Nur Posted October 2, 2004 Zainabia OG Girl I am back sisters, excuse my absence, of all the Aqeedah topics that I've posted it seems that you are more interested in Mutaa than princiles such as Imaamah, Rajcah, Bidaa. So OG Girl sis, you are talking about kufr, how about the belief of the Shia of the Kufr of Abu Bakar, Omar and Othman, Aisha and the rest of trhe companions, can you please shed some light on it without religiously lying using your tuqya gear? So before I answer this topic and dig the background of the Mutaa principle, its history, occurance, definition, and how it found home with the Shia, etc, I assume that OG girl is an Arabic native speaker, so I am posting a live lecture and Question and answer session between students at Dearborn Michigan and a prominent Shia scholar from Qom, held in Dearborn Michigan on 20 July 2002. The Lecture and Fatwaa of Ayatullah Al Uthmaa Azraa Yacqub al Amili from Holy Qom City To The Shia Community meeting in Dearborn Michigan at the University Conference Hall Below is the Arabic text of the meeting, enjoy reading ( if you need help please ask an Arabic reader to read it to you, this stuff is realy kinky, questions answered by the Ayatullah include, Iranian and Italian lovers habits in bed, what happens when time runs out for Muta session before the nirvana, can the Mutaa contract be extended during intercourse, can the Mutaa be kept confidential so parents dont know, the least permissible time for Mutaa contract, if you guessed that one go will do, you are right according to the Sheikh, but you must immediately turn your face away and not look!!! woow woow woow .) The Text 20-7-2002 20:04 اØتÙت الطائÙØ© الشيعية ÙÙŠ ديربورن بولاية ميتشيغن ÙÙŠ الولايات المتØدة الأميركية بقدوم Ø£Øد الØجج من قم المشرÙØ© زائرا ومØاضرا ÙÙŠ شبابهم وأعيانهم. وبدأ الØÙÙ„ ÙÙŠ Ø£Øد قاعات جامعة ديربورن بتقديم هذا الضي٠الكريم، Ùبدأ مراقب الØÙÙ„ بعد الترØاب والتصÙيق الطويل بقوله: يسرنا أيها الإخوة والأخوات أن نستضي٠ÙÙŠ هذه المناسبة الطيبة Ø£Øد كبار Ùقهاء الشيعة الإمامية، وهو ÙÙŠ الØقيقة مصدر العلوم والØكم والآثار، ومركز دائرة الÙضلاء النبلاء الأØبار، وقطب الشريعة الذي عليه منها المدار ÙÙŠ هذه الأعصار، وركن الشيعة وشيخها الجليل المنزلة والمقدار، إن قلت ÙÙŠ الÙضل Ùمثل الشمس ÙÙŠ رابعة النهار، وإنْ ÙÙŠ الÙيض Ùأنى ÙŠØسن أن تقاس به الأنهار؟ - تصÙيق Øاد منقطع النظير من الجمهور، وقد وقÙوا له تبجيلا. بعدها القى Ù…Øاضرة طويلة عريضة عن Ù†ÙƒØ§Ø Ø§Ù„Ù…ØªØ¹Ø© - قيام وتصÙيق Øاد من الØضور - عري٠الØÙÙ„: نشكر لسماØØ© آية الله العظمى يعقوب عزرا العاملي ما أتØÙنا به من جميل القول ÙÙŠ المتعة، وكم هو Øري بنا ÙÙŠ هذه المناسبة شباب وشابات أن نطبق هذا الØÙ‚ المشروع من الآن Ùيستمتع بعضنا ببعض لمدة أسبو! ع أو ليلة أو Øتى ساعة، وأترك الميكرÙون للإخوة والأخوات الØضور Ù„Ø·Ø±Ø Ø§Ø³ØªÙساراتهم Øول المتعة أو غيرها. - اسمي زينب عبد الØسين، وسؤال هو: تزوجت صديق لي ÙÙŠ الجامعة زواج متعة ÙˆØددنا الوقت لمدة ساعة، وذهبت معه إلى غرÙته ÙÙŠ سكن الطلاب، ولكن الوقت أخذنا، ÙˆÙÙŠ أثناء الجماع انتهت المدة ولما ننتهي من قضاء الوطر بعد، واستمرينا ÙÙŠ المواقعة، Ùهل وقعنا ÙÙŠ الزنا؟ آية الله العظمى العاملي: إن الØسنات يذهبن السيئات، قبولك للمتعة Øسنة عظيمة، والاستمرار ÙÙŠ المواقعة بعد انتهاء المدة المØددة وإن كانت سيئة لكنها جنØØ© بسيطة. - أنا نضال مقهور، طالب جامعي، تعرÙت على أخت شيعية، ونشأت بيننا علاقة غرامية، واتÙقت معها على أن نعقد Ùيما بيننا Ù†ÙƒØ§Ø Ø§Ù„Ù…ØªØ¹Ø©ØŒ ÙˆØين اختليت بها، رÙضت أن أجامعها لئلا تÙقد بكارتها، Ùما العمل؟ - آية الله العاملي: إذا كنت قد دÙعت لها أجرة المتعة، Ùارجع لها .. يا أخي هناك سبيلين، الدين يسر وليس عسر، واستمتع بالسبيل الثاني، ماكو Øرج ÙÙŠ المسألة. Ùقد روى الكليني ÙÙŠ النوادر من باب Ø§Ù„Ù†ÙƒØ§Ø Ø¹Ù† عَلÙيٌّ عَنْ أَبÙيه٠عَن٠ابْن٠أَبÙÙŠ عÙمَيْر٠عَنْ عَمَّار٠بْن! ٠مَرْوَانَ عَنْ أَبÙÙŠ عَبْد٠اللَّه٠( عليه السلام ) قَالَ Ù‚Ùلْت٠لَه٠رَجÙÙ„ÙŒ جَاءَ Ø¥ÙÙ„ÙŽÙ‰ امْرَأَة٠Ùَسَأَلَهَا أَنْ تÙزَوّÙجَه٠نَÙْسَهَا Ùَقَالَتْ Ø£ÙزَوّÙجÙÙƒÙŽ Ù†ÙŽÙْسÙÙŠ عَلَى أَنْ تَلْتَمÙسَ Ù…ÙنّÙÙŠ مَا Ø´Ùئْتَ Ù…Ùنْ نَظَر٠أَو٠الْتÙمَاس٠وَ تَنَالَ Ù…ÙنّÙÙŠ مَا يَنَال٠الرَّجÙÙ„Ù Ù…Ùنْ أَهْلÙه٠إÙلَّا أَنَّكَ لَا تÙدْخÙÙ„Ù Ùَرْجَكَ ÙÙÙŠ ÙَرْجÙÙŠ ÙˆÙŽ تَتَلَذَّذَ بÙمَا Ø´Ùئْتَ ÙÙŽØ¥ÙنّÙÙŠ أَخَاÙ٠الْÙَضÙÙŠØÙŽØ©ÙŽØŸ قَالَ لَيْسَ لَه٠إÙلَّا مَا اشْتÙرÙØ·ÙŽ. - المراقب يقرأ رسالة خطية: أنا شابة مقيمة هنا، ÙˆØدثت Ù†Ùسي عدة مرات بزواج المتعة، لكني أستØÙŠ من Ø·Ø±Ø Ø§Ù„Ù…ÙˆØ¶ÙˆØ¹ مع أي شاب، Ùماذا Ø£Ùعل؟ آية الله العاملي: يقولون لا Øياء ÙÙŠ الدين، أنا Ø£ØÙ„ لك مشكلتك، آني شخصيا Ø£Øتاج الليلة إلى أخت مؤمنة تمتعني بنÙسها، صار لي أيام ÙÙŠ السÙر والترØال بعيد عن أم العيال، وقد ورد عن الأئمة عليهم السلام أنه من تمتع مرة كان ÙÙŠ درجة الØسين ومن تمتع مرتين كان ÙÙŠ درجة الØسن، ومن تمتع ثلاث مرات كان ÙÙŠ درجة أمير المؤمنين، ومن تمتع أربع مرات كان ÙÙŠ درجة النبي صلى الله عليه وآله؟ أكو Ø£Øسن من هذا؟ Ùهذه Ùرصتك لكي تكوني Ù! ÙŠ درجة الØسين رضوان الله عليه، ماكو مانع بعد المØاضرة تقابليني لعقد Ù†ÙƒØ§Ø Ø§Ù„Ù…ØªØ¹Ø©. بعدين آني معاكم إن شاء الله لمدة أسبوع، Ùأي أخت مؤمنة تØب أن تجبر بخاطري وتنال الثواب العظيم تتصل بي ÙÙŠ الÙندق هوليداي إن مأجورة إن شاء الله. وأذكر لكم هنا Øديثا أورده الكليني ÙÙŠ الكاÙÙŠ ÙÙŠ باب النوادر الذي يلي باب الميراث، ÙÙŠ ØØ« الأخوات أن يعرضن المتعة على الرجل إرغاما لأن٠زÙر الذي Øرمها برأيه، قال عن: Ù…ÙØَمَّد٠بْن٠يَØْيَى عَنْ Ø£ÙŽØْمَدَ بْن٠مÙØَمَّد٠عَنْ عَلÙيّ٠بْن٠الْØَكَم٠عَنْ بَشÙير٠بْن٠Øَمْزَةَ عَنْ رَجÙÙ„Ù Ù…Ùنْ Ù‚Ùرَيْش٠قَالَ بَعَثَتْ Ø¥Ùلَيَّ ابْنَة٠عَمّ٠لÙÙŠ كَانَ لَهَا مَالٌ ÙƒÙŽØ«Ùيرٌ [قالت]: قَدْ عَرَÙْتَ كَثْرَةَ مَنْ يَخْطÙبÙÙ†ÙÙŠ Ù…ÙÙ†ÙŽ الرّÙجَال٠Ùَلَمْ Ø£ÙزَوّÙجْهÙمْ Ù†ÙŽÙْسÙÙŠ ÙˆÙŽ مَا بَعَثْت٠إÙلَيْكَ رَغْبَةً ÙÙÙŠ الرّÙجَال٠غَيْرَ أَنَّه٠بَلَغَنÙÙŠ أَنَّه٠أَØَلَّهَا اللَّه٠عَزَّ ÙˆÙŽ جَلَّ ÙÙÙŠ ÙƒÙتَابÙÙ‡Ù ÙˆÙŽ بَيَّنَهَا رَسÙول٠اللَّه٠( صلى الله عليه وآله ) ÙÙÙŠ سÙنَّتÙÙ‡Ù ÙÙŽØَرَّمَهَا زÙÙَر٠ÙÙŽØ£ÙŽØْبَبْت٠أَنْ Ø£ÙØ·Ùيعَ اللَّهَ عَزَّ ÙˆÙŽ جَلَّ Ùَوْقَ عَرْشÙÙ‡Ù ÙˆÙŽ Ø£ÙØ·Ùيعَ رَسÙولَ الل! Ù‘ÙŽÙ‡Ù ( صلى الله عليه وآله ) ÙˆÙŽ أَعْصÙÙŠÙŽ زÙÙَرَ ÙَتَزَوَّجْنÙÙŠ Ù…Ùتْعَةً ÙÙŽÙ‚Ùلْت٠لَهَا Øَتَّى أَدْخÙÙ„ÙŽ عَلَى أَبÙÙŠ جَعْÙَر٠( عليه السلام ) ÙَأَسْتَشÙيرَه٠قَالَ Ùَدَخَلْت٠عَلَيْه٠ÙَخَبَّرْتÙÙ‡Ù Ùَقَالَ اÙْعَلْ صَلَّى اللَّه٠عَلَيْكÙمَا Ù…Ùنْ زَوْج٠. Ø£Ùتعجز الأخوات العÙÙŠÙات أن يكن مثل هذه المؤمنة؟ كلا .. بل لهن جزيل الأجر والثواب، انظرن ماذا قال المعصوم عليه السلام ÙÙŠ Øقهما: صلى الله عليكما من زوج. - تصÙيق من الجمهور Øاد - اسمي منى عبد الرضا وسؤالي هو عن أجرة الاستمتاع، يعني هل يمكنني أن Ø£Øدد أجرة كل جزئية من جسدي يريد أن يستمتع بها الرجل؟ آية الله العاملي: لا شك أختي الكريمة، Ùهذا Øقك، ÙˆÙ†ÙƒØ§Ø Ø§Ù„Ù…ØªØ¹Ø© إيجاب وقبول، Ùكما أن الرجل يؤجر منزله أو يؤجر سيارته أو Øماره، أنت أيضا لك الØÙ‚ أن تؤجري جسدك، كله أو بعضه، Ùيستمتع الرجل منك بالجزء الذي استأجره. -اسمي ميرزا مرتضى غلام علي، وسؤالي هو ما أقل المدة المشترطة ÙÙŠ المتعة؟ - آية الله العاملي: جاء ÙÙŠ الكاÙÙŠ للكليني طيب الله ثراه من كتاب النكاØØŒ باب ما يجوز من الأجل قوله عن Ù…ÙØَمَّدٌ عَنْ Ø£! ÙŽØْمَدَ بْن٠مÙØَمَّد٠عَنْ Ù…ÙØَمَّد٠بْن٠خَالÙد٠عَنْ خَلَÙ٠بْن٠Øَمَّاد٠قَالَ أَرْسَلْت٠إÙÙ„ÙŽÙ‰ أَبÙÙŠ الْØَسَن٠( عليه السلام ) كَمْ أَدْنَى أَجَل٠الْمÙتْعَة٠هَلْ يَجÙوز٠أَنْ يَتَمَتَّعَ الرَّجÙل٠بÙشَرْط٠مَرَّة٠وَاØÙدَة٠قَالَ نَعَمْ. وعليه Ùلا بأس أن تستمتع بأختك المؤمنة لعملية جنسية واØدة. ولكن مجرد أن تنتهي تصر٠نظرك لما روى الكليني ÙÙŠ الكاÙÙŠ أيضا قال: عÙدَّةٌ Ù…Ùنْ أَصْØَابÙنَا عَنْ سَهْل٠بْن٠زÙيَاد٠عَن٠ابْن٠Ùَضَّال٠عَن٠الْقَاسÙم٠بْن٠مÙØَمَّد٠عَنْ رَجÙل٠سَمَّاه٠قَالَ سَأَلْت٠أَبَا عَبْد٠اللَّه٠( عليه السلام ) عَن٠الرَّجÙل٠يَتَزَوَّج٠الْمَرْأَةَ عَلَى عَرْد٠وَاØÙد٠Ùَقَالَ لَا بَأْسَ ÙˆÙŽ Ù„ÙŽÙƒÙنْ Ø¥Ùذَا Ùَرَغَ ÙَلْيÙØَوّÙلْ وَجْهَه٠وَ لَا يَنْظÙرْ . - اسمي سكينة غلوم باقر Ù…Øبي، وسؤالي هو عن طبيعة زواج المتعة، هل يكون كونÙدنشال، أعني هل يجب أن يعر٠الأهل والأقارب أني متعت Ù†Ùسي من شخص Ø£Øبه؟ - آية الله العاملي: لا يجب، وإن كنت Ø£Øبذ إعلانه Øتى تشيع هذه الÙضيلة ولا يتØرج منها بين العارÙين المؤمنين. Ùما العيب Ùيه؟ العيب أن يكون لك بوي Ùرند! من غير زواج، والإسلام Ø£ØÙ„ لك البوي Ùريند بطريقة الزواج المؤقت، لكن إن أبقيت الزواج سرا، Ùلا بأس. لأن الشباب ÙÙŠ هذا الزمن وهذه البلاد لا يمكن أن يقاوم الغريزة الجنسية، كما أنه لا يمكنه كطالب جامعي ÙÙŠ كثير من الأوقات أن يتØمل مسؤولية الزواج الدائم، Ùأين يذهب بطاقته الجنسية؟ ÙÙ†ÙƒØ§Ø Ø§Ù„Ù…ØªØ¹Ø© كان الØÙ„ الأمثل لتصري٠هذه الطاقة وهذا الشبق الجنسي عند الشباب والشابات. - اسمي عبد الأمير Øسين الوائلي، تزوجت أخت شيعية Ù†ÙƒØ§Ø Ù…Ø¤Ù‚Øª لمدة ستة شهور، وتØس بالغيرة كلما كلمتها عن Øاجتي Ù„Ù†ÙƒØ§Ø Ø£Ø®ÙˆØ§Øª أخريات لليلة واØدة أو لعرد واØد كما ذكرتم قبل قليل، ودوما ÙÙŠ شجار Øول هذه المسألة، Ùهل يجوز لي أن أتزوج عليها واØدة أو أكثر؟ - آية الله العاملي: جاء ÙÙŠ الكاÙÙŠ للكليني، ويا إخوة كل ما Ø£Øدثكم به هو ÙÙŠ كتاب النكاØØŒ أبواب المتعة لثقة الإسلام أبي جعÙر Ù…Øمد بن يعقوب الكليني Ùليراجع، أقول روى الكليني عن عَلÙيّ٠بْن٠إÙبْرَاهÙيمَ عَنْ أَبÙيه٠عَن٠ابْن٠أَبÙÙŠ عÙمَيْر٠عَنْ عÙمَرَ بْن٠أÙذَيْنَةَ عَنْ أَبÙÙŠ عَبْد٠اللَّه٠( عليه السلام ) قَالَ Ù‚Ùلْت٠كَمْ تَØÙلّ٠مÙÙ†ÙŽ الْمÙتْعَة٠قَالَ Ùَقَالَ Ù‡Ùنَّ ! بÙمَنْزÙلَة٠الْإÙمَاءÙ. وروى عن Ù…ÙØَمَّد٠بْن٠يَØْيَى عَنْ Ø£ÙŽØْمَدَ بْن٠مÙØَمَّد٠بْن٠عÙيسَى عَن٠الْØÙسَيْن٠بْن٠سَعÙيد٠وَ Ù…ÙØَمَّد٠بْن٠خَالÙد٠الْبَرْقÙيّ٠عَن٠الْقَاسÙم٠بْن٠عÙرْوَةَ عَنْ عَبْد٠الْØÙŽÙ…Ùيد٠عَنْ Ù…ÙØَمَّد٠بْن٠مÙسْلÙم٠عَنْ أَبÙÙŠ جَعْÙَر٠( عليه السلام ) ÙÙÙŠ الْمÙتْعَة٠قَالَ لَيْسَتْ Ù…ÙÙ†ÙŽ الْأَرْبَع٠لÙأَنَّهَا لَا تÙطَلَّق٠وَ لَا تَرÙØ«Ù ÙˆÙŽ Ø¥Ùنَّمَا Ù‡ÙÙŠÙŽ Ù…Ùسْتَأْجَرَةٌ. Ùأقول لأخواتي الشيعيات أن يتقين الله Ùإنما هن مستأجرات للمتعة، Ùلا يجوز لهن أن يمنعن الرجل من استئجار Øتى أل٠صبية، لما روى الكليني عن الْØÙسَيْن٠بْن٠مÙØَمَّد٠عَنْ Ø£ÙŽØْمَدَ بْن٠إÙسْØَاقَ عَنْ سَعْدَانَ بْن٠مÙسْلÙم٠عَنْ عÙبَيْد٠بْن٠زÙرَارَةَ عَنْ أَبÙيه٠عَنْ أَبÙÙŠ عَبْد٠اللَّه٠( عليه السلام ) قَالَ ذَكَرْت٠لَه٠الْمÙتْعَةَ Ø£ÙŽÙ‡ÙÙŠÙŽ Ù…ÙÙ†ÙŽ الْأَرْبَع٠Ùَقَالَ تَزَوَّجْ Ù…ÙنْهÙنَّ أَلْÙاً ÙÙŽØ¥ÙنَّهÙنَّ Ù…Ùسْتَأْجَرَاتٌ. Ùلا داعي للغيرة والشجار Ùيشمت أهل السنة بكن، بل يجب عليكن إظهار السرور والقبول بالأمر الواقع، وهو أن الرجل يدÙع ماله لغرض الاستمتاع الجنسي بكن لإشباع غري! زة هو غير قادر أن يصرÙها بشكل آخر. Ùأقول ماكو مجال للغيرة مع أخت مؤمنة Ø£Øبت أن تؤجر جسدها لرجلك. - المراقب يقرأ رسالة خطية: سماØØ© آية الله العاملي، أنا متزوجة زواج دائم، وزوجي رجل دين، وكثيرا ما يبيت الليل خارج المنزل، Ùأسأله أين كان، Ùيرد بأنه قضى الليلة عند أخت شيعية تزوجها متعة، وأنا أخا٠أن أصاب بالمرض الخبيث الإيدز لكثرة معاشرته لنساء كثيرات، Ùماذا Ø£Ùعل؟ - آية الله العاملي: لا شك أن الأØوال تغيرت والزمن تغير وكثرت الأمراض الجنسية، واذكر أن الكليني روى ÙÙŠ كتابه الكاÙÙŠ عن Ù…ÙØَمَّد٠بْن٠يَØْيَى عَنْ Ø£ÙŽØْمَدَ بْن٠مÙØَمَّد٠عَن٠ابْن٠مَØْبÙوب٠عَنْ أَبَان٠عَنْ أَبÙÙŠ مَرْيَمَ عَنْ أَبÙÙŠ جَعْÙَر٠( عليه السلام ) أَنَّه٠سÙئÙÙ„ÙŽ عَن٠الْمÙتْعَة٠Ùَقَالَ Ø¥Ùنَّ الْمÙتْعَةَ الْيَوْمَ لَيْسَ كَمَا كَانَتْ قَبْلَ الْيَوْم٠إÙنَّهÙنَّ ÙƒÙنَّ يَوْمَئÙØ°Ù ÙŠÙؤْمَنَّ ÙˆÙŽ الْيَوْمَ لَا ÙŠÙؤْمَنَّ ÙَاسْأَلÙوا عَنْهÙنَّ. يعني على الرجل أن يتأكد أن المرأة التي يعاشرها لليلة واØدة أو لمرة واØدة، هي امرأة عÙÙŠÙØ© تريد أن تشبع رغبتها الجنسية، وليست امرأة عاهر. - اسمي عبد الرض! ا الØسيني، وأنا متزوج زواج دائم وأريد أن أعر٠هل الزواج المؤقت للشباب العزّب Ùقط أم Øتى للمتزوج زواج دائم؟ -آية الله العاملي: إنت وين كنت طول وقت المØاضرة؟ هاهاهاهاهاهاها (ضØÙƒ عريض ÙÙŠ القاعة) ويش كنا انقول ملصبØØŸ الجواب يا عزيزي ورد ÙÙŠ الكاÙÙŠ عن عَلÙيّ٠بْن٠إÙبْرَاهÙيمَ عَن٠الْمÙخْتَار٠بْن٠مÙØَمَّد٠بْن٠الْمÙخْتَار٠وَ Ù…ÙØَمَّد٠بْن٠الْØَسَن٠عَنْ عَبْد٠اللَّه٠بْن٠الْØَسَن٠الْعَلَوÙيّ٠جَمÙيعاً عَن٠الْÙَتْØ٠بْن٠يَزÙيدَ قَالَ سَأَلْت٠أَبَا الْØَسَن٠( عليه السلام ) عَن٠الْمÙتْعَة٠Ùَقَالَ Ù‡ÙÙŠÙŽ Øَلَالٌ Ù…ÙبَاØÙŒ Ù…Ùطْلَقٌ Ù„Ùمَنْ لَمْ ÙŠÙغْنÙه٠اللَّه٠بÙالتَّزْوÙيج٠ÙَلْيَسْتَعْÙÙÙÙ’ بÙالْمÙتْعَة٠ÙÙŽØ¥Ùن٠اسْتَغْنَى عَنْهَا بÙالتَّزْوÙيج٠ÙÙŽÙ‡ÙÙŠÙŽ Ù…ÙبَاØÙŒ لَه٠إÙذَا غَابَ عَنْهَا . وأكو رواية أخرى عن عَلÙيّ٠بْن٠إÙبْرَاهÙيمَ عَنْ أَبÙيه٠عَن٠ابْن٠أَبÙÙŠ عÙمَيْر٠عَنْ عَلÙيّ٠بْن٠يَقْطÙين٠قَالَ سَأَلْت٠أَبَا الْØَسَن٠مÙوسَى ( عليه السلام ) عَن٠الْمÙتْعَة٠Ùَقَالَ ÙˆÙŽ مَا أَنْتَ ÙˆÙŽ ذَاكَ Ùَقَدْ أَغْنَاكَ اللَّه٠عَنْهَا Ù‚Ùلْت٠إÙنَّمَا أَرَدْت٠أَنْ Ø£ÙŽ! عْلَمَهَا Ùَقَالَ Ù‡ÙÙŠÙŽ ÙÙÙŠ ÙƒÙتَاب٠عَلÙيّ٠( عليه السلام ) ÙÙŽÙ‚Ùلْت٠نَزÙيدÙهَا ÙˆÙŽ تَزْدَاد٠Ùَقَالَ ÙˆÙŽ هَلْ ÙŠÙŽØ·ÙيبÙه٠إÙلَّا ذَاكَ . أي هل يطيب المستغني بالتزويج إلا استغناؤه به؟ أو يقال: معناه هل يطيب من أراد أن يعلمها إلا كونها ÙÙŠ كتاب علي (عليه السلام)ØŒ أي يكÙيه هذا. ÙˆÙÙŠ مرآة العقول: "وهل يطيبه" الضمير راجع إلى عقد المتعة، ومراد السائل أنه يجوز لنا بعد انقضاء المدة أن نزيدها ÙÙŠ المهر وتزداد المرأة ÙÙŠ المدة، أي تزوجها بمهر آخر مدة أخرى من غير عدة وتربص؟ Ùقال عليه السلام: العمدة ÙÙŠ طيب المتعة ÙˆØسنها هو ذلك، Ùإنه ليس مثل الدائم بØيث يكون لازما له كل ما عليه، بل يتمتعها مدة Ùإن واÙقه زادها وإلا يتركها. وعلى هذا ÙŠØتمل أن يكون ضمير يطيبه راجعا إلى الرجل. أي هذا سبب لطيب Ù†Ùس الرجل وسروره بهذا العقد. - اسمي هناء رضا الأنباري، وأريد أن أعر٠أقل المهر ÙÙŠ Ù†ÙƒØ§Ø Ø§Ù„Ù…ØªØ¹Ø©. - آية الله العاملي: هذا سؤال تسأله كثير من الأخوات، والجواب عليه أن الأمر عائد لها، لأن الرجل إنما يريد أن يستأجر Ùرجها أو ما شابه، والبضاعة بضاعتها، Ùهي التي تØدد إن شاءت أجرة استمتاعه بها، وإن ع! رض عليها مبلغا Ùرضيت به كان بها، ويجزئ ÙÙŠ أقله دولارا واØدا، لما روى الكليني ÙÙŠ الكاÙÙŠ عن Ø£ÙŽØْمَد٠بْن٠مÙØَمَّد٠عَن٠الْØÙسَيْن٠بْن٠سَعÙيد٠عَنْ Øَمَّاد٠بْن٠عÙيسَى عَنْ Ø´Ùعَيْب٠بْن٠يَعْقÙوبَ عَنْ أَبÙÙŠ بَصÙير٠قَالَ سَأَلْت٠أَبَا جَعْÙَر٠( عليه السلام ) عَنْ Ù…Ùتْعَة٠النّÙسَاء٠قَالَ Øَلَالٌ ÙˆÙŽ Ø¥Ùنَّه٠يÙجْزÙئ٠ÙÙيه٠الدّÙرْهَم٠Ùَمَا Ùَوْقَه٠. - اسمي علي Øسين مكي ØŒ Ø£Øيانا أجد Øرجا شديدا ÙÙŠ عرض المتعة على الأخت، Ùما هو السبيل الأمثل لعرض الÙكرة عليها؟ - آية الله العاملي: المسألة تØتاج إلى بعض اللطاÙØ© ÙÙŠ العرض. لا مانع من أن تمازØها بØيث تثير Ùيها الشهوة الجنسية Øتى تجد أرضا خصبة لسؤالك. يعني مثلا وأنا قادم إلى هنا بالطائرة، صد٠أني كنت جالسا بجانب سيدة جميلة وجدت ÙÙŠ قلبي شوقا للتØدث إليها والاستمتاع بها، Ùسألتها عن طبيعة عملها Ùقالت أنها باØثة اجتماعية. Ùقلت: تبØثين ÙÙŠ ماذا؟ قالت: ÙÙŠ مسائل الزواج والطلاق. قلت: هذا أمر جميل، وأنا بصÙتي رجل دين تهمني الأبØاث التي تجرينها، Ùهلا أخبرتيني 'Ù† Ø£Ù†Ø¬Ø Ø§Ù„Ø²ÙŠØ¬Ø§ØªØŸ قالت: بعد دراسة مستÙيضة تبين لي أن أكث! ر Øالات الزواج السعيدة هي عند الطليان والإيرانيين. Ùلم أتردد ÙÙŠ السؤال: وكي٠ذلك؟ Ùقالت: المعرو٠عن الرجل الإيطالي طول عزموله وعن الإيراني خمالته. وعندها قالت: إلى الآن لم أتعر٠على اسمك الكريم، Ùأجبتها على التو: اسمي أنطوني رÙسنجاني. - القاعة تضج بالضØÙƒ والتصÙيق والاستØسان - Ùكان هذا مدخلا لعرض Ù†ÙƒØ§Ø Ø§Ù„Ù…ØªØ¹Ø© معها وواÙقت بلا تردد. ومثل هذا Ø§Ù„Ù…Ø²Ø§Ø Ø§Ù„Ø¨Ø±ÙŠØ¡ مع الأخوات لا بأس به إذا كان الهد٠منه الوصول إلى التمتع بها، إما إذا لم يكن هناك نية ÙالأØوط العدم. - اسمي موسى علي الكاظمي، وأقول لك صراØØ© أني أجد ميلا Ù†ØÙˆ الرجال أكثر من النساء، Ùهل يجوز أن أعقد Ù†ÙƒØ§Ø Ø§Ù„Ù…ØªØ¹Ø© على رجل مثلي؟ - آية الله العاملي: هذا خارج عن موضوع Ù…Øاضرتنا، لكن إذا كان هذا هو السؤال الوØيد ÙÙŠ بابه Ùأجيبك عنه. أما أن تعقد Ù†ÙƒØ§Ø Ø§Ù„Ù…ØªØ¹Ø© على رجل Ùهذا لم يقم عليه دليل من روايات الأئمة المعصومين، وإنما Øصر هذا النوع من الزواج بين الجنسين. وأما Ø¥Ùراغ شهوتك مع رجل آخر، Ùقد ورد ÙÙŠ المØاسن للمØدث الجليل الثقة أبي جعÙر Ø£Øمد بن Ù…Øمد بن خالد البرقي، ÙÙŠ الجزء الأول منه الباب 51 عن Ù…Øمد بن عل! ÙŠØŒ عن غير واØد من أصØابه يرÙعه إلى أبي جعÙر عليه السلام قال: قيل له: أيكون المؤمن مبتلى؟ قال نعم، ولكن يعلو ولا يعلى. Ùإذا كنت الذي يعلو Ùهذا الØديث ÙŠÙتيك، والذي عليه مشايخنا ÙÙŠ العراق ولبنان والهند وباكستان اللعب مع الصبيان، أما الرجال Ùلا. وقد ورد عن أمير المؤمنين Øديث أشكل على Ø§Ù„Ø´Ø±Ø§Ø Ø±ÙˆØ§Ù‡ الكليني من كتاب Ø§Ù„Ù†ÙƒØ§Ø Ø¨Ø§Ø¨ اللواط عن عَلÙيّ٠بْن٠إÙبْرَاهÙيمَ عَنْ أَبÙيه٠عَن٠النَّوْÙÙŽÙ„Ùيّ٠عَن٠السَّكÙونÙيّ٠عَنْ أَبÙÙŠ عَبْد٠اللَّه٠( عليه السلام ) قَالَ: قَالَ Ø£ÙŽÙ…Ùير٠الْمÙؤْمÙÙ†Ùينَ ( عليه السلام ) اللّÙوَاط٠مَا دÙونَ الدّÙبÙر٠وَ الدّÙبÙر٠هÙÙˆÙŽ الْكÙÙْرÙ. قال العلامة الشيخ علي أكبر الغÙاري ÙÙŠ تعليقه على هذه الرواية "وربما ÙŠØمل على الاستØلال" Ùلعل ÙÙŠ هذا سعة لك. - تصÙيق Øاد من الشباب - - أخوكم ÙŠØيى Ùضل الله الصÙار، وسؤالي هو أنه Ø£Øيانا نرى نساء جميلات ÙÙŠ السوق وقد يكن متزوجات Ùهل يجوز أن نعرض عليهن المتعة؟ - آية الله العاملي: ليس عليك السؤال لما روى الكليني ÙÙŠ باب أنها مصدقة على Ù†Ùسها عن عÙدَّةٌ Ù…Ùنْ أَصْØَابÙنَا عَنْ Ø£ÙŽØْمَدَ بْن٠مÙØَمّ! َد٠بْن٠خَالÙد٠عَنْ Ù…ÙØَمَّد٠بْن٠عَلÙيّ٠عَنْ Ù…ÙØَمَّد٠بْن٠أَسْلَمَ عَنْ Ø¥ÙبْرَاهÙيمَ بْن٠الْÙَضْل٠عَنْ أَبَان٠بْن٠تَغْلÙبَ قَالَ Ù‚Ùلْت٠لÙأَبÙÙŠ عَبْد٠اللَّه٠( عليه السلام ) Ø¥ÙنّÙÙŠ Ø£ÙŽÙƒÙون٠ÙÙÙŠ بَعْض٠الطّÙرÙقَات٠Ùَأَرَى الْمَرْأَةَ الْØَسْنَاءَ ÙˆÙŽ لَا آمَن٠أَنْ تَكÙونَ ذَاتَ بَعْل٠أَوْ Ù…ÙÙ†ÙŽ الْعَوَاهÙر٠قَالَ لَيْسَ هَذَا عَلَيْكَ Ø¥Ùنَّمَا عَلَيْكَ أَنْ تÙصَدّÙقَهَا ÙÙÙŠ Ù†ÙŽÙْسÙهَا . وروى أيضا عن عÙدَّةٌ Ù…Ùنْ أَصْØَابÙنَا عَنْ Ø£ÙŽØْمَدَ بْن٠مÙØَمَّد٠بْن٠عÙيسَى عَن٠الْØÙسَيْن٠بْن٠سَعÙيد٠عَنْ Ùَضَالَةَ عَنْ Ù…ÙيَسّÙر٠قَالَ Ù‚Ùلْت٠لÙأَبÙÙŠ عَبْد٠اللَّه٠( عليه السلام ) أَلْقَى الْمَرْأَةَ بÙالْÙَلَاة٠الَّتÙÙŠ لَيْسَ ÙÙيهَا Ø£ÙŽØَدٌ ÙÙŽØ£ÙŽÙ‚Ùول٠لَهَا هَلْ لَك٠زَوْجٌ ÙَتَقÙول٠لَا ÙَأَتَزَوَّجÙهَا؟ قَالَ نَعَمْ Ù‡ÙÙŠÙŽ الْمÙصَدَّقَة٠عَلَى Ù†ÙŽÙْسÙهَا. - أخوكم Øسين موسى الÙنجري، سماØØ© الشيخ Ø£Øيانا تكون عندي الزوجة المؤقتة Ùأرى الرغبة عند أخي أو صديقي ÙÙŠ استعارتها، Ùهل يجوز لي أن Ø£Øلها له؟ -آية الله العاملي: قد وردت روايات كثيرة عن المعصومين عليهم ! السلام ÙÙŠ جواز إعارة الجارية، والجارية لغة تطلق على الأمة المملوكة أو البنت الصبية، Ùقد روى ثقة الإسلام الكليني طاب ثراه من كتاب Ø§Ù„Ù†ÙƒØ§Ø Ø¨Ø§Ø¨ الرجل ÙŠØÙ„ جاريته لأخيه والمرأة تØÙ„ جاريتها لزوجها: عن عÙدَّةٌ Ù…Ùنْ أَصْØَابÙنَا عَنْ سَهْل٠بْن٠زÙيَاد٠عَنْ Ø£ÙŽØْمَدَ بْن٠مÙØَمَّد٠بْن٠أَبÙÙŠ نَصْر٠عَنْ عَبْد٠الْكَرÙيم٠عَنْ أَبÙÙŠ جَعْÙَر٠( عليه السلام ) قَالَ Ù‚Ùلْت٠لَه٠الرَّجÙÙ„Ù ÙŠÙØÙلّ٠لÙØ£ÙŽØ®Ùيه٠Ùَرْجَ جَارÙيَتÙه٠قَالَ نَعَمْ لَه٠مَا Ø£ÙŽØَلَّ Ù„ÙŽÙ‡Ù Ù…Ùنْهَا . وعن عَلÙيّ٠بْن٠إÙبْرَاهÙيمَ عَن٠الْخَشَّاب٠عَنْ يَزÙيدَ بْن٠إÙسْØَاقَ شَعÙر٠عَن٠الْØَسَن٠بْن٠عَطÙيَّةَ عَنْ أَبÙÙŠ عَبْد٠اللَّه٠( عليه السلام ) قَالَ Ø¥Ùذَا Ø£ÙŽØَلَّ الرَّجÙÙ„Ù Ù„ÙلرَّجÙÙ„Ù Ù…Ùنْ جَارÙيَتÙÙ‡Ù Ù‚Ùبْلَةً لَمْ ÙŠÙŽØÙلَّ لَه٠غَيْرÙهَا ÙÙŽØ¥Ùنْ Ø£ÙŽØَلَّ Ù„ÙŽÙ‡Ù Ù…Ùنْهَا دÙونَ الْÙَرْج٠لَمْ ÙŠÙŽØÙلَّ لَه٠غَيْرÙÙ‡Ù ÙˆÙŽ Ø¥Ùنْ Ø£ÙŽØَلَّ لَه٠الْÙَرْجَ Øَلَّ لَه٠جَمÙيعÙهَا وعن عَلÙيٌّ عَنْ أَبÙيه٠عَن٠ابْن٠أَبÙÙŠ عÙمَيْر٠قَالَ أَخْبَرَنÙÙŠ قَاسÙم٠بْن٠عÙرْوَةَ عَنْ أَبÙÙŠ الْعَبَّاس٠الْبَقْبَاق٠قَالَ ! سَأَلَ رَجÙÙ„ÙŒ أَبَا عَبْد٠اللَّه٠( عليه السلام ) ÙˆÙŽ Ù†ÙŽØْن٠عÙنْدَه٠عَنْ عَارÙيَّة٠الْÙَرْج٠Ùَقَالَ Øَرَامٌ Ø«Ùمَّ Ù…ÙŽÙƒÙŽØ«ÙŽ Ù‚ÙŽÙ„Ùيلًا Ø«Ùمَّ قَالَ Ù„ÙŽÙƒÙنْ لَا بَأْسَ بÙأَنْ ÙŠÙØÙلَّ الرَّجÙل٠الْجَارÙÙŠÙŽØ©ÙŽ Ù„ÙØ£ÙŽØ®Ùيه٠. ÙˆØيث أن الأخ المراقب أشار إلي أن وقت الاستراØØ© قد Øان، أتوق٠هنا Øتى العودة بعد الاستراØØ© والصلاة. Ùˆ Ùˆ Ùˆ برجاء الأخت التي تريد Ù†ÙƒØ§Ø Ø§Ù„Ù…ØªØ¹Ø© يمكن أن تلتقي بي ÙÙŠ غرÙØ© الاستراØØ© بارك الله Ùيها، والسلام عليكم ورØمة الله وبركاته. InshaAllah time permitting, I will translate the above text and post it here. Nur Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OG_Girl Posted October 2, 2004 OG Girl I am back sisters, excuse my absence, of all the Aqeedah topics that I've posted it seems that you are more interested in Mutaa than princiles such as Imaamah, Rajcah, Bidaa. So OG Girl sis, you are talking about kufr, how about the belief of the Shia of the Kufr of Abu Bakar, Omar and Othman, Aisha and the rest of trhe companions, can you please shed some light on it without religiously lying using your tuqya gear? Brother Nur, your problem, you don't give people any change and just made up your mind.Not ready to debate at all. You logic is just Bush's logic "With me or you are terrorist"!! Yours is "Be with me OR you are not true "Muslim" !!!!. Brother,Yes I am Arab native speaker and I didn't read your sources, I just scanned quickly. There is majority of Shia who don't disrespect Sahaba, who don't held meeting for Mut'a, Shia scholers who don't ask women to meet them after the lecters and ask for Mut'a, out there you can find on the internet, You are going to have to do some research. I am not going to do it for you. I really just don't have the patience to do a job of work for somebody who keeps saying all I got to say is Rubbish and I have shirk 3aqeedah. So I am content to leave you to your own things. When you saw me saying these Good fearing muslims are "kuffar"?? Or you just assume that since your very selective "sources" say that so you have to say ALL Shia are like this!!!! Tell me what is different between you and Bush's Media?? they find people who are extreme like Osama, Abu al hamza' al- masry, Taliban ..etc and say see these are muslims!!!. I don't blidly wave flags wallalo. I always reason. So no worries about me and good luck. I wont allow you to drag me into a pointless arguements, I have a lot of studies,tests, quizs to worry about than pointless arguement with some body made up their mind. peace brother. Salaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Qac Qaac Posted October 2, 2004 because labadiinaba shiica ayaa tihiin. the brother gave u hadith, and all u could sa is some ppl only read what they like, is not a novel is a hadith, unless u don't believe hadiths. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AbdAllah313 Posted October 9, 2004 Salaam, "There is majority of Shia who don't disrespect Sahaba, who don't held meeting for Mut'a, Shia scholers who don't ask women to meet them after the lecters and ask for Mut'a, out there you can find on the internet, You are going to have to do some research. I am not going to do it for you. I really just don't have the patience to do a job of work for somebody who keeps saying all I got to say is Rubbish and I have shirk 3aqeedah. So I am content to leave you to your own things." These things, such as slandering the sahaba and muta', are official shia aqidah. You find yourself rationalizing and denying the Shia aqidah. There's another option, though. Open your mind, search deeply, use your intellect and intuition, and ask yourself--"why am I a shia?" You will not find things like this that have to be denied or rationalized in the aqidah of ahl as-sunnah. Haven't you ever wondered why 90% of all Muslims are ahl as-sunnah, and why virtually all reverts to the deen become Sunni Muslims? I'll assure you that it's no accident. Study the deen, study hadith science, study and compare ahl as-sunnah and shia aqidah, and insha' Allah you may learn something. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Yusufaddie Posted October 10, 2004 sorry i think i can't read here. who is shia in this forum? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
