Bluelicious Posted January 25, 2012 Aaliyyah;779725 wrote: blue ur right abt the career..and how everyone spends many years studying and what not that they forget how important settling and having kids is...bt the qabiil thing isnt really as important as it used to be and it also depends how old u are..now that im in my mid 20s my mom can careless lol..tis more of naa balayo kuguma dhacdee ii dhaaf with duca qabiilku rabo ha noqdee..ofcourse marrying outside my race maba aha choice walidkeygu isinayo..taas wa sheeko kale salaam Lool it's not as important as it was in the past but there are still many who swear by tribe. I think there is nothing wrong with marrying outside of your race as long as the person is a muslim and a good person. But you can't say there aren't any good men/women anymore in my race so i'm gonna look outside of my race. Every race has good and bad people so you gonna bump into the same problem again. Best thing is to do is evaluate yourself and your situation and then see what you can change about it or add. Some people have high demands and unrealistic lists of what they are seeking so obviously then no one is gonna qualify to your list. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Che -Guevara Posted January 25, 2012 Juxa;779765 wrote: Equality is great for women when it serves a purpose and suits your needs Strangely I agree with you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted January 26, 2012 Malika lol@dnt go beyond 25, I'm turning 25 in few months I dnt doubt ill go beyond that lol but let's hope I dnt pass 30 and prince charming knocks at my door lmao by the way I read somewhere old is always five years older than us when we reach it its no longer old Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
samjamaa Posted January 26, 2012 *Blessed;779662 wrote: Are you married? no, I am not married. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
samjamaa Posted January 26, 2012 Valenteenah.;779764 wrote: Oh yeah? And what statistics are you basing this 'rise' on? Unfortunately, there are not any statistics but if you like to read more you can find more inf from the below link. http://www.somaliatoday.net/port/2010-01-04-18-10-58/944-2010-03-15-15-43-56.html it is in arabic i hope you can read it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tuujiye Posted January 26, 2012 Sheekooyinkii bacadlaha iyo naagaha dukaamooyinka make-upka lagu gado miyaa hadana keenteen? Guur ninkii rabo ama gabartii rabto haraadsadaan.. qofwalba dooq buu leeyahay oo dooqooda ha raadsadaan... Bajaqdii dooqeeda cirka geesato, siduu MMA sheegay oo kalena, iyadaa miig camal usoo dageyso one day... Galowgii raadsado gabar oo ah kuwa uu filimaadka ka fiirsado ama buugaagtana, asaa bololaayo..... Bajaqda dhaheysay guurka banaanka oo shisheeyahana ayaan taageeraa, taada lee u hadal not all Somalis feel the same way and like Aaliya said, is not as easy it looks at first.... is hurgufa oo meesheeda kawada catarabashaqa! PS. To somjam, We are not arabs! so your BS is not about us Somalis.. go take this to the arab forums qashiin yahoo.... Wareer Badanaa!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Macallinka Posted January 26, 2012 Gabdhoow guursada before its too late, come to Africa we are(good men that is ) plenty in here and we will not discriminate we'll welcome anyone. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
samjamaa Posted January 26, 2012 Macallinka;779941 wrote: Gabdhoow guursada before its too late, come to Africa we are(good men that is ) plenty in here and we will not discriminate we'll welcome anyone. good men looking any way to scape from poor Africa, isn't it? we perfer going to nearest local Mosque Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Macallinka Posted January 26, 2012 ^ we prefer if u lot stay here with us and build a loving home but if u lit insist that u move us to abroad we will not complain either as I said we r very understandable Men . Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BOB Posted January 26, 2012 Samjamaa, I don't know whether you're a sister or brother but all I can say is trust almighty Allah s.w and have faith in him and he'll never disappoint you. If you're a good muslim then I'm sure Allah s.w will bless you with some one pious Insha Allah. pray Istiqara and everything will be ok Insha Allah. Good Luck. Salam Peace, Love & Unity. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted January 26, 2012 Sheekooyinkii bacadlaha iyo naagaha dukaamooyinka make-upka lagu gado miyaa hadana keenteen? Guur ninkii rabo ama gabartii rabto haraadsadaan.. qofwalba dooq buu leeyahay oo dooqooda ha raadsadaan... Bajaqdii dooqeeda cirka geesato, siduu MMA sheegay oo kalena, iyadaa miig camal usoo dageyso one day... Galowgii raadsado gabar oo ah kuwa uu filimaadka ka fiirsado ama buugaagtana, asaa bololaayo..... Bajaqda dhaheysay guurka banaanka oo shisheeyahana ayaan taageeraa, taada lee u hadal not all Somalis feel the same way and like Aaliya said, is not as easy it looks at first.... is hurgufa oo meesheeda kawada catarabashaqa! PS. To somjam, We are not arabs! so your BS is not about us Somalis.. go take this to the arab forums qashiin yahoo.... Wareer Badanaa!!! looool you are back...wlc back...where have you been?? I just love reading your posts! I never understand half of them though.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Blessed Posted January 27, 2012 samjamaa;779935 wrote: no, I am not married. Why not? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Somalina Posted January 27, 2012 Yaa qaadey research kaan? sheeko lee ma la wadaa? nin wuu buuxaa ee is diyaari lee fartana taag, is xaadiri ku qadimeysideee . Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted January 27, 2012 Haha @is xadiri ku qadimayside. ..I have to agree with you niman way buxan but its a matter of men of quality Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Taleexi Posted January 27, 2012 Dumarka baa mushkilada guurka daahaya ka mas'uul ah, waana inaan maxkamad la kornaa, hadday cambarka nagu adkayn lahaayeen dhibaatadan maanta kama wada hadaleen. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
