Agreeing to differ

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Agreeing to differ

9/9/2004 - Social Religious Family - Article Ref: IC0409-2442

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By: Sadullah Khan

IslamiCity* -

 

With respect to the perception of truth, disagreement is an ancient phenomenon in the intellectual history of mankind. The belief that Truth is one does not detract from the possibility that how it is arrived at is a matter open to everyone, each to pursue within his or her social and intellectual means. This pursuit however, should not be to serve selfish or particularistic ends.

 

We must take cognizance of the fact that our intellectual life is based on an exchange of opinions, ideas that vary and often reflect distinct cultural, sociological, psychological and intellectual influences.

 

This diversity surely leads to differences in perspective, differences in understanding and naturally to some disagreement. Differences of opinion are inevitable wherever people possess intellect and honesty.

 

Accepting differences

 

When analyzing our history, it appears obvious that advanced and intellectually 'honest societies were able to profit from disagreement precisely because diversity fosters variety and thus a myriad of potentialities.

Civilized individuals respect other people and therefore have the tendency to respect the opinions of others.

 

Those who are ethically impoverished, emotionally overcharged and intellectually barren, have an inclination to be so dogmatic as to use differences of opinion as a barrier between themselves and others with whom they differ, often leading to disputes that cause disrespect for others and of others.

 

It is only gross ignorance and egoism that leads any person to blasphemously believe that there is no room for disputing his or her opinion.

It is unfortunate that this inability to accept and respect other people's opinion is so deep rooted in our socio-political environment that it is often considered part of religiosity.

 

Many religious leaders, organizations and institutions seem not to have rid themselves of that destructive and predictable legacy of desiring to be contentious rather than conciliatory.

 

Moderation

 

Balance and moderation are not only supposed to be inherent characteristics of true Believers, they are fundamental landmarks of Islam. Allah says: "Thus have We made you an Ummah justly balanced, that you may be a testimony to the world community". (2:143 Quran)

 

The lack of moderation often manifests itself through harshness in treatment of people, arrogance in attitude, roughness in manner and crudeness in expression. The communicative method of those who are immoderate tends to be abusive, always criticizing, sermonizing or even berating others well past the point of legitimate communication and disregarding the moral obligation of respect. Their communication transgresses a reasonable attempt to inform or even persuade -- it becomes a harangue.

 

It is as if the speaker is engaged in a campaign to beat those, who differ with him into submission rather than simply convey a point of view, pummeling them with repetitive opinion, complaints or demands. And if the desired response is not given the speaker simply restates the point more loudly or aggressively.

 

Telling one of these ardently opinionated people that their position has been heard, understood and considered, rarely stops the onslaught. The only way such people will believe that their point is understood is if everyone agrees with it. They can become so self-righteous that they truly believe disagreement with them is proof of confusion, ignorance, ********* , treachery, hypocrisy or even kufr.

 

It is one thing to assert the primacy of universal virtues like goodness and justice; it is quite another to exclusively claim the cloak of universal truth on opinions dealing with matters on which knowledgeable people disagree.

 

Differing as Muslims in an un-Islamic manner

 

The Qur'an has declared the followers of Prophet Muhammad as Ummatan Waahidah (single global community), as Ikhwa (a fraternity); and has distinctly warned against infighting (8:46 Quran). It is ironic that the present-day Muslim society often manifests the very antithesis of these descriptions and pays no heed to this warning.

 

The vast majority of our internal battles are as a consequence of dogmatism and narrowly defined self interests. We have made that universal and ever relevant Islam a source and cause of major conflicts and infighting over insignificant issues and turning minor points of jurisprudence into major ideological conflicts. Sadly, all of this is in the holy name of Islam.

 

Betraying a noble tradition

 

The Mujtahideen (experts in Islamic Law) differed and disagreed yet maintained a high regard for one another Imam Abu Hanifah said, "If it were not for the two years that I accompanied Imam Ja'far as-Sadiq, I would have perished." These exemplary scholars were neither self-righteous nor dogmatic. When the Abbasid Caliph al-Mansur expressed his intention of attaching Imam Malik's Al-Muwatta to the Ka'bah and obliging people to follow it, Imam Malik himself opposed the idea saying people in different parts of the Muslim world may have received differering information. He urged the Ca1iph al-Mansur to leave people to follow in accordance with the knowledge they had received and not to narrow down nor to limit that which Allah and His Messenger have left without bounds.

 

Imam Ahmad ibn Hanbal pleaded, "Do not follow me nor Malik nor Shafi'i nor Awzaai nor Thawri, rather take from the source (Qur'an and Sunnah) from which we have taken." The great jurist Imam Shafi'i is reported to have said: "I never argue with anyone without praying that Allah may put the truth on the tongue of that person." He also said: "My opinion is correct but the possibility of error exists." The differing opinions of great scholars and those well-versed help to illuminate the multi-dimensions of an issue and varying interpretations bring about a degree of flexibility that the law requires to meet the needs demanded by the vicissitudes of ever-changing times.

 

Etiquette and social interest

 

Problems usually arise due to four main reasons:

 

1. People overstate their differences.

 

2. They attribute to themselves a degree of infallibility and consider their opinion to be the ultimate view, almost as if God's revelation is merely a substantiation of their perspective.

 

3. Vested interests that cause people to undermine others (particularly those who are more successful than themselves or to deflect criticism of their own shortcomings).

 

4. When groups become excessively partisan to one opinion over another.

 

As Muslims we need to realize that differing does not necessarily imply opposing; that within the broad spectrum of shared knowledge and difference of opinion there is also the uniting factor of mutual respect and the greater interest of the community.

 

And Allah knows best.

 

Sadullah Khan is the Director of Islamic Center of Irvine. He has presented lectures on Islamic Civilization at California State University at Dominguez Hills. He is a frequent lecturer for the Academy of Judaic, Christian and Islamic Studies at UCLA (University of California, Los Angeles). He is also an advisor to the Chancellor's Committee on Religion Ethics and Values at UCLA and serves as Director of Muslim Affairs at USC (University of Southern California).

 

You can watch his lectures on Empowerment at IslamiTV

 

 

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2. They attribute to themselves a degree of infallibility and consider their opinion to be the ultimate view, almost as if God's revelation is merely a substantiation of their perspective.

I think this is the biggest problem in our Islamic Society.

 

and this is the solution:

 

As Muslims we need to realize that differing does not necessarily imply opposing; that within the broad spectrum of shared knowledge and difference of opinion there is also the uniting factor of mutual respect and the greater interest of the community.

 

Thanks Bashi I would like everybody to read this article and give his opinion about it.