zainabia Posted October 10, 2004 Bismillah Salam Alaikum Dear brother Noor, thank you for the reply. Unforunately it is in Arabic which I cannot understand. And also I don't have any who can translate it into English. And also unfortunately, instead of concentrating on the Topic at hand, you are trying to divert the attention towards issues which are not related to our Topic of discussion. And also in case of Muttah (your Arabic Text), you didn't touch the original question of timing of prohibitation of Mutta, but instead of this trying to make it Haram ( by using your conjecture and ) saying that it lac morals. Although I haven't understood Arabic Text, but it seems to be the same Moral Arguments which our Ahle Sunnah normally present against Muttah. So brother, before doing this, just not forget the Islamic Rulings about "Slave Girls" in Sunni Fiqh. Let me give you some examples so that you can keep things in your mind that you cannot make any thing Halal of Sharia Haram by using your conjectures. Status of Slave Woman in Islam VS Status of Woman in Mutah 1) According to Sunni Fiqh one can sell his slave girl even after having sexual pleasure with her. Sahih Muslim Book 008, Number 3371: Abu Sirma said to Abu Sa'id al Khadri (Allah he pleased with him): 0 Abu Sa'id, did you hear Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) mentioning al-'azl? He said: Yes, and added: We went out with Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) on the expedition to the Bi'l-Mustaliq and took captive some excellent Arab women; and we desired them, for we were suffering from the absence of our wives, (but at the same time) we also desired ransom for them (by selling them). So we decided to have sexual intercourse with them but by observing 'azl (Withdrawing the male sexual organ before emission of semen to avoid-conception). But we said: We are doing an act whereas Allah's Messenger is amongst us; why not ask him? So we asked Allah's Mes- senger (may peace be upon him), and he said: It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the Day of Resurrection will be born. This hadith can be found many folds in Sahah Satta. Ahle Sunnah brothers must open their eyes and think about the status of slave woman in their fiqh before claiming Mutta to be Zina. Only for those, who want to do justice and Allah (swt) has not put seal upon their hearts: Muwatta Imam Malik, Book 41, Number 41.6.19a: Malik said, "The best of what is heard about a slave-girl whom a man has intercourse with while he has a partner in her is that the hadd is not inflicted on him and the child is connected to him. When the slave-girl becomes pregnant, her value is estimated and he gives his partners their shares of the price and the slave-girl is his. That is what is done among us." Malik said about a man who made his slave-girl halal to (another) man that if the one for whom she was made halal had intercourse with her, her value was estimated on the day he had intercourse with her and he owed that to her owner whether or not she conceived. The hadd was averted from him by that. If she conceived the child was connected to him. Malik said about a man who had intercourse with his son's or daughter's slave-girl, "The hadd is averted from him and he owes the estimated value of the slave-girl whether or not she conceives." Sunnan Abu Dawud: Book 12, Number 2304: Narrated Jabir ibn Abdullah: Musaykah, a slave-girl of some Ansari, came and said: My master forces me to commit fornication. Thereupon the following verse was revealed: "But force not your maids to prostitution (when they desire chastity)." Unable to understand how some Sahaba earned their money. Book 38, Number 4445: Narrated Salamah ibn al-Muhabbaq: The Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him) made a decision about a man who had intercourse with his wife's slave-girl as follows. If he forced her, she is free, and he shall give her mistress a slave-girl similar to her; if she asked him to have intercourse voluntarily, she will belong to him, and he shall give her mistress a slave-girl similar to her. Next time I try to collect Fatawas from Sunni Fiqh books for those who want to learn (not for those who are enemies of Allah and start shouting when Truth is shown to them). Was Salam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
zainabia Posted October 10, 2004 Witness in Muttah According to Jaffari Fiqh, both in Nikah and Muttah, the presence of Witnesses is highly Recommended, but not obligatory. Quran has several times mentioned the requirements about marriage like Haq Mehr, Iddah, etc. But there is absolutely no mention of witnesses in Quran. And according to Ahadith, which are reached to us through Aima of Ahle-Bait (as), presence of witnesses is highly recommended both in Nikah and Muttah, but not necessary. Sunni Ulama, who deem no witness necessary for Mutah or Nikah Imam Nawawi: Sahih Muslim Book 008, Number 3252, Bab ul Nikah: Sabra Juhanni reported: Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) permitted temporary marriage for us. So I and another person went out and saw a woman of Bana 'Amir, who was like a young long-necked she-camel. We presented ourselves to her (for contracting temporary marriage), whereupon she said: What dower would you give me? I said: My cloak. And my companion also said: My cloak. And the cloak of-my companion was superior to my cloak, but I was younger than he. So when she looked at the cloak of my companion she liked it, and when she cast a glance at me I looked more attractive to her. She then said: Well, you and your cloak are sufficient for me. I remained with her for three nights, and then Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: He who has any such woman with whom he had contracted temporary marriage, he should let her off. In his commentary of this tradition, Imam Nawawi stated: This hadith serves as proof that a Guardian and Witness is not required for Nikah Mut'ah. Some Other Sunni Ulama Furthermore, a large number of Sunni 'ulama have agreed that witnesses are not needed for a Nikah: [*]Neel al Autar Volume 6 page 144 Bab Shahdath fi Nikah [*]Al Hidayah Volume 2 page 204, Kitab al Nikah [*]Fatawa Qadhi Khan Volume 1 page 153,Kitab al Nikah We read in Neel al Autar: Abdullah ibn Umar, Abdullah ibn Zubayr, Abdur Rehman bin Mahdi and Uthman have said that it is not obligatory to have witnesses at a Nikah. We read in Fatawa Qadhi Khan: For the recital of Nikah the declaration shall suffice, it is not compulsory to have witnesses present. We read in Hidaya: Imam Malik has said that for a Nikah the declaration is the condition not witnesses. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
