The Good Wife's Guide

[Hunguri]

looooooooooooool@ Odayga yarkii haya. Gurigiina fiiqaya loool. This must be the picture of the year wallaahi lol

[Jacaylbaro]

that was funny walaahi ,,,,,, sidaan u qoslay

 

kaaga darane ,,,, Flowers baaba loo sidaa

[Hunguri]

Intuition wants to practice that picture looool. That Faarah will be having lots of beautiful days ahead . Allaw sahal!

[Jacaylbaro]

now way man ,,,,, she must be so tired that she wants to fall asleep in a second

[Hunguri]

And why so . ? You mean she likes to relax like a cat . Masha Allah you remind me of the beautiful pets

[Jacaylbaro]

i witnessed some similar situations and it was a nightmare ............

 

wanna hear the story ???

[Hunguri]

Yeah, do !

[Jacaylbaro]

Ok then ,,,

 

There is this family used to be my neighbour ,,,, they guy is jobless thus keeping the children and staying at home most of the time. The wifey is Qaadley (khat seller), she leaves home at around 8:00am and comes back at around 2:00am ,, imagine.

 

He is here in his bedroom bay 7:00pm ,,, after the kids sleep he has nothing to do ,,, galgalading on the bed untill he fall asleep too early.

 

The womam comes at that time, knocks the door, he opens, she goes straight to the toilet, comes back to the room and fall asleep even before she could settle herself on the bed.

 

The guy has been xoqaning the whole night and wants to do his duty but she is alredy sleeping. This would cause a fighting and we would always wake up and start mediating between them util it is morning.

 

 

[amatillah]

LOOOOOOOOOOOL

[Aaliyyah]

Mz I think it should go both ways, both a husband/wife should strive to please one another.

 

wa salaam

[chubacka]

Would you do this for the most perfect husband???

 

 

NAhhhhhh...I would turn into a zombie and he would divorce me!!!!

 

Yippeeee

[Intuition]

Jacaylbaro and Hunguri

 

You two are the biggest thread hijackers I have ever seen. Are you like joined at the hip. I would like to know why you two have referred to me as a cat!! :eek: :mad:

I am not your qaat selling neighbour mister, has it ever occurred to you that the yelling that you hear next door could be for all the right reasons

[nemo]

An interesting list.............

 

10 Tips How to be a Successful Husband:

 

By Muhammad Al-Shareef

 

1. Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good. When was the last time us men went shopping for designer pyjamas? Just like the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her too. Remember that Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - would always start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells.

 

2. Use the cutest names for your wife Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - had nicknames for his wives, ones that they loved. Call your wife by the most beloved names to her, and avoid using names that hurt their feelings.

 

3. Don't treat her like a fly. We never think about a fly in our daily lives until it 'bugs' us. Similarly, a wife will do well all day - which brings no attention from the husband - until she does something to 'bug' him. Don't treat her like this; recognize all the good that she does and focus on that.

 

4. If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment! This is one of the ways Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - used when he would see something inappropriate from his wives - radi Allahu 'anhunn. It's a technique that few Muslim men have mastered.

 

5. Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often. Smiling is Sadaqah and your wife is not exempt from the Muslim Ummah. Imagine life with her constantly seeing you smiling. Remember also those Ahadith when Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - would kiss his wife before leaving for Salah, even if he was fasting.

 

6. Thank her for all that she does for you. Then thank her again! Take for example a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans the home, and a dozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the only acknowledgement she receives is that there needed to be more salt in the soup. Don't let that be; thank her!

 

7. Ask her to write down the last ten things you did for her that made her happy. Then go and do them again. It may be hard to recognize what gives your wife pleasure. You don't have to play a guessing game, ask her and work on repeating those times in your life.

 

8. Don't belittle her desires. Comfort her. Sometimes the men may look down upon the requests of their wives. Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - set the example for us in an incident when Safiyyah - radi Allahu 'anha - was crying because, as she said, he had put her on a slow camel. He wiped her tears, comforted her, and brought her the camel.

 

9. Be humorous and Play games with your wife. Look at how Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - would race his wife Aisha - radi Allahu 'anha - in the desert. When was the last time we did something like that?

 

10. Always remember the words of Allah's Messenger - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam: "The best of you are those who treat their families the best. And I am the best amongst you to my family." Try to be the best!

 

In conclusion: Never forget to make Dua to Allah - azza wa jall -to make your marriage successful.

[Aaliyyah]

Nowadays it is hard to meet an ideal man. But, nameless chick thanks for posting the above post. I pray that u guys are in the best of health and iimaan, and that u all meet some one in the few years to come, some one who meets the above conditions.And, those of u who r already married, may Allah swt make yr marriage successful. Let's keep making du'a.

 

wa salaamu alaikum

[Blessed]

^Masha Allah Aaliyah. That's sweet of you, Ilahay hakaa aqbalo ducada. Ameen.