Istaahil Posted January 3, 2003 i was at this lecture about a week ago by this scholor in sydney from egupt. the subject was marriage and it got to the part were people ask questions. i forget what the question was but i think it was something to do with what a man is aloud to do when asking for a girls hand. anyways he actually said that men are aloud to peek at a girl without her permission when she does not know. like in her room when she is gettin dressed to see her hair and figure. i was really amazed because i never heard this before and never thought there will be such a thing. anywayz to all u girls who are singal, make sure ur blinds are down next time ur dressin coz u never know. :eek: :eek: :eek: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Haashim Posted January 5, 2003 Istaahil, that was the time when it was difficult to see the girls beauty (hair, legs, hands etc) unless to peek when she does'nt know that u r looking her, but today it's easy to see .... :rolleyes: , just joking Sis, i know there are many good, mutaxajibaad girls around. however, the SHEIKH is right it's permisable to do that So, be awrae ! you and all other mutaxajibaaad girls :eek: . ............................... FARUUROOW MAXAA BARBARA KU GEEYAY, FA'UUL Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thinkerman Posted January 5, 2003 lol Muraad. Saxiib dont blow our cover Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Haashim Posted January 6, 2003 Shuju, don't worry Sxb. Duulka sirtooda lagama sal gaaro, they can show and hide at the same time :rolleyes: ............................ RAGGU WAA INTII NAAGAHA KA SOO HARTAY Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ladiif Posted January 6, 2003 Muraad, ishaad kaga joogsatay sxb, meel ebar ah ayey wax uyeelayaan haddii ay rabaan inay kaawaalaan! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miriam1 Posted January 6, 2003 Salam UNBELIEVABLE !! i dont agree with that at all What the h*ll it throws out all the codes of modesty and selfrespect that are ingrained into us by our religion. THere are two explaniations either the shiekh is a total wako or he must be talking about somting totally different and someone misunderstood . "PEAK" U SAID OH MY GOD !! Peace Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thinkerman Posted January 6, 2003 No more Peeping toms (for all who are fami.liar with British slang) Now they will be Peeping Farah's. LOL I like to stress for the record that even if this privialge is accorded to me as Man, i dont think i will risk encuring the Rath of you women. Besides Like Muaad said " Duulka sirtooda lagama sal gaaro, they can show and hide at the same time ". Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rahima Posted January 6, 2003 Sister Jawaahir, sorry to say, but its true. However, the brother must be serious, it's not a consent to go peeping at every sister or just for a perve :mad: . It is reported in a sahiih hadith, i just can't seem to find it. The reason behind it, is that rasuallah ordered that we see of the perspective spouse that which may encourage marriage. So as sister Istaahil said, make sure your blinds are down. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miriam1 Posted January 7, 2003 Salam Sis Rahiima-as-somali i trust ur words. Umm those blinds are shut for good. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Istaahil Posted January 8, 2003 salamz, girls girls u forget to ask urselfs are the somali guys these days really worth to peek and can handle such? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Haashim Posted January 8, 2003 Originally posted by Rahiima_as-Somaali: Sister Jawaahir, sorry to say, but its true. . many youths like shuju1 would say GLAD TO SAY, ITS TRUE this is an answer to those who blame ISLAM that it does'nt take an account to human feelings, emotions, desires etc. on the contrary it takes an account but in the limit of ALLAH'S will (the creator of human being) who knows their interest more than themselves. ........................................ QOFKUU ALLE KHAYR LA DOONO DIINKUU FAHAMSIIYAA (SAHIH HADITH) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
asiya Posted January 8, 2003 jeez i never new bout dis but i suppose its important dat a couple r compatible in every way ie sexualy.as long as us girls can peep 2. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Iffah Posted January 8, 2003 lol! Istaahil... Thanks for the warning girl. My blinds were shut a long time ago Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ladiif Posted January 9, 2003 I think blinds will be better off opened.....makes our job easier.faster decision making too!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