zainabia Posted October 10, 2004 Why talaq take place in 4 Sunni Fiqhs without Witness In 4 Sunni Fiqhs, talaq is done when one says 3 times "Talaq Talaq Talaq" and there is no witness necessary for this. Holding of Talaq without the witnesses They must also take notice that Qur'an makes it Obligatory to take 2 persons as witness when one wants to give Talaq: Thus when they fulfil their term appointed, either take them back on equitable terms or part with them on equitable terms; and take for witness two persons from among you, endued with justice, and establish the evidence (as) before Allah. Al-Qur'an Surah 65, Ayah 2 (Translation by Yusuf Ali Umar, by imposing the law of pronouncement of three divorces at same place and same time, also abandoned the rule of taking witnesses. (According to Shia Fiqh, divorce can only take place in the presence of two witnesses). If you want to know about the evils of this innovation, then you must go to the courts and police stations of Pakistan (and certainly in the other Islamic countries too, but I am only witness in case of Pakistan). You will see strange types of cases in court. For example, women come in courts and claim that their respective husbands divorced them thrice in anger. But their respective husbands deny any kind of divorce. From the prospect of women, they are telling the judges in courts, that they cannot stay any more with their men as they divorced them thrice in anger. And now they have come back to their senses and don't want to give them freedom. And if they are compelled to go back to them, then it would constitute (as they have become Haram for them after getting divorce). [Especially, in uneducated families of sub-continent, this evil is very common.] What choice has been left for these innocent women? If western world criticize this as humiliation for women, are they wrong and ONLY spreading false propaganda against Islam? Note: The Salafi Alim of Saudia published Qur'an, writes in the commentary of 1st verse of Sura Talaq, that Imam Ibne Qayyam and Imam Ibne Taymiyyah don't accept the concept of Talaq Bid'a i.e. the way of divorce innovated by Umar. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Salafi_Online Posted October 10, 2004 If you want to know about the evils of this innovation, then you must go to the courts and police stations of Pakistan (and certainly in the other Islamic countries too, but I am only witness in case of Pakistan). You will see strange types of cases in court. For example, women come in courts and claim that their respective husbands divorced them thrice in anger. But their respective husbands deny any kind of divorce. From the prospect of women, they are telling the judges in courts, that they cannot stay any more with their men as they divorced them thrice in anger. And now they have come back to their senses and don't want to give them freedom. And if they are compelled to go back to them, then it would constitute (as they have become Haram for them after getting divorce). Sister do u mind shedding some more light on this, cause i really did not understand what were saying! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nomen nescio Posted October 11, 2004 - اسمي زينب عبد الØسين، وسؤال هو: تزوجت صديق لي ÙÙŠ الجامعة زواج متعة ÙˆØددنا الوقت لمدة ساعة، وذهبت معه إلى غرÙته ÙÙŠ سكن الطلاب، ولكن الوقت أخذنا، ÙˆÙÙŠ أثناء الجماع انتهت المدة ولما ننتهي من قضاء الوطر بعد، واستمرينا ÙÙŠ المواقعة، Ùهل وقعنا ÙÙŠ الزنا؟ آية الله العظمى العاملي: إن الØسنات يذهبن السيئات، قبولك للمتعة Øسنة عظيمة، والاستمرار ÙÙŠ المواقعة بعد انتهاء المدة المØددة وإن كانت سيئة لكنها جنØØ© بسيطة. Not believing this concept i specifically asked a Saudi shiat student who goes to my school about the 1 hour long marriage contracts and he confirmed that to be a regular practice they do and actually believe in... !!! Walaaahi i feel very bad for the nomads who are not well learned in Diin who might think what those shiiah are uttering is right!! . . . For those who cant speak Arabic the book above was written by a leading Shiah scholar, he is basically saying a man can engage into a muta marriage with a prostitute. in other words you can sleep with any prostitute as long as you make Muta contract with her first!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
zainabia Posted October 11, 2004 Bismillah Salam Alaikum Mutah or Nikah with a Prostitute ================================= Our opponents blame Muttah to be Zina. But they are wrong. There are many important points that they totally neglect. Most important among them is condition of "Iddah" (i.e. Waiting Period"). In Sunni Fiqh, one is allowed to do Nikah with prostitute, but condition is this that she becomes pure by observing Iddah. Same is the ruling in Shia Fiqh about Nikah or Mutta with Prostitute. (i.e. if any Prostitute wants to do Tawba then it is allowed to enter marriage relation with her, provided she observes Iddah). You see Prostitutes are those who go with several men in bed in same night. But those Sahabiat (who practiced Mutta by order of Rasool Allah (saw), they only went to new Sahabi only after becoming pure). ====================== Again my original question has been neglected and people are running after their conjectures and making Mutah Haram by proving it to be Immoral. Brothers, should I show you the Ahadith from Sahah Satta that Sahaba Karam used to sleep with Slave woman and after little time used to sell them????? (I have posted one such Hadith in above mail. And this hadith itself repeated many folds in Sahah Satta). Was Salam. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
