JUXAA Posted May 23, 2003 Alla maxeynu ilbaxney.......Oral sex AAAAA...yaq I once told by an old somali man that he had More than four wives and had never seen their private genitals becouse he said he never wanted to expose dirty to his eyes..now we talk about oral sex........i would like to put to him and see what he makes.. may be he would go crazy or what i dont know Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thought_Control Posted May 23, 2003 salam lol juxaa waa runta reer somalia way iilbaxeen walibaa sii fiican ayaye u ilbaxeen...waxa lagu mahmahaa. ( ilbaax niimadu waxey noqotaa badow niimo haadii ad ilbaax niimada kaa dardartiid) dee huno xagaas ayaye somalidii ku daanbeyeen...iska dhaf iiyagaa aya afka u dhiiciiyee. salama for the sake of comformism...they fall Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Yusufaddie Posted May 24, 2003 salaam this topic got real long man. anyway i would like to add: 1: If we are not to listen to some sheikhs and read other books, who actually wrote the books? 2: Please let us not be like the jews who made hallal haram and vice versa. 3: when i hear you all saying that thact is degrading, disgusting etc. rememeber that this is based on your culture or experiences so be very careful in passing a hukm or law under islam. THAT IS HARAAM. making a fatwa without knowledge and based on personl opinion. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mujahida Posted May 24, 2003 Salam's ya muslimeen when i hear you all saying that thact is degrading, disgusting etc. rememeber that this is based on your culture or experiences so be very careful in passing a hukm or law under islam. THAT IS HARAAM. Yusufaddie MashaAllah. That is very true and well said. We should really be considerate about what we base our judgements and info's on. Thanx for summarizing that akhi! May Allah forgive me and every other muslim, ameen! Peace Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MD Posted May 24, 2003 Salaam Nomads, I found this article where a muslim brother asks what islam says about oral sex.. Answer: As regards your question, it is to be noted, first of all, that all acts that aim at satisfying and pleasing the spouses are allowable so long as two things are avoided, that is anal sex and having sex with a wife while she is still in her menstruation. Thus, it is permissible for a husband and a wife to practice cunnilingus and fellatio. Following we’d cite the opinions of some well-known Muslim scholars in this regard: The eminent Muslim scholar, Sheikh Yusuf Al-Qaradawi states: “I was asked about oral sex in America and Europe when I began to travel to these countries in the early 70s. We are not used to be asked these questions in our Muslim countries. Those Western people are accustomed to stripping naked during sexual intercourse. These are communities of nakedness, and from the licentiousness of the woman that she wears nothing to screen her body in her daily life. So, they are in need of more excitements during copulation. However, men in our Muslim societies see nothing in the Muslim woman that can excite them on the basis of her wearing either Hijab (veil) or Niqab (face cover). But concerning whether being in complete nakedness during practicing copulation is lawful or not, the Prophet of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, is reported to have said, "Guard your private parts except from your wife or your slaves." Muslim jurists are of the opinion that it is lawful for the husband to perform cunnilingus on his wife, or a wife to perform the similar act for her husband (fellatio) and there is no wrong in doing so. But if sucking leads to releasing semen, then it is Makruh (blameworthy), but there is no decisive evidence (to forbid it). These parts are not dirty like anus, but it is ordinarily disgusting to man. But there is no decisive evidence to make it unlawful, especially if the wife agrees with it or achieves orgasm by practicing it. Allah, Exalted and Glorified be He, says: "And who guard their modesty, save from their wives or the slaves, that I heir right hands possess, for then they are not blameworthy, but Who so craveth beyond that, such are transgressors.” (Al-Mu'minun: 5-7)” In the light of this, scholars maintain that the husband is allowed to enjoy his wife through any means of enjoyment except anal sex, for that is strictly forbidden. Dr. Ali Jum`ah, professor of the Principles of Islamic Jurisprudence at Al-Azhar Univ., says further that licking, sucking and kissing spouse's sexual organs are all allowed, as long as it gives a person sexual gratification that will keep him away from Haram (unlawful) or starring at opposite sex (marriageable). But every Muslim must keep in mind that sexual intercourse is just a lust and passion that must be satisfied in a lawful way; it's not to be perceived as necessary as foods and drinks, as it's the case in the Western perverted ideology. Shedding more light on this, Dr. Sabri `Abdul Ra’ouf, professor of Islamic Comparative Jurisprudence, at Al-Azhar Univ, says that