Attention Nomads! Concerns for Forum Quality

[bilan]

Originally posted by Alle-ubaahne:

I disagree with that term. All humans are Ok but Muslims. So the proper term for such issues is The Muslim Rights Abuse, I believe. Yeah, if you look at the world today, you only find the Muslims are predominantly the majority that is highly oppressed and victimized. So, please don't copy-cat the western terms and use against us while having no idea the implications along such terms. [/QB]

hasna's list is perfectly logic,i'm really sick people calling other people westernized or using western terms when they want to dismiss their argument, even though there was no argument just list of topics. and why only muslims? islam cares the well being of humanity in general. it would be interesting if we talk about muslim woman's rights, since a lot of muslim women are abused, because they do not know their religion and their rights.

[NGONGE]

^^^^ Ignore the one-trick ponies, dear.

[Jacaylbaro]

horta sida aynu u dhannahay Muran baa la inaga soo taagay ,,,,,

 

this topic was all about bringing new idea to enhance the efficiency of SOL ,,,,

 

But after 2 or 3 posts then we start quarrel in Gender ,,, men ,, women,, men ,, women ,,,

 

forget about this ,,, if u have something useful bring it ,,, if not ,,, just keep quiet ,,,,

 

hadii kele ........

[Passion_4_Fashion]

^^^hadii kalena?

[Passion_4_Fashion]

^^^hadii kalena?

[Alle-ubaahne]

bilan wrote,

hasna's list is perfectly logic,i'm really sick people calling other people westernized or using western terms when they want to dismiss their argument, even though there was no argument just list of topics. and why only muslims? islam cares the well being of humanity in general. it would be interesting if we talk about muslim woman's rights, since a lot of muslim women are abused, because they do not know their religion and their rights.

Calm down abaayo, and don't get stiff at me, please. May be you right, Hasna's proposed topic is logic from western perspective, but not our own sociatel perspective. Its always the west who dehumanize the dignity of our female by name-calling the dignity our female, (Muslim women). So, its clear if you look closely at the intentions of those people (the westerners) you simply find my genuine concerns about their racialist terms.

 

Now, do you understand my dhibic? And by the way, don't let Prof. Integrationist (NGONGE) mislead you in the daylight.

[Jacaylbaro]

Hadii kelena karbaash baan idinku waaali oo ilkahaan idinka daadin ,,,

 

Oo weliba ,,,,,,

[Wiilo]

look people (Jacaylbaro iyo Simply_the best) there is an excellent topic that we are trying to discuss here and u two are just mocking and joking, please let's discuss this issue here and not joke around.... PLEASE.......

 

 

Xumaanna ha iiga qaadanina please.....

[Khayr]

Ohhh, the IRONY in this Thread, Ya Allah! :rolleyes:

 

Al-Nisaaa, we luv emmm All!

[- Femme -]

Excellent topics! But we can discusses topics till were blue in the face...the important thing is to act on it and talk about it.

 

 

* How to become good role models for our younger sisters.

 

*Reproductive health issues(pills, patches,Menstrual cycle, Menopause,Pregnancy or birth, infertility, Contraceptions at any age)

 

*Abortion(Biggest arrising problem)

 

*Anorexia(Many younger girls are safering from this because they want to be slim...Cover Girls)

 

*Eating Disorders

 

*Domestic violence

 

*

Creating SISTERHOOD CIRCLES

..ie EMAIL LIST, MAYBE CREATING NETWORK FOR ALL OUR SOL SISTER IN MEDICINE, SOL SISTERS IN BUSINESS, International Relations (thats my field),Psychologist, Engineers,(Exchanging ideas on MCATS for the doctors,internships,Fellowships)

 

*HUMAN RIGHTS ABUSES( Women suffering all over the world simple ways to help them and learn from their struggles. This is my area of expertise. I will take a intiative to post much about this.

 

*Sisterhood from our religions perpective(Following the women of paradise)What we can learn from them? And How we can melt it with our daily activities?

