A7LA-SHU Posted August 25, 2003 Originally posted by Qac Qaac: the 2nd person on this forum, i really agree with u. it is very ****** to let go a nice beautiful religion woman, for a university. magnoonah girl, sis is not worth it. EDUCATION and u leave it in here when u die. but a taqi woman a good religious women u could still have her in jannah. so there fore is not worth it. now u graduated have ur deploma, and u see that sister with 2 kids who are very good kids, those kids could've been urs. too bad thanks for answerin my q bro.. and that sure is a good point i never thought of it dat way.... true those cute lil kids could have ben urs.. too bad it is .. but hey u never know why god stopped ya that time, and if u gonna get kids cuttier than those Masallama... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Raxmah Posted August 26, 2003 I really dont view anything as a regret, but a learning experience. What I learned dealing with guys is there are alot of them trying to be ppl they are not, so I have hard time trusting them, but who knows I will find one who know his deen and will be able to trust him inshallah. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kool_Kat Posted August 26, 2003 I have no regret what's so eva as far as the guyz I met...I always learned a thing or two from them, or from that experience...Having a regret would not make you a better person, but learning from the mistake or the person would definatley make you a better person, and give you a better understand of life itself... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SCORPION_SISTA Posted August 26, 2003 I agree with Kool-Kat on this...Every guy i had known (all as a friend) has taught me something about myself and the world...They are lessons that without being exposed to to them would change the person i am today...I don't look at my friends getting married or having babies and feel as if i missed out or regret my journey...i think it's working out in the right way i wanted it and Allah allowed me...When "the one" joins me in my saafar it would be the right time for me...And i am happy with that choice...bee bye BTW Kool_Kat come to think of it whatever happened to ur side kick "Rock's Chick"????? as last commment, i wanted to say something to someone talking about "how those kids could have been theirs" isn't that really going against what i always here about "what allah had written would happen" so if Allah hadn't meant it then why u regreting it since we advocate caalaaf...And second of all, it doesn't mean u married that person u would be happy with them or have children with them as they had with other people... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kool_Kat Posted August 27, 2003 Originally posted by SCORPION_SISTA: BTW Kool_Kat come to think of it whatever happened to ur side kick "Rock's Chick"????? Alla meeday mahayee, meeday...lol Naa naagtii inteey Europe aaday, ey soo kibirtay, eebo waxay ii soo noqotay iyadoo ismooday ineey gabar yaroo European ah tahay...lol Rock's_Chick, you better come out where ever you are!!! Halmar dhoof ah'igunoqoninee... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kool_Kat Posted August 27, 2003 Ooops, posted twice...Sorry... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SCORPION_SISTA Posted August 27, 2003 so that's the end ha...well i thought maybe she tied the knot or something and forgot our halwa...well i hope she enjoys europe...bee bye Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
runawayvirgin Posted August 29, 2003 I know the phrase "I don't trust them" seems a little ignorant to you, but it's true. it's not that I judge by what I see but by what I experienced. sure I know there are a lot of honest cool guys out there, but jerks always outnumber them. I don't look for guys, I'm picky when I try, and I don't take a loser for an answer. with that said, I'm entitled to my opinion, and till someone proves me wrong I'll still hold strong to my opinion Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Twisted-AYeeYo Posted September 1, 2003 My biggest regret thus far in my life is when i accepted to marry a man who was 18 years older than me and let him physically abuse me til he finally beat me up with my 4th pregnancy wich could have cost me my life and ultimately cost us a child! :confused: . but still i would never ever say i hate all men because the man i married after that still happens to be my husband and we are soon going to celebrate our 12th Anniversary togather i couldn't be happier in anyway you look at my life mainly thanks to him. . Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
A7LA-SHU Posted September 2, 2003 Mansha'allah.. im happy for ya ayeeyo.. im glad to hear dat. we'll keep the hope alive and try to trust our brothas lol.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
