Bluelicious Posted October 17, 2011 Would you ever marry an ex-convict assuming they were honest and straightforward about it. If they haven't been convicted for murder, rape but for minor convictions things like drug dealing etc. and they seem to turned their lifes around now and are decent men holding good jobs. If they are sincere a genuine person, honest, loving and is everything you always wanted in a man and they repented would you overlook their past. We are living in the 21st century and alot of men have criminal records or been to jail in the past. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
princesshafsa Posted October 18, 2011 he might be better than someone who has been on the right path his whole life and once you get married and have children, and go through ups and downs that person might go bonanza and start doing everything wrong in the book while the ex convict has retired and ready for a fresh start. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Juxa Posted October 18, 2011 Alot of men may have criminal records but is that the best way to start a new life? what would your parents think? do they approve? I think everyone deserves a second chance, depending on the crime he committed, you should think very carefully before embarking on a life changing decision like that. good luck Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nemo Posted October 18, 2011 Bisinka what? Why did all the decent men die in an explosion or something? I believe if u find 1 decent guy there are 100s of other more decent men out there. Rely on Allah and leave the criminals for criminals. Yes people deserve second chance of course that doesnt mean u got to low ur standards dee Its like when girls go for reverts all of a sudden their standards fall so low just so he is muslim dunna why they its like they never saw a muslim guy before. But good luck if ur in that situation Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Che -Guevara Posted October 18, 2011 Bluelicious;752090 wrote: We are living in the 21st century and alot of men have criminal records or been to jail in the past. Less men went to jail in the 20th century? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Juxa Posted October 18, 2011 ^^ qodqodida dhaaf I would personally steer clear from criminals and bankrupt men! if you can do a background check baan dadka kula taliyaa Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Che -Guevara Posted October 18, 2011 ^It's an odd assertion that could only mean two things. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NGONGE Posted October 18, 2011 I'm actually surprised that you would find a convict who is free to propose to you. The Somali way is for convicts to go home and marry prettier, younger and less judgemental girls than those found in the West. Who says crime doesn't pay, huh? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Che -Guevara Posted October 18, 2011 ^You are assuming the convict is Somali. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NGONGE Posted October 18, 2011 ^^ Maya. These days even "other" convicts go to Somalia to marry young, pretty and fully jilbaabed girls. Wax fahan. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Che -Guevara Posted October 18, 2011 ^taas waa iga danbayse. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nemo Posted October 18, 2011 NGONGE;752215 wrote: I'm actually surprised that you would find a convict who is free to propose to you. The Somali way is for convicts to go home and marry prettier, younger and less judgemental girls than those found in the West. Who says crime doesn't pay, huh? Man that sounds a good deal....do u think somali girls are offered that as well? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NGONGE Posted October 18, 2011 ^^ Arooska Abu Qori Al-Kanadi miyaanad ka qayb galin barigee aad Al Shabab taagiiri jirtay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Che -Guevara Posted October 18, 2011 ^I don't go to a wedding where the groom and the bride are not seated in the same room. In any case, the number of Abu whatever marrying local Somali girl is negligible. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Xaaji Xunjuf Posted October 18, 2011 it depends if she is willing to change i believe in true love Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites