whitesomail66 Posted April 24, 2003 yo i need some advice ya'll what should i do ive been dating a spanish girl for the last year and i wanna pop da question but i dont know my parents will allow it or not what should i do yall i need some advice Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Blessed Posted April 24, 2003 Speak to your Mom Tell your girl she might have to convert and make sure you really want marry her. hope taht helps, Best wishs Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kool_Kat Posted April 24, 2003 Goodness, did you say a non-Muslim...Good luck telling your parents that... My advice to you is if you are in-love with her and want to marry her, make sure she converts...And if she doesn't, which probably she won't, there are a lot beautiful Somali young women out there for you... Good luck, and let us know... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BORN_BRANIAC Posted April 25, 2003 i agree with kool kat, and i couldn't have said it betta.....best wish and luck to ya bro....just keep bringing the up dates ok...one Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Haaruun Posted April 25, 2003 Humm, Just think about your children...do u want them 2b those who say "I'm half muslim half Gaalo" , what good is it if ur wife can't chit chat with your mom about diric, uunsi, guntiimo etc. Don't be quick about it bro, take ur time, talk to mom/dad and make a wise move after. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
iman55 Posted April 25, 2003 hey man if u want your parents to like the girl tell her if you really love me you should become muslim then you are not going to have trouble telling yo folks aight take yo time bro. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whitesomail66 Posted April 25, 2003 i talked to the girl and said to her if you care about me you will convert and her desision wasnt the one i was lookin for she said no but as one of you had said theres alot of fine somali girls out there for me Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whitesomail66 Posted April 25, 2003 i just wanted to thank all of my nomad brothers and sisters for there advice thank you very much Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nailah Posted April 26, 2003 I dont know, hmm, I think she should be muslim, but what if she doesnt decide to convert :eek: play it cool :cool: what are you gonna do then? If i was you, the first thing you should do is tell your parents, what if they actually said ok?? hey....you never know...but its still highly unlikely Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kool_Kat Posted April 27, 2003 White, sorry to hear that she won't convert...But in a way I am really glad, as I like for every Somali to experience life with a Somali Queen/King...I am sure there alot of Somali girls in Ottawa...Come on now... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bambina Posted April 27, 2003 Sup,Im sorry ur gurl didn't convert but I wish u good luck to find da gal of ur dreams , a good muslim.It doesnt have to be only sum malis chicks as long as they are muslims,das the only thing dat matters.So bro,keep lookin and u'll find her,Allah is wit u.Take care. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mujahida Posted April 28, 2003 Salam WhiteSomali It is permissible for a Muslim man to marry a Christian or a Jewish woman without the need for the woman to convert to Islam at any time. Although this is permissible, it is not to be encouraged because interfaith marriages are likely to run into problems. Islam states very clearly that "no compulsion is admissible in matters of faith." How then, can anyone contemplate that a woman must be converted to Islam in order "ONLY" for her marriage to be legal? Brother WhiteSomali what you should do is is to make Islam known to her and to tell her that Islam is the final message from Allah to man, therefore, people are called upon to accept it. However She must retain her freedom whether to do so or to maintain her faith. If she decides to remain Christian or Jewish, the marriage can continue, with the husband being required to allow his wife to practice her religion. The children are, by necessity, Muslims, since the Islamic rule is that children follow the higher of their parents' religions. Since Islam is the highest of all religions, then they are Muslims and if you'll be a practising Muslim man then it'll all be much easier ofcourse. once again, no coercion or pressure should be exercised to make a Christian wife adopt Islam. If she adopts it, she must do so by her own free will. My last advise to you WhiteSomali is not to have an inter-faith marriage, unless you do not have a choice. To marry a Muslim woman is by far better than marrying any Christian or Jewish woman. Allah Hafiz Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
