Business_Man Posted May 17, 2003 As a man, I cannot speak for women. But I would like to comment. I think that a better question is 'what can I do to be more attractive to women'. (If you really want to be able to predict who will be considered more attractive by some group of women, then you can stop reading now). If you want to be more attractive to women, I think the first thing you have to realize is that you only make small changes in yourself. You can't make yourself taller, shorter or change your basic personality. Don't waste time worrying about things you can't change. Another important point is that people pay more attention to attitude and personality than to appearance. You should try to be well groomed and keep in shape, of course. But if you are going to make a good impression, you are going to have to do it by projecting your personality, not by looking good. You want women to be interested in you, not impressed. You might get some attention by doing something impressive, but usually this attention is short-lived. The most effective way to get someone interested in you is to show an interest in them. If you adopt an attitude that is accepting and open, and show that you are interested in the other person (by asking questions, and paying attention to her answers), you will seem very interesting. Avoid speaking negatively. When someone hears you say negative things, they unconsciously fear that you will speak of them negatively. Try to get her to speak about herself. People have a great need to express themselves, and everyone needs someone to listen to them. Paying attention to someone and being a good listener will help make the other person interested in you, but if that is all you do, you will be taken for granted. To keep this from happening, you need to demonstrate some independence. Show that you have a life of your own. While you should keep the focus on her, when she talks about something in her life, you can briefly mention something in your life that is similar. If you do a variety of things in your life, it should be easy to appear independent. On the other hand, if you act like you are never too busy to drop everything to see her, and that as far as you are concerned there are no other women in the world, you will be seen as dependent. Dependency is unattractive Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NASSRA Posted May 19, 2003 HEY MR.MILLENIUM NICE ADVICE U GOT THEIR BRO....NOW ACTUALLY ARE U SOMALIAN....OR WHAT GUZ MOST SOMALIAN MEN DONT TALK LIKE THAT......AM IMPRESSED.....KEEP IT UP... ONE LOVE Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rudy-Diiriye Posted May 20, 2003 this is a wholelotta of crab bro! dont sweat to much about dear ladies! just put this in your head. be cool and dont get played out! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NASSRA Posted May 21, 2003 hey rudy he aint getting played out by WOMEN if that what u mean....i think he is sensitive guy and its important to a lot somalian women since most of u guys are not like that am not against u but just telling u what i think is right... one love Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
underdog Posted May 21, 2003 What women really want is a guy who'll take the time to try and figure out what she wants...when in reality, most of the time there isn't that much to figure out. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkyWalker Posted May 21, 2003 if “there isn't that much to figure out” than they don’t know what they want, and you nasar not a much you know about Somali men, so I advice you to keep your negativity about Somali men to your self! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thinkerman Posted May 22, 2003 What women really want is a guy who'll take the time to try and figure out what she wants...when in reality, most of the time there isn't that much to figure out. I dont think whe have that much free time on our hand. And Mr.M sxb i'v been meaning to ask what the hell is with that avartar of ur's??? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NASSRA Posted May 22, 2003 tagane WOW....first of all that wasnt negative thing to say....am just saying what i know and see...ok...am NOT dizzing somalian men...aight ohhh yeah next time spell my name right then complain holla Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rising Phoenix Posted May 23, 2003 Wow, Mr.M, if those are all your thoughts put together, then you've finally succeeded in doing what most men have failed to do for thousands of years. But it seems that your topic of good-will has turned into Virtual WWF... Peace, y'all... ~harmonyangel~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
finestsista2005 Posted May 23, 2003 Hi Guys, I like your self help article to the brotherz...MR.M. Well everyone is givin you probls on your well organized thoughts about what women want. One q bro...i am not trying to put you down. There are lot's articles that look almost like this on this virtues world of the net........sista nassra is ammazed on how you wrote this.......so did you...and is it your words and thoughts or ur findings? holla back! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Business_Man Posted May 23, 2003 Finesista2005, I think you are in the wrong forum to ask these sort of questions. Why dont you try somalinet.com! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Business_Man Posted May 23, 2003 Thanks Nassra for the nice comments you made about my views regarding the article that I compiled earlier!. I am 110% somali!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nefertiti Posted May 23, 2003 you mean WHAT DO SOMALI WOMEN WANT? 1-they want you to marry her after two dates. 2-the phattset wedding in the whole country. 3-a lot of DAHAB(our bling bling). 4-a certain somali artist to sing an AMMAAN 4 her. 5-an expensive house hold. 6-and many many many more.... at the end of the day it all comes down to DOLLAR DOLLAR BILSS$$$$$$ Y'ALL. gotta go to the musqusha. i'll be back. Clown, you made me laugh.... almost :rolleyes: Bruv if these are your true assumptions then I suggest you go and try dating outside the Xalimoo's cos a real woman would have the Dolla Billz herself and she wouldn't need no...er...CLOWN (shall we say) to pay for her... ...just a suggestion... ~QoxootiMammi~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
2real Posted May 23, 2003 LOL@Shujui-1...man...you know he's not gonna answer your question, you know why? coz no one in this forum understands what "avatar" means. I had to hit the dictinary for that one. Props. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Senora Posted May 23, 2003 Originally posted by THE CLOWN: you mean WHAT SOMALI WOMEN WANT? they want you to marry her after 2 dates. the phattest wedding in the country. the most expensive house hold. a lot of DAHAB(our bling bling). a certain somali artist to sing an AMMAAN 4 her. at the end of the day it all comes down to DOLLAR DOLLAR BILLS Y'ALL. that's what every female want! gotta go to the musqusha! My poor dear clown, i feel a bit bad for you, b/c you seem to have come across some benighted, materialistic SOMALI girls/women. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
