Rumaysah Posted February 15, 2012 Real men marry more than one wife and deal with them justly...... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rudy-Diiriye Posted February 16, 2012 Rumaysah;789707 wrote: Real men marry more than one wife and deal with them justly...... True to that!! If she starts bugging....i just say....ceya, i don't wanna be witchya! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
omar12 Posted February 16, 2012 Give it time, you seem like a catch. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sighnomore Posted February 19, 2012 Rumaysah;789707 wrote: Real men marry more than one wife and deal with them justly...... lol! Justly? And how many Somali men in polygamous marriages do that? Stop acting like you got that Arab money. Most Somalis live in public housing and a good number of Somali women perpetrate welfare fraud to care for their seven children 'cause their men can't be bothered to hold down a job. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted February 19, 2012 LOL@ PUBLIC HOUSING..to be honest I have heard stories that when even if the guys have jobs, the wives pretend they are single moms and abuse the system. Although I still dont get that cuz nin rag ah would take the responsibility of his house instead and wouldnt let his wife deal with welfare and haraam money.... Overall I think many men and women are corrupted so its not just the men. As for polygamous marriage I actually dont know any family where a guy has more than one wife. I can think of one old man in here. But, his kids are grown up and take care of themselves. salaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sighnomore Posted February 19, 2012 Aaliyyah;791332 wrote: LOL@ PUBLIC HOUSING..to be honest I have heard stories that when even if the guys have jobs, the wives pretend they are single moms and abuse the system. Although I still dont get that cuz nin rag ah would take the responsibility of his house instead and wouldnt let his wife deal with welfare and haraam money.... Overall I think many men and women are corrupted so its not just the men. As for polygamous marriage I actually dont know any family where a guy has more than one wife. I can think of one old man in here. But, his kids are grown up and take care of themselves. salaam Mess. To qualify these women tell the government their children are illegitimate!!!! For a dollar and some change they label themselves fornicators and their children b******s. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Taleexi Posted February 19, 2012 The reason you aint married cause u've not seen me as of yet.! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wadani Posted February 19, 2012 Welfare money, wa taan intaa ku soo le'egkaaday. Alla maxay bahashu barakaysantahay. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted February 20, 2012 Yes sis it is a mess iyo nus. Ilaahay somali ha u sahlo! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Juxa Posted February 27, 2012 Aaliyah it is not just the men to blame, we women are the source of evilkaas! they are the ones beenta sheegaya left and right, they participate in several ayuutos and Sh!t like that. In fact even women should get jobs to support their kids and be positive role models. if they did that we will see smaller succesful families. I dont support this whole notion of blame faarax for everything on the topic, you are not married yet because you are not ready yet! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Carafaat Posted February 27, 2012 Juxa, fix her up then if you have something for Aaliyah. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Juxa Posted February 27, 2012 I expect great things for Aaliyah but once she is ready. Inta ka horeysana wixii soo agmara budh hala dhacdo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
faarah22 Posted February 28, 2012 sister i have advice for you, don't ever marry and if you do, don't have kids. we have enuff somali kids already. educated somalis should strive to reduce their birth rate nowadays. am tired of large families, work with quality not quantity. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
samjamaa Posted February 28, 2012 faarah22;795847 wrote: sister i have advice for you, don't ever marry and if you do, don't have kids. we have enuff somali kids already. educated somalis should strive to reduce their birth rate nowadays. am tired of large families, work with quality not quantity. what it will be my purpose of getting married if i don't want having kids!!!! for you infornation having a lot of children is something that is encouraged in Islam and the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) urged Muslims to do that. Abu Dawood (2050) narrated that Ma’qil ibn Yazaar (may Allah be pleased with him) said: A man came to the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and said: “O Messenger of Allaah, I have found a woman who is from a good family and is beautiful, but she does not bear children; should I marry her?” He told him not to. Then he came to him a second time and said something similar and he told him not to marry her. Then he came to him a third time and said something similar and he (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Marry the one who is loving and fertile, for I will be proud of your great numbers.” Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
faarah22 Posted February 28, 2012 tell that to the poor somali mother in southern somalia who is exhausted by child birth and can't feed the lot she has now. leave alone a 7th century warrior and use your 21st century brain my dear. do the right thing and be rational, we don't need somali kids we have enough already. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
