal aan ahayee kaalay i barbaari 19-25: waan bislaadee i cun 26-30: Waan bakhtiyee i jiid 31-40: Tolbeelayee kaalaya i duuga Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted March 8, 2012 loool^ so now im still in that "waan bislaadee" list thank you! I better move on before I join "waan bakhtiyee ijiid" hehe.. Khalid walaal like i said mid 20s is more than ideal for a guy. The ideal age for a guy to settle is 30...by then he has a career/saving and maturity to take his marriage seriously. But, if he has all that by mid 20s wa ilahay mahadii for a girl i would say anytime from 22..inta ka hor she might not be ready..kuwa hada jogo most of them act like they are 5..they barely can cook or raise a family. so i dnt know..maybe its not so much about age as maturity. With age u supposed to get wisdom. But, thats not always the case salaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Abu-Salman Posted March 8, 2012 You are right sis Aaliyah, but people back home tend to be less complicated and more appreciative of blessings in general (not to mention the sheer numbers). Only having the same plans and priorities should matters though. We already have enough complications within the family or relatives these days, so simplicity is more precious than anything (stronger sense of home and identity, being happy with the minimum etc)... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted March 8, 2012 okey I see where you are coming from. However, you have to note once she comes to the UK, she is not going to be happy with simplicity as you put it. She would want more. Not to mention theres that chance that she might leave you the minute she comes to the UK, since all she wanted was sharci. You will always ask yourself if she married you for you or sharci. Secondly, it is easier to brainwash someone who came from back home "oo yacni ee wax wayn modo in ay qurbo timid. Where there are plenty of religious cultured sisters who grew up in qurbaha. Who are educated, religious, humble oo modeen wax wayn in ay qurbo jogaan. Kolay ka fiirso taad guursanasid. Good luck! and just as a joke..wiilwaal that somali comedian guy said "mid qabadaran so kaxeesta" say kaga cararin lool salaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Somalia Posted March 8, 2012 You old people have great advice, inshallah I am going this summer, my awoowe's village, gonna marry a distant cousin, knock her up and send her, her $100. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wadani Posted March 8, 2012 ^ Wouldnt recommend that, those marriages dont last too long. Aaliyah's finally getting hitched eh? Now i get y u said 25 is the ideal age for marriage lol. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Somalia Posted March 8, 2012 I'm not marrying for "love" or "intimacy", I just need a woman to carry my offsprings. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Qandalawi Posted March 8, 2012 Carafaat hoosta naga soo galisay, waxbaa noo qarisay kawaran facshiraad caadi ah. I was only joking about my statement above. PM-ki aya waxaa kuso dhacay; seriously? iyo wax lamid ah waan kafatamayay Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
A_Khadar Posted March 8, 2012 nuune;800449 wrote: ^^ I used to say this about gabdhaha: 16-18: Boojaal aan ahayee kaalay i barbaari 19-25: waan bislaadee i cun 26-30: Waan bakhtiyee i jiid 31-40: Tolbeelayee kaalaya i duuga ;) @Boojaal.. Haven't heard that word in very long time.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted March 8, 2012 bojaal? maxa la dhaha? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Juxa Posted March 8, 2012 Chicklets ama chickenka yaryar Horrible term to use on women and one agteeyda hadii lagu dhaho would warrant for faro-jir-jir dhirbaaxo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Khalid-Jnr Posted March 8, 2012 I think it means I ball of some sort!..............I could be wrong though, but doesn't sound like baby chicken to me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Maaddeey Posted March 8, 2012 Carafaat;800337 wrote: at what age did you get married? koowaad, labaad mise saddexaad? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
