lulla Posted June 12, 2002 Hi folks, wuz up I :confused: ended the last relationship i was in because the guy i liked wanted more than i was want to give(SEX). I found that was all he was really interested, u know. so there are like four guys are interested in me right now . and i really don't want a guy who only like me cause of the way i look. and again i suspected all thses four guys want from me is SEX..LOL. so can anybody tell me how i can tell the difference a guy who only want ur body or a guy who want a real relationship? by the way, all the four guys are very attractive and iam attract to them..lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WILDCAT Posted June 12, 2002 All four? :eek: Does the term lamb to the slaughter ring a bell? Here's hoping you don't become fodder for the likes of He Who Cannot Be Mentioned and his ever faithful crew of dabadhilifs. The Cat does not relish seeing blood on the carpet...but I fear it is inevitable on this occasion...I take it you've had your rabies shots?...might need it after they're done I've sent up a silent prayer on your behalf my child...when it's all over...I shall be in attendance with bandages and antiseptic cream -------- Now, if you'll excuse me, I have to return to my padded cell. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
The Rocks Chick Posted June 13, 2002 Wild Cat, You are really funny, I laughed so hard...thanx, I needed that after the day I had. Poster, all men are interested in women's body (unless they are gay) no matter what they say. That being the case, dont stress it sista (after all 4 of them already put you thru the test, expect another 400 do the same). Live&Learn xoxox Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Blessed Posted June 13, 2002 loooooooooool@ Wildcat, its always a pleasure reading your off the wall remarks Lulla Like the chick said, ALL MEN are interested in womens body. However, their treatment of you is entirely dependent on your attitude and how you carry yourself. You can't make a dude uninterested in your body (why would you?) but you can divert his attention from your hibs to what you have got to say for yourself .... stay interesting otherwise, na mean? if he is not interested in your personality then GET rid of Him ASAP! Also, socialising with intelligent brothers instead of the 'pretty air headed type' (So many of them these days) does help lol As a bonus suggestion, why not take a time out from the boys 4 a while and do something more interesting .... Sorry, i don't mean to sound like granny , but I am not too keen on the idea of sisters preoccupying precious time on 'He who cannot be mentioned' - hope U don't mind WC) Hope that helps Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ahlaan Posted June 13, 2002 Asalaamu Caleykum Waraxmatullaahi Wabarakaatuh!!! Maasha'allaah Ameenah!!! You could NOT have said it any better sis. lulla, It's about how u carry yourself sis, if u respect yourself and carry yourself in a matter that says hey "You ain't gettin none so don't even EXPECT it before u're married to me!!!" Then that's what u'll get but if u walk around like "Haye aboowe macaane..." It's all about intentions, are u looking for a husband or a boyfriend to keep u from being bored? You SHOULD NOT be having a boyfriend = physical display of affection which opens doors to sex. Husband to be = getting to know someone for intention of marriage, which is a respectable situation and demands respect if u carry yourself well. So without repeating myself any further I leave u with this: If you want a certain package espect to deal with ALL that's in it!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kool_Kat Posted June 13, 2002 lolllll WILDCAT... I couldn't stop laughin' once I read your post... Poster I gotta give it you girl, cuz a lot of ppl I know think any attention from a man is the greatest thing... Whether it is positive or negative... N'way like the others here say, it is how you carry yourself... Any guy who comes on to a woman is always (almost 99.9999% of the time) interested in her body... It's after they get to know you that they become interested in your inner beauty... So don't jump to conclution, and think that every man is interested in have sex with you... But on the other hand, if you get any hint that he is interested in sex rather than you, girrlllll dump him and dump him fast... Ta ta... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Naasir Posted June 13, 2002 This is eazy sis. Go for the one with the Most money, Like most Women are. I know ya'll gonna jump to the wagon. hate 2 say it but it is the fact, it is happening around ya ever day. Can't deny it. Hal Soomali As always just a thought Keep the Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
-Serenity- Posted June 13, 2002 Lulla, can I ask you to stop the STUPID QUESTIONS???? :mad: 'cause thats what they are....ONE STUPID QUESTION AFTER ANOTHER! Give it a REST! WildCat...where are you these dayz? :confused: ---------------- Everybody is somebody else's weirdo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kool_Kat Posted June 13, 2002 Athena, it's probably none of my business... But if you feel Lulla's posts are stupid, DON'T REPLY... Just leave the way you came in... Dannngggggg... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miriam1 Posted June 13, 2002 Salam Lulla thats sad girl all of them.Listen, love comes in its own time, thats all i could say as everybody gave u the best adivce. Keep them topics rolling Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
WILDCAT Posted June 13, 2002 Kool_Kat...allow it mate...Athena's just letting of a bitta steam...ain't no harm done Athena...still kicking my young friend...left a lil somin' somin' in your inbox for ya' Lulla...bingo!...got your game plan sussed baby!...made it your business to rile our resident fuddy duddies huh?...guess everybody's gotta have a role! --------- ...And whether or not it's clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
StarGazer Posted June 13, 2002 I agree with Ameenah& Ahlaan 110%. How would you know? What's a woman's intuition for? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lulla Posted June 13, 2002 Thank you u guys for replying.so ya think it is the way i carry myself and my attitude?i guess i need to start paying attention to my body language. naasir:iam sorry to say this but not every female want money,okay. first of all i would never take money from any male other my own brothers. second of all, sweety i have a job that pay $8 an hour. that is enough for me to buy whatever i want since my family don't ask any money from me. so we are not all gold diggers and lazy who couldn't do anything for themsleves. we are not that helpless.and for that record,u do not what iam going to do cause u don't know me, now that's a fact! anyway iam really offend on what u say. ATHENA : well, i don't know what else to say other than everyone has the right to their opinion.u hurt my feelings thought.but that's ok Tamina,Kool_Kat,WILDCAT7,The Rock's Chick,and Jawahiir; thanxs guys for the positve input, i really appeciate it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hibo Posted June 13, 2002 Athena you are a fine one to talk, this question is 1000 times better than that crap you posted "book of why" at least some ppl are original enough to think of their own questions, not regurgitate crap that everyone has seen before on the web. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
-Serenity- Posted June 13, 2002 lulla , sorry, didnt mean to hurt your feelings but ALL your questions revolve around minial topics like boys n relationships......if ur as curious as u claim, why not venture into other topics.....there is more to life than the boy next door UNKool_Kat...you can ignore something once or twice... Ana...sorry, I dont talk STUPID..come again! Just know that the stupidier the topic...the more, people indulge in it... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
