relationship before marrige........ should we have that???

[Mujahida]

Salam all

 

Hey Sensual_Healing thanx for the nice insights. You took the words out of my lips. However There is a difference between dating ( and having a relationship be4 marriage) knowing eachother better don't necessarly mean that you have to be together alone! Islam teaches us not to mix with the opposite sex so freely.It rather teaches us to get married if we have the means to do so. So if you don't have any intentions to please ALLAH in the end which is getting married according to the sunnah and the Quraan than don't bother putting that thought in your head because that angers Allah. You don't have to date alot of people and finally find the RIGHT one. You can wait and have patience that way u choose your ways more wisely! You see whatever ALLAH has planned for you will reach you. There is no need for dating and searching it's better to wait. If it is meant to come - than you'll not miss it for it is your Destiny!

 

Wasalam

[Jamilah]

Nadiira,

 

I think it's extremely bad our religion forbids any time of physical contact or relationship between an unmarried man and woman.