Aaliyyah Posted July 12, 2011 http://www.zawaj.com/articles/pointershakeem.html Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
- Femme - Posted July 12, 2011 Good points & if people did more talking and truly getting to know each other and less giggling/flirting in the 'courtship' stage then maybe some of the future marital surprises/problems could have been avoided. Allah knows best. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted July 12, 2011 @less giggling and more talking..that's the way to go. That is exactly an islamic way of dating (or maybe I shouldn't say dating since that term has different implications) people spending too much time in flirting and conducting themselves in non islamic way is why ppl end up doing things that are unsilamic and against the teachings of Islam...if someone was serious about marriage they would put more time and thinking into getting to know the person...so they can know if the person is compatible. Thanks for your input! salaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
