NGONGE Posted March 21, 2011 ^^ You disgust me, woman. Disgust me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Che -Guevara Posted March 21, 2011 Br CD0000;703791 wrote: Me and your sister? What do you mean? All Muslims are brothers and sisters. I'm your brother. Like it or lump it, you're stuck with it. Aren't you hyper-sensitive. Humanity is one! Val.....Racists..........?:p Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted March 21, 2011 Thanks Che for the dua...guys be easy on this guy...and to the poster just deal with the girl and her family in a good way and im sure theyll return the favor....... Don't worry about anything that is said here ...and good luck! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Posted March 21, 2011 Br DC - has the girl talked to her mother? Usually mothers are soft spots in a family conflict, she might be able to ease the fathers concerns. I say use all powers available - the mother, aunties, sisters and Imams. She must have a favourite aunty or two who will speak on her behalf if the need be. Insha'allah kheyr - you know it shouldnt be this hard, nevertheless its possibly yours and her trial. Aaliyah and Pucca - What happened to the obsession with the Khamis wearing Korean or white babies? LOL..oh we forgot at some point it was okay to talk about reverts as potentials huh? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RaMpAgE Posted March 21, 2011 We don't care nor do we want to know. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted March 21, 2011 lol malika anuu caruurta half somali half white ah waan adore gareeya haha laakin ma odhan ana ilmo iska dhal ah yelanaya...nin somali ah cidkale kama doorsadeen..ilaahow no daa ...laakin dabcan allah og qofwalba calafkiisa..this one somali lady I know is married to arab guy..only allah knows meshu calafkaaga ku jiro!..laakin qofaan isku dhaqan nahay, isku luqad, isku deen nahay wax badan sahlasa.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chimera Posted March 21, 2011 Br CD0000;703770 wrote: Don't be a stickler for religion? Well, that pretty much sums up your attitude towards the deen and explains your utter disreagrd to all that Islam teaches us on this issue. Why are you even responding to this thread? Culture first, deen somewhere after that. It was obvious from the second you started posting. Bro, where in the deen does it say your allowed to chat with a sister without her mahram(s) and with the intention of marriage? Nowhere! This was you and her being part of a well-known sub-culture called "Social networking". You highlighted your background as simply being a "Revert", this can be seen from the title of this thread; Revert Br, Somalian Sr (not "Revert brother with a question"), and your later vague reference to being from one part of the European continent (as if its some monolithic entity) clearly shows ethnicity means nothing to you, yet you highlighted the sister's ethnic background for some reason. I know why, because the ethnic sobriquet you used for the person you want to marry is part of an established cultural complex. It's her language and culture that makes her a "Somali" otherwise she would be indistinguishable from an Afar, a Beja, or an Oromo. Why would it be important to mention her background but not yours? Why would you sign up to a Somali forum instead of the many all-inclusive Islamic forums out there, if mainstream Islamic advice is what your looking for? Secondly do you even know the historic role "culture" played in Islam wherever it took root? Do you honestly believe the lavish Rashidun and Ottoman Mosques with their iconic domes in the early and medieval centuries of Islam just magically appeared in Baghdad and Istanbul or was this simply a case of the Caliphs taking Sassanid Persian and Byzantine Greek culture and mold it into new architectural styles? A language like Arabic was for many years a vehicle for Arab culture and predates Islam by centuries, but this didn't stop the Prophet Pbuh from using it, in fact it became the language of the Qur'an! Many aspects of the Sunnah are rooted in Arab culture, yet a billion muslims around the world follow it because it compliments the deen. Therefore it's a bit pretentious for you to say to us "culture first, deen later" when historically there are thousands of examples where they have gone hand in hand perfectly. Even in modern times hundreds of millions of muslims including yourself are very much a part of a cultural phenomena called the Internet for self-development and the pursuit of happiness. It's perfectly understandable for the Somali parents in question to be concerned about your family if you consider them an important backbone in your personal life, in terms of support and other issues. For them to deny you on that basis is certainly allowed! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Valenteenah. Posted March 22, 2011 NGONGE;703819 wrote: ^^ You disgust me, woman. Disgust me. C'mon, give him the benefit of the doubt. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NGONGE Posted March 22, 2011 Valenteenah.;704216 wrote: C'mon, give him the benefit of the doubt. Can't help it, Val. The stench of an amatuer imposter is too strong to ignore. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cynical lady Posted March 24, 2011 BRCD- despite all your who haa and silly thread/replies and ever growing frustration. The reality still stands-Brother Che has better chance of being accepted into the woman’s family than you. Now until you understand and appreciate the reason as to why such is so instead of ranting about your frustration; which frankly is tiresome, you won’t make any progress in your quest to marry a Somali chica. Silly man with silly problems…… Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cynical lady Posted March 24, 2011 [quoteBr DC - has the girl talked to her mother? Usually mothers are soft spots in a family conflict, she might be able to ease the fathers concerns. I say use all powers available - the mother, aunties, sisters and Imams. She must have a favourite aunty or two who will speak on her behalf if the need be. Insha'allah kheyr - you know it shouldnt be this hard, nevertheless its possibly yours and her trial. ] Typical mpendwa. We mwanamke wewe mbona unafunga ma fix huyu? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Posted March 24, 2011 ^Looooool - bwana niache nimsaidie..lol:D @ ma fix..ee shoga, mwenzio sio mtoto wa mjini kama wewe, niki ambiwa hii ni kalamu nina amini hata kama ni mswaki nilicho onyeshwa..looool Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ElPunto Posted March 24, 2011 Somewhere in all of this needless controversey lurks Marx. I guarantee it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Boom Boom Posted March 25, 2011 Why in the world would any one who is not Somali want to marry a Somali? Do you understand that you're marrying the worst and savage culture in the world. Save your future kids the embarrassment of being half pirate, half terrorist, half criminal and half welfare scumbag in the world. The only people who would marry into this cursed ethnic group are those from it and are forced to. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Axmed-InaJaad Posted March 25, 2011 ninkaan is a dumb troll. yaa lagu mashquulin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