it's allowed for the married couple to enjoy each other as long as what they do does not run counter to the teachings of Islam or violate the public norms. He also gives support to the view of Sheikh Al-Qaradawi that oral sex or kissing private parts of the spouse is something viewed disgusting to Muslims, but if the aim is just kissing (without having constant indulgence in it) it's not sinful to do that, but people of high morality normally keep away from that, as not to give in to imitating non-Muslims.” In conclusion, it has become clear now that oral sex is not prohibited, but it is not the normal choice for committed Muslims and Muslimahs. That's, despite that oral sex is not Haram, it is completely disgusting and does not conform to the pure taste and decency of a Muslim personality. Allah Almighty knows best. Hope that helps! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Haneefah Posted May 24, 2003 Originally posted by Innocent: oral sex is not prohibited, but it is not the normal choice for committed Muslims and Muslimahs. That's, despite that oral sex is not Haram, it is completely disgusting and does not conform to the pure taste and decency of a Muslim personality. I think that sums it up. May Allah(swt) prevent us from conforming to the norms of the west! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Batuulo Posted May 25, 2003 hmmm! Did you say oral-sex, why do we need even if.. to be honest sis. are you seriuse or you going have fun, it's disgusting..subhana allaah,, our prophet {saw} said don't tuoch your "dakar" cawra to your right hand, becouse the right hand is only for good things, use to your left hand, then how about your best part of your body? "mouth" to ..naaah, don't even think about it,, peace guys! forgive me if I make you mad ..love / peace Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wardi Posted May 25, 2003 alhamdu lilah, the best part of our beloved sister's (private organ) that is where we should be thinkig when we having ******** fill out this plz,MOUTH plz she reads quran with, when she pray standing infront of god,she eats with it...let me leave you this there is hadith already was shared with us a sister/broth very 1st page says,,,if you fall anything doubtfull leave it.that way you saved yourself............ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mujahida Posted May 27, 2003 Sensual_Healing, ya ukthi lol, i swear i just saw your reply, ohhh!! I'll see you soon InshaAllah. Missed you too ya habibti! mwah mwah! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thought_Control Posted May 27, 2003 salam lol ive noticed at the end of every article written by someone quotations of someone they admire be a philosopher,psychoanalyst some sort of a intellectual...and to certain extend rappers lol refering to leatefa benie where has he been the ghettos? lol the ghetto is luxury compared to back home. hypocricy is the only evil that walks alone except to god alone.... mine Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mujahida Posted May 28, 2003 Salam thought_Control Ah you've done some research good on ya and yes i do like that quote that don't mean that i like Hardcore rappers or Beanie's lifestyle. I also admire and respect people like mother Theresa. Wa/Salam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gabbal Posted May 28, 2003 Lateafha here is a quote that I got from a website a nomad posted. Abu Saud : Oral sex is not forbidden in Islam as long as it is practiced between husband and wife. Athar : No, but only with your spouse. "Your women are your tilth for you, so go to your tilth as ye wish" (2:223). Thus, all sexual positions except anal intercourse are permitted between husband and wives. There may be some medical harm in oral sex if organs are not clean or have infection. In that case they should seek medical treatment first before engaging in sex. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mujahida Posted May 28, 2003 Hornafrique thanx for bringing that one up brother. I actually have read that. Jezekelah kheeran in andvance. Wa/salam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
king_450 Posted May 29, 2003 Forgive me what i don't understand is how we come up this topic, did we finished talking about the rest fo the good topic, i have nothing to add but to leave it to those who are interested in ORAL SEX, hey kid she is LQQKING at you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Yusufaddie Posted May 30, 2003 In reply to someone's closing let us not onform to the styles of the west well i agree, definately let us not conform to the styles of the west by saying oral sex is disgusting. Trust me when i was a kaafir i would say the same thing. Kaafir men are uncircumised, cheesy and pissy all the time or at least when the don't have a bath, and from experience i can understand why the west "Kuffar" would say it is disgusting. not to mention, they don't shave their pubic area nor make istinga. so please do not conform to the west. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