zainabia Posted October 11, 2004 Bismillah Salam Alaikum Brother Salafi_Online, you wrote: Sister do u mind shedding some more light on this, cause i really did not understand what were saying! Dear brother SalafiOnLine, I was reffering to one of the Innovation of Hadhrat Umar in Islamic Law of "Giving Divorce" (i.e. he allowed to say 3 Talaqs at same time which is against Sharia and equal to playing with Book of Allah) And as result of this Innovation, these evils are taking place in Soceity that Men say 3 Talaqs in anger, and then next morning again come to divorced wives and sleep with them. Umar Ibn Khattab innovating in relation to the laws on divorce Allah (swt) has told very clearly in "Sura Talaq", the way of giving divorce:Al-Qur'an Surah 65, Ayah 1-2 (Translation by Yusuf Ali)O Prophet! When ye do divorce women, divorce them at their prescribed periods, and count (accurately), their prescribed periods: And fear Allah your Lord: and turn them not out of their houses, nor shall they (themselves) leave, except in case they are guilty of some open lewdness, those are limits set by Allah: and any who transgresses the limits of Allah, does verily wrong his (own) soul: thou knowest not if perchance Allah will bring about thereafter some new situation.Thus when they fulfil their term appointed, either take them back on equitable terms or part with them on equitable terms; and take for witness two persons from among you, endued with justice, and establish the evidence (as) before Allah. Such is the admonition given to him who believes in Allah and the Last Day. And for those who fear Allah, He (ever) prepares a way out,<br style="font-weight: bold;"> There have been several innovations made by Hadhrat Umar in the Shar'i practice of issuing divorce. Hadhrat Umar innovated and changed the ruling of Rasool Allah's by treating three pronounced divorces at one and same time as one Let us see the testimony of Ibn Abbas that Hadhrat Umar changed the Islamic Shar'ia by introducing a new law:Abu al-Sahba' said to Ibn 'Abbas: Enlighten us with your information whether the three divorces (pronounced at one and the same time) were not treated as one during the lifetime of Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) and Abu Bakr. He said: It was in fact so, but when during the caliphate of 'Hadhrat Umar (Allah be pleased with him) people began to pronounce divorce frequently, he allowed them to do so (to treat pronouncements of three divorces in a single breath as one).<br style="font-weight: bold;">Sahih Muslim, Book 009, Number 3493 Talaq Given during Menses doesn't occur, but Hadhrat Umar Changed this Shria Rule at his own Look at the Sunnah of Rasool Allah [saww].Ibn 'Hadhrat Umar (Allah be pleased with them) reported that he divorced his wife while she was menstruating during the lifetime of Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him). 'Hadhrat Umar b. Khattib (Allah be pleased with him) asked Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) about it, whereupon Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: Command him ('Abdullah b. 'Hadhrat Umar) to take her back (and keep her) and pronounce divorce when she is purified and she again enters the period of menstruation and she is again purified (after passing the period of menses), and then if he so desires he may keep her and if he desires divorce her (finally) before touching her (without having an intercourse with her), for that is the period of waiting ('ldda) which God, the Exalted and Glorious, has commanded for the divorce of women.<br style="font-weight: bold;">Sahih Muslim, Book 009, Number 3473Playing with Book of AllahMahmûd ibn Labîd said,<br style="font-weight: bold;">The Messenger of Allâh, peace and blessings of Allâh be on him, was informed about a man who divorced his wife, divorcing (her) three times together, so he stood up in displeasure and said:"Is the Book of Allâh being sported with while I am in your midst? "<br style="font-weight: bold;">(Nisai. 27:6.) Same Tradition is reported in Sunnan Abu Dawud in these Words:It is narrated by Mehmood bin Labeed:<br style="font-weight: bold;">Some one told Rasool Allah (saw) that someone gave three divorces to his wife at the same time (in same company). After hearing this neswes, Rasool Allah (saw) stood up with anger and he said: "The people have started playing with Book of Allah, while I am among them." Upon this another man stood up and asked Rasool Allah (saw), "May I go and kill him?".<br style="font-weight: bold;">Reference: Sunnan Abu Dawud, Chapter of "Bab ul Thilasa al-Majmua wa ma fihi min al-taghleez 1705, hadith 3433, page 468 Again the following Traditions shows clearly that Talaq doesn't occur in State of Mensturation (a rule which later changed by Hadhrat Hadhrat Umar).Sunnan Abu Dawud:<br style="font-weight: bold;">Book 12, Number 2191:<br style="font-weight: bold;">Narrated Abdullah ibn Abbas:<br style="font-weight: bold;">Abdu Yazid, the father of Rukanah and his brothers, divorced Umm Rukanah and married a woman of the tribe of Muzaynah. She went to the Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) and said: He is of no use to me except that he is as useful to me as a hair; and she took a hair from her head. So separate me from him. The Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) became furious. He called on Rukanah and his brothers. He then said to those who were sitting beside him. Do you see so-and-so who resembles Abdu Yazid in respect of so-and-so; and so-and-so who resembles him in respect of so-and-so? They replied: Yes. The Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) said to Abdu Yazid: Divorce her. Then he did so. He said: Take your wife, the mother of Rukanah and his brothers, back in marriage. He said: I have divorced her by three pronouncements, Apostle of Allah. He said: I know: take her back. He then recited the verse: "O Prophet, when you divorce women, divorce them at their appointed periods."Holding of Talaq without the witnesses They must also take notice that Qur'an makes it Obligatory to take 2 persons as witness when one wants to give Talaq:Thus when they fulfil their term appointed, either take them back on equitable terms or part with them on equitable terms; and take for witness two persons from among you, endued with justice, and establish the evidence (as) before Allah.Al-Qur'an Surah 65, Ayah 2 (Translation by Yusuf Ali Hadhrat Umar, by imposing the law of pronouncement of three divorces at same place and same time, also abandoned the rule of taking witnesses. (According to Shia Fiqh, divorce can only take place in the presence of two witnesses). If you want to know about the evils of this innovation, then you must go to the courts and police stations of Pakistan (and certainly in the other Islamic countries too, but I am only witness in case of Pakistan). You will see strange types of cases in court. For example, women come in courts and claim that their respective husbands divorced them thrice in anger. But their respective husbands deny any kind of divorce. From the prospect of women, they are telling the judges in courts, that they cannot stay any more with their men as they divorced them thrice in anger. And now they have come back to their senses and don't want to give them freedom. And if they are compelled to go back to them, then it would constitute (as they have become Haram for them after getting divorce). [Especially, in uneducated families of sub-continent, this evil is very common.]What choice has been left for these innocent women? If western world criticize this as humiliation for women, are they wrong and ONLY spreading false propaganda against Islam? Note: The Salafi Alim of Saudia published Qur'an, writes in the commentary of 1st verse of Sura Talaq, that Imam Ibne Qayyam and Imam Ibne Taymiyyah don't accept the concept of Talaq Bid'a i.e. the way of divorce innovated by Hadhrat Umar. