Aaliyyah Posted June 17, 2011 It is true that many people get married just cuz every other farah or xalimo is settling. Which explains the high divorce rate in the somali community. There is nothing wrong with getting married, in fact it is half of your deen. But, it is good to strive to find a good person who is mature/responsible who you can say okey this man I can spend the rest of my life with. As oppose to oh my god every halimo got married lol..like my mom always tells me dee orad guurso and all that preaching. But, personally i dnt see myself married unless I find that right person. I dont giva dam who settled or who didnt salaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jacaylbaro Posted June 17, 2011 my mom always tells me dee orad guurso and all that preaching. But, personally i dnt see myself married unless I find that right person. Now expect PMs from Xaaji Xunjuf and Axmed_Najad Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted June 17, 2011 LOL how many times do I have to remind you that my pm is disabled! do u have alzheimer's Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jacaylbaro Posted June 17, 2011 I only know they're good at hacking .................. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Taleexi Posted June 17, 2011 Alla maxaa layska waalay! this voluntary surrender of your God given freedom will carry on - I must agree with Nuune, marriage is the only prison you voluntarily submit to. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jacaylbaro Posted June 17, 2011 My crazy Awoowo told me if you marry the one you love it is a prison .... if not then it is a total freedom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Posted June 17, 2011 I must be too tired - cant comprehend the marriage equals a prison sentence concept the guys are talking about here..:confused: LOL@Aaliyah - any given chance huh? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted June 18, 2011 ^lol malika I wonder jacaylbaro wat your awoowe meant by that statement. perhaps, he meant if u married someone u luv it is prison especially if that person takes it for granted, where if u married someone u dnt care abt too much then u are not heartbroken if something goes wrong..Just saying maybe thats what he meant! even though its weird way of looking at it. Like if u married someone u dnt luv marriage should be a prison..like whats the point of that marriage!..where if u married someon u luv n luvs u should be worthwhile. But, then again real love comes after marriage doesnt it? so u never know how things are until u get married and qofka si wacan u baratid...hmm now its getting more complicated lol ... Lol Malka neither can I comprehend what they are yapping abt but I am thinking if jacaylbaros awoowe said it, there might be some wisdom behind it. Odey mala yacni uma hadlin wuxun arkay salaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Taleexi Posted June 18, 2011 Maxay gabdhahan yar yari maxay la qayl qaylinayaan - Prison-ka waa ku khasbanahay sheekadu halkaas bay ku dhan tahay Illaahay amarkiis. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Axmed-InaJaad Posted June 18, 2011 horta, there are days i wonder who was that first caveman who invented marriage? it must've been a mutation that made him want to settle for one woman. the other cavemen should've go together and made sure he got into an accident before he passed on his onegina disease. alas, millions of years later, we are still suffering for the actions of that one selfish *******. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miriam1 Posted June 19, 2011 Interesting. There are a lot of marriages took place only because the girl is edging on that disastrous age *imagine dramatic music - DUN DUN DUN* 30. So its really a mission to marry before 30 and many of these marriages can be successful or fails. Oh and men, when they generally hit 35 - are obsessed with the idea of settling down - so who ever is next best girl is the one. its all really sad. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miskin Posted June 21, 2011 Nuune, you hit the nail on the head chief Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nabad_dadaye Posted June 22, 2011 marka hore raadso qof naftaada ku qanacsantahay ,aadna isla jaan qaadi kartaan ,kadib salaatul istakhaara u tuko rabina u bari ,hadii eey qeyr ku tahay waa kuu fududaanee hadii kale Rabi ayaa kaa leexin . lakin marka koowadba hadaad ku barato meel xun calaaqadiinana horana macsi ka buuxdo guurkiina munkar miiran laga dhigay ,halkeed barako iyo reynreyn ka sugeysaa. guurka wanaagsan runtii waa jano aduun oo kale , ka fiirsi ayuu ubaahan yahay intaadan galin , ninkana haduu mas'uul noqdo gabadha si fiican ula dhaqmo training fiican siiyo wadadaas ayeey waligeed ku socon waa hadaad adiga ugu horeysid ( gabarnimo ku guursatid). Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted June 22, 2011 ^sound advice there..especially abt how important it is where you meet the person. We usually underestimate that and be like whereever u meet him dnt matter as long as u get to know him afterwards (ie meeting him at a party, or those nowadays who think meeting someone online is cool and etc)...! I hoenstly believe if you meet someone at the wrong place, i doubt they would hold you in high regard and treat you as such!..and not to mention if you met him at the wrong place chances that he will turn wrong is higher as oppose to meeting him meel ka qeyr badan.. thanks for ur input! salaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
