rise of unmarried somalis (men women)

[samjamaa]

I actually decided to write about this because I read somewhere that somalis ( especially women) make up the largest group of “unmarried” in some arab nations. I believe on everything is fate, I believe as a muslim in the concept of “qadar” or predetermined destiny. but it mast be some resons for that!

[Alpha Blondy]

try your local mosque. there is a list of somali women just waited to be married by black ex-offender-come-revert.

[Abwaan]

Alpha Blondy;779086 wrote:

try your local mosque. there is a list of somali women just waited to be married by black ex-offender-come-revert.

Sadly way dhacdaa arrintaan!

[GaroweGal]

There aren't many good men! I am more supportive of Somali women marrying outside the race today, then I was a year ago.

[Somalia]

Alpha Blondy;779086 wrote:

try your local mosque. there is a list of somali women just waited to be married by black ex-offender-come-revert.

looooooooool, so true.

[Aaliyyah]

i dnt really agree with the idea of marrying outside your race, it brings a lotta issues...better stick with your people. and i dnt agree with ppl marrying in the mosques either..gabadho badan aya laga waala marka lo keeno waxay garaneen...last option are your parents..till then adigu melaha ka raadso qof wacan..im sure u all go to school and work..

 

salaam

[somalee]

GaroweGal;779421 wrote:

There aren't many good men!

I am more supportive of Somali women marrying outside the race today, then I was a year ago.

It's only fair to assume that your opinion is shaped by the men in your life, starting from the father, brothers, uncles, cousins, friends, husband/ex-husbands etc etc. Since they are the closest to you.

[Nin-Yaaban]

With bad economy, people being fearful of losing their jobs, kids growing up to be DOQOMIIN, who could blame anyone for not wanting to get married? It's damn shame.

[Juxa]

I am with Aaliyah here. I think people should stop putting so much pressure on the girls. I think many go to the mosque as they are panicking or tired of being told to marry.

 

I think the men are there, little lost maybe but there.

[samjamaa]

Nin-Yaaban;779563 wrote:

With bad economy, people being fearful of losing their jobs, kids growing up to be DOQOMIIN, who could blame anyone for not wanting to get married? It's damn shame.

i am 100% agree with, because its not hard to find a Somali man to marry, the problem is whether he is educated or economically stable,

although I think the most important thing is the deen.

aaliyya: yes, it is better to marry from same race. but still we can't blame who prefer to marry outside our race and we have to respect their choose.

[Abwaan]

GaroweGal;779421 wrote:

There aren't many good men! I am more supportive of Somali women marrying outside the race today, then I was a year ago.

So you support them in marrying, ex-convicts, bullies iyo wax aan laga sheekeyn Karin!

[Blessed]

Are you married?

[Abwaan]

*Blessed;779662 wrote:

Are you married?

Who? me?

[Bluelicious]

It's probably because of many people wanting to pursue their careers and also because of tribe. Many people get told by their parents don't marry such and a such tribe. Even if they found a suitable person their family would reject it cause of tribe difference it's all bull.

[Blessed]

Abwaan, maya, walaal. That was directed at the original poster..