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nur Posted October 11, 2004 Zainabia Sister I have read your CUT n PASTE long posts. First of all you admit that you do not speak nor read Arabic language, the gateway to understand Fiqh in its Purity, so instead, you GOOGLE your way and collect the out-of-context translated artilces that are in no way authenticated as per their relevance, their period, their acceptance by the Jumhuur as the sayings of the unanimous Ahlul Sunnah wal Jamaacah. Second, because you can not read Arabic, the post just above your last response shows the Shia Scholar making muta marriage with a prostitue Halaal, so you counter claim it is the Sunnah Fiqh who accepts muta marriage with prostitutes. Sister, please post the source of the Sunni Scholar who suggested that Muta Marriage with Prostitute is halaal. Zainabia sis Of course at one point in islam Muta (with Witnesses) used to be halaal, also drinking alcohol, nudity in public ( even Quresih women used to make tawaaf around the haram naked in the early days), nine types of marriage, slavery, and all the evils that you can think off. But, in a short period, all of theses forms of evil were made haram by the prophet SAWS, one at a time, the last being the Muta Marriage and the eating of the donkey meat in the same hadeeth. Now, in the Shia Fiqh as I posted, the Muta marriage is not allowed for the Hashemite women, why? because it is not Halal for them, if it was halaal, why do your Ayatullah think that it is appropriate for you?. By cutting and pasting from Shia sites unusually weird fatwas credited to some Sunni scholars whose views were for a different problem, the slavery that was abolished by islam, you are suggesting that the Shia scholars blessed Mutaa marriage considers Shia women today like how early converts to islam considered captive slave women during the early days of Islam, your usage of such logic is pathetic at best, beacause by just pasting and copying, you are doing a disservice to the Shia group you claim to belong to. And if that above logic is your proof that the principle of (Lending of The Vagina)(Icaaratul Farj) in which a Shia husband can allow his house guest to have intercourse with his wive in his absence, then I have no doubt that you can find a lot of old Islamic literature to show that drinking alcohol, nudity in public, gambling, usury etc are all OK and halaal, all you have to do, go to the Shia websites, cut and paste purported materials with some lip service to out of context Sunni scholars statements, to come to the conclusion that having a one night stand in a LOCAL BAR, is halaal. One last question, if you do not mind, I understand that the Shia scholars consider Mutaa marriage to have many rewards, the more the better, can you relate to the audience if anyone shia you know experienced it and how they found it to be, specially these days with the AIDS epidemic? Nur Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nomen nescio Posted October 11, 2004 Here is another book of Legislations (Axkaam) written by Khumayini (another leading Shiah scholar) authorizing "anal sex", and pedophilia ??? the guy went as far as allowing sexually molesting "infants" !!!!! So are you going to claim the Saxabah used to do what this jaahil is authorizing?? Let me ask you this though Sainab... Do you mind marrying a man for 1 hour? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
zainabia Posted October 12, 2004 Bismillah Salam Alaikum I hope and pray that all of you are in best of health and Iman. Insha-Allah. Brother Noor, you comments about my not knowing Arabic are absolutely right. But you see I am not doing Ijtehaad, but only putting forward the Ijtehaad of Shia learned Scholars along with their reasoning. As compared to this, we have also Ahle Sunnah Scholars Ijtehaad along with their reasoning. I may be devoid of knowledge of ARabic language, but you see Allah (swt) has given one of the bigges gift to all of us i.e. AQL . And only by using this AQL, we have to decide the things (you see billions of Muslims don't know Arabic, but they have choosen the path of Islam only upon the bases of their AQL) Should I remember you the saying of Mawla Ali (as) i.e. Don't see who is saying, but see what has been said. But if you still going to criticize me about Arabic, then I am not going to respond any more on this issue. You see, none of you have ever touched the original Question and Arguments of "When was Mutta Prohibited", but keep on attacking Moral Issues or lac of ARabic language etc. ======================================== Moreover, you wrote: Second, because you can not read Arabic, the post just above your last response shows the Shia Scholar making muta marriage with a prostitue Halaal, so you counter claim it is the Sunnah Fiqh who accepts muta marriage with prostitutes. Please brother Nur, read my post once again. I haven't said that Ahle Sunnah Ulama have made Mutta Halal with Prostitutes. But I have written that Ahle Sunnah Ulama allow it to do "NIKAH" with prostitutes if she does Tawbah and observe Iddah. You see many women are compelled to do prostitution (atleast in Pakistan). But they are Muslims from heart and want to come out of this state. So, it is allowed to do Nikah with any such woman and only Allah knows best what one has in his/her heart. As far as Mutta is concerned with prostitutes in Shia Fiqh, it's exactly the same (i.e. woman has to observe Iddah before entering into Muttah relation). And there is Haq Mehr and also children belong to Man .... etc. And if situation is favourable, then one can convert this Mutta into Nikah. (Please remember that Shia Fiqh gives first preference only and only to Nikah. Mutah is done in exceptional situations where one fears to indulge in Sin. I will come to these situations soon insha-allah). ================================ Moreover, you wrote: Now, in the Shia Fiqh as I posted, the Muta marriage is not allowed for the Hashemite women, why? because it is not Halal for them, if it was halaal, why do your Ayatullah think that it is appropriate for you?. Brother, you already know that I cannot understand Arabic. And this is an english speaking forum. So why you are coming again and again with questions which giving reference to your ARabic Text? So I don't know exactly who was that Alim, and what he wrote and what were his arguments. But I know two things: 1) Syed Women in Iran, Iraq and Lebanon do engage in Mutah relations. 2) As far as Ahle Bait is concerned, then Fatima Zahra (salam allah alailha) had special status (which is not given to any other women in this Ummah) i.e. Hadhrat Ali (as) was not allowed to marry any other woman till the time Fatima Zahra (as) was alive. You also have to see the discussion of "Kafu", which has been done by Hadhrat Umar. =================================== Moreover, you wrote: By cutting and pasting from Shia sites unusually weird fatwas credited to some Sunni scholars whose views were for a different problem, the slavery that was abolished by islam, you are suggesting that the Shia scholars blessed Mutaa marriage considers Shia women today like how early converts to islam considered captive slave women during the early days of Islam, your usage of such logic is pathetic at best, beacause by just pasting and copying, you are doing a disservice to the Shia group you claim to belong to. In case of slavery, you made an innovation in Islamic Sharia as you claim that: "Only Early converts to Islam considered captive slave woman during the early days of Islam..... " My humble opinion is this that you have not done Justice and you are simply turing the facts. This position of slave woman continued till this century where Muslims made a pact with whole World neither our women and men will be taken as captive slaves, nor we are going to take their captive women/men as slaves. The early converts to Islam were Sahaba, who practiced all these acts with their slave women. And then Rasool Allah (saw) passed away, but nothing changed in position of rights of slave women in Sunni Fiqh. It continued for centuries and many Sunni Fiqh books are written on slave women descrbing their same rights as in times of Rasool Allah (saw). And not only Sunni Fuqha wrote these rights in their books, but Jamhoor Ahle Sunnah practiced these rights. It is simply a challange to you to show me the difference between status of slave women during the times of so called early converts to Islam (i.e. Sahab) and between the last 1300 years history of Islam. So brother Nur, please don't change the facts and do Justice. And question remains open to you to prove "When was Muttah Prohibited" instead of prohibiting it at you own by bringing Immoral Arguments. =============================== Moreover you wrote: And if that above logic is your proof that the principle of (Lending of The Vagina)(Icaaratul Farj) in which a Shia husband can allow his house guest to have intercourse with his wive in his absence, Brother Nur, this is one of the worst lie that you have told. There is no such thing in Shia Fiqh. May Allah forgive you for telling lies against others. I thought you to have Taqwa, and you debating sensibilly. But Allah forbids to indulge in talk with those who are Zalimeen. I seek Allah's refuge. ============================ Moreover, you wrote: Of course at one point in islam Muta (with Witnesses) used to be halaal, also drinking alcohol, nudity in public ( even Quresih women used to make tawaaf around the haram naked in the early days), nine types of marriage, slavery, and all the evils that you can think off. Brother Nur, all these things are prohibited and there are Quranic Verses and Ahadith with Tuwatur upon these things. But is there any Quranic Verse present which prohibts Muttah? Or is there any hadith with Tuwattur present which prohibits Muttah? This was the main topic of our discussion which none of you have still touched. Are you unable to see that there are 4 Ahad (singular) Ahadith from 3 different Sahaba. But one can easily find out the fabrication of these 4 Ahadith as all of them are contradicting each other in terms of time of prohibitition of Muttah. And as compared to these 4 contradicting Ahadith, there are testimonies of 20 + Sahaba and Tabaeen (from Sunni Sources) who are unanimous that it was only Umar Ibn Khattab who forbade Muttah at his own. Now before comparing Muttah to doing nacked Tawaf or drinking in earlier days of Islam, it's a challange to you to show us: 1) Any contradiction in Ahadith which prohibit nacked Tawaf or drinking. 2) And testimony of 20+ Sahaba and Tabaeen who deemed nacked Tawaf or drinking Halal even long after the death of Rasool Allah (saw). ================================= And last thing that you wrote: One last question, if you do not mind, I understand that the Shia scholars consider Mutaa marriage to have many rewards, the more the better, can you relate to the audience if anyone shia you know experienced it and how they found it to be, specially these days with the AIDS epidemic? Brother Nur, again instead of touching the original topic (i.e. "When is Mutta prohibited"), you are going for secondary discussions. You see if Allah has made it Halal, then not even Hadhrat Umar has right to make it Haram and it is going to be Halal for ever. Nevertheless, we will also indulge in this secondary discussion. Insha-Allah. I need some time to reply to this, but at moment in brief words I want to tell you the experience of my cousin brother, who studied medicine in Russia. He has written whole article on it in Urdu (Pakistani language). According to him, there were a lot of Sunni Students who were studing with him. And it was not drinking or haram meat which compelled them to sin, but it was impossible for some (many) of them to control when it came to Russian Girls. And majority of them (90-95%) went to Discos for them. And 60-70% slept with their girl friends. And some 10-15% did Nikah later on with same girls. Again in brief words, 95% Sunni students either slept with girls, or they masterbated. (Note: Masterbation is Haram in Shia Fiqh and one has either to do Nikah or Muttah in this condition). ======================= Consider it for yourself the hadith of Abdullah Ibn Masood (in Sahih Muslim), where he was saying that Sahaba wanted to castrate themselves while they were away from their wives for some time (for Jihad) and feared to indulge in Sin. So those Great Sahaba with so much Iman were unable to control over themselves for a short period of time (when they were away from their wives). Then tell me how it is possible for Sunni Students of today in Russia to control over themselves for 5 years? Do you think all of them are Angels and they are never going to do Zina or Masterbation?????? That is why Mawla Ali (as) said had Umar not forbidden Muttah, then on one among Ummah have committed Zina except the wretched one (Fatah ul Bari and many other Sunni Tafsir Books). Was Salam. 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