NoVa Posted June 17, 2003 I just thought I"ll bring this threat back...one of the cooooolest threats eva.....As Somali's we LOVE to have too many KIDS...It's BLessing From GOd..ALxamdulilaah. Moto of the Day ~Start Investing Kids Today, and U'sure won't get ya MOney Back~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Senora Posted June 17, 2003 Lol@Jamaal-11....i hope you reach that goal.....but as for me, coming from a pretty small family..i think i'll try and keep it to a minimal and say that maybe 3-5 is a good enough number for me....insha'allah Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Adna Posted June 18, 2003 Salaama ccalykum I actually Icamefrom smalfamilly which is only 6 of us i personaly wanna have 6-8,inshalaah i think that is more then what my mom had, also, allha know what you will got,, so i will in clude Allaah Aclam...... much love to ya'll Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SomeAlien Posted June 18, 2003 ZERO, NADA, AUCUN, NO KIDS FOR ME.i'll maybe adopt, but i really hope im strong enough to go against instinct and never get pregnant. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NoVa Posted June 18, 2003 ^^Did u just said u hope never to have kids??? Am i reading this write???? bisinka...ka'laabo'..u might get ur wish...that aint something to wish for... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
silent-sistah Posted June 18, 2003 kids are a wonder , a blessing , and i would be happy with however many Allah grants me and what ever proportion of males and females that i recieve. i would love to have twins or tripplets. as Jamaal said , it is about quality not quantity. however when i settle down to mate with my man, however many kids we make, Allah has already planned their provisions while they are on this earth----so no way am i going to look into family planning and birth control! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
2real Posted June 18, 2003 I really don't see all this fascination about having kids!! Don't you know that this "kid" is gonna grow out of his/her cuteness and become an adult some day? And eventually be tested for what good and bad he/she did? Don't you know that every human being you bring into this world has a very good chance(jugding by today's numbers) of being burned in Jahanam? I say minimize the number of kids you have so that you would be able to pay enough attention to raise them under the shade of Islam and guide each and every one of them to be admitted to Janantul Na'iim. The more kids you have, the less chance you'll have in doing that. Man, I come from a family of 9!! And I'm the youngest. So I ended up being raised by my older brothers and sisters rather than my parents. Wake up my somali brotheren, and stop having so many kids. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mujahida Posted June 19, 2003 Tamina, it might be possible Allah knows best. If it's in the family it might carry on thats what i've heard. My father was a twin, and he aslo had 4 brothers that looked all alike, what do you call that? 4lings? May Allah be pleased with them. I wanna have as many as ALLAH wants me to have InshaAllah. I'm thinking of 4 cuties. MaSalama Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Reality Check Posted June 19, 2003 I'm afraid if I say Zero..Allah (s.a.w.) might bless me with 10! So I guess I would say ...2 a boy and a girl! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thinkerman Posted June 19, 2003 Inshallah 10+ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nailah Posted June 19, 2003 i believe 4 is reasonable.....2 boys 2 girls... or what ever allah blesses you with Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JASMIINE Posted June 20, 2003 what's this facination w/ having just boys. i personally want have two girls: the two most cutest girls Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MD Posted June 20, 2003 opinionated, I'm afraid if I say Zero..Allah (s.a.w.) might bless me with 10!So I guess I would say ...2 a boy and a girl! That's what exaclty happened to my grandmother, she had two kids and then prayed to never have another child, guess what happen? well every year she gave birth to a girl/boy lool so becareful for what you wish for the opposite might happen! Well for me a basketball/football team what ever u want to call it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MiZz_LeXuS Posted June 21, 2003 Asraa 6 kids, that aint small... I would like to have 2-3 kids No more no less and I would only have 4 kids if my husband pressured me. The biys on SOL are saying that they wanna have 10+ kids. All I can say is "Good luck to your wivies" Coz they are the ones that are going through with it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thinkerman Posted June 21, 2003 H_S Well for me a basketball/football team what ever u want to call it. Hijabified Sista "Can I have your mahram's phone number?" I also noted other names who had some interesting Figures in mind. Jamaal saxiib lol, good luck with your project Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites