10 Questions to Ask Prospective Husband/Wife

[samjamaa]

frist i would like to say thanks Bluelicious for your nice topic(How To Be A Good Husband/ Wife To Your Wife/ Husband), you encouraged me to post this topic today.1) What is your concept of marriage?

2) What are you expectations of marriage?

3) What are your goals in life? (Long and short term)

4) What is the role of religion in your life now?

5) What is your relationship with your family?

6) Who are your friends? (Identify at least three.)

7) What are the things that you do in your free time?

8) Do you want to have child in first year of marriage?

9) do you have any health problem?

10)Are you volunteering in any Islamic/ community activities?

 

just don't get freaked out... and please have some mercy on your prospective husband/wife, don't ask the questions all at once cuz he/she may run way just kidding. Enjoy!

 

Salaam

[Che -Guevara]

This looks like survey. Most people either hurry through without thinking or lie about surveys.

[samjamaa]

Che -Guevara;777169 wrote:

This looks like survey. Most people either hurry through without thinking or lie about surveys.

you 100% right, but you will not only depend in his/ her answers, you need to ask about him/her to make sure they are not lying.

[Bluelicious]

Che -Guevara;777169 wrote:

This looks like survey. Most people either hurry through without thinking or lie about surveys.

Che -Guevara - You are right most people don't like being interviewed that way it sets off a wrong vibe and makes them uncomfortable and more prone to lie their way out of the situation.

 

Samjamaa - Oh you welcome hun if I have inspired you to do your own thing. You have raised good questions there and of course one shouldn't ask a person in a questionaire type of way. It's better to hold a conversation and casually dropping your questions inbetween and taking things from there by the replies you get. You only need about 3/4 good questions to weed out unwanted people.