 

*Looking at the roles that somali women play in our society. Ways we can better understand and improve?

 

*Education

 

*Ways to deal with Discrimination in our Society?

 

*Female Genital Mutilation

 

*Sister becoming Mentors like big Sisters for our youngsters..Programs

 

*

What we can learn from our Mothers?

Breast Cancer

Single Motherhood

Bringing up children the RIGHT way

Portrayal of Women in the media nowadays

The Pill: pro's vs con's

RAISING and disciplining CHILDREN (without fathers)

[Blessed]

^^Agreed! Lets get posting.

 

Great suggestions from those who've bothered to contribute.

 

God Hasna, are you in youth work? I do love your list. It's all so relevant - I can't choose.

 

And, Thank you all

 

Simply the Best and Co,

 

It's a matter of making the most of this site and restoring it to its former glory. SOL was a place for proper exchange - now it's dead. People are constantly complaining at the state of this section – so why not do something about it?

 

Now, I don't oppose light hearted topics as I've already said. WE can even have a chit-chat thread -it's up to you.

 

It's the hijacking of and trivializing of people's insightful threads that needs to be dealt with.

[Iffah]

Good list of topics.

 

Sister becoming Mentors like big Sisters for our youngsters..Programs

Anyone involved in such activities now? I volunteered with this Somali youth group nearby and I was told I'd be needed in their big sisters program. I haven't done anything like this before - so I'd appreciate any tips from anyone who has done such programs.

[RendezVous]

Asalam aleykum,

 

Our Bothers and sisters should learn the Religion.This would inturn help us spread the TRUE meaning of ISLAM.This doesn't mean you be Theologists..no..do some Research.

 

As I said before and posted in several Threads, There are a lot of Rights for muslim woman.Infact the Holy Quraan has a whole chapter dealing with women as in SOL.

 

Concerning Single parenting, I think my best idea is to avoid or even decrease and I hate the word 'DIVORCE'.Young fresh and sweet couples start arguing about small small matters which aren't beneficial to them.

 

Without sabar,they part..leaving a lot of burden to the woman..which I dislike very much and am sorry to say it here for single mothers..Yet One Hadeeth says about SABAR..The Holy prophet says

 

'A'SABAR JAMIILUN'yacni Sabar is good.

We appreciate if you solve the problem to single parenting once and for all.Prevention is better than cure so some say.

 

Raising children upright must start with the parents.You tend to speak English so much that you leave your kid without your AYEEYO LANGUAGE.he gets big and marries..what gonna he teach his children..and there is already one LOST generation.

 

You are a drunkard..or miraa chewer..what do u expect your kid to do laterz..he will start it from Cocaine..nor even Miraa.and you will still be running a LOST green leaves cult.

 

You don't pray and have no Islamic attire(clothe)it doesn't matter wearing qamiis..no.but decently..your kids will follow the same.If you are MAN/WOMAN not praying..your NEXTGen is already lost from your AWOOW generation..that is what you found from your culture and religion and you already loose it.

 

How do you gonna preserve your Generation matters as your daily life.

 

Let me quote 2 nice VERSES from the Holy Quran.

 

"Bear then patiently what they say, and glorify your Lord by the praising of Him before the rising of the sun and before its setting, and during hours of the night do also glorify (Him) and during parts of the day, that you may be well pleased"

 

"And enjoin prayer on your followers, and steadily adhere to it; We do not ask you for subsistence; We do give you subsistence, and the (good) end is for guarding (against evil)".

 

Allah needs nothing from you.

 

Wasalam.

[Nomen nescio]

so it took you ladies about 3 pages to decide what to talk about??? :confused:

[Warrior of Light]

Praise the effort to revive this section to its old glory. Sisters you have proposed important topics which do affect us and our families. I would like to add there is a rise in depression/mental disorders in female population a topic e.g-Living a healthy mental life could be added to the list.