Grad Student Posted March 5, 2004 firstly, Some moderator Deleted one of my posts, i say they may as well BAN ME! Secondly, some chick(somali girl) at my school, was walking in the cold carrying several bags when i asked my freind to stop and give her lift to whereever she was off to, but she was like "I'M OK! i'LL WALK"....I say what the hell..as if we need anything from her but help our somali sister get to the library... Note: what's wrong with our sisters?.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
7_steps_2_Heaven Posted March 5, 2004 ^^^excuse me MISTER....she was right doing that...what sort of person gets on the car with TWO strangers...why don't you offer the lift to the men...are you telling me if she did get on (hypathetically speaking), apart from the question you have to ask where she is going to, you or your friend would not talk to her? I mean COME ON don't you know how uncomfortable that IS :rolleyes: :rolleyes: theres NOTHING wrong with us. and if we do get on and some1 sees you coming out of the car wheres men they talk about you "niman bey baabuurka u saarneet", GIVE US SOME CREDIT, WHY DON'T YA :mad: :mad: PS, don't take your anger out on the sisters, if the moderators deleted your posts!!!! :rolleyes: :mad: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Valenteenah. Posted March 5, 2004 Socrates, C'mon, I'm sure ur a lot smarter than that. Why in the world would a girl get in a car with two male strangers alone? The fact that they are Somali is irrelevant. I dont know why ur pissed coz I'm sure you'ld have advised ur own sisters to do the same thing that girl did. As for your deleted post...I kno nothing of it. Macsalaama. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bambina Posted March 5, 2004 Salam alaykum, Socrates,you shouldnt be mad if a somali girl doesnt want your help.I would have probably done the same thing , faced the harsh cold and never got into a man's car,unless he was a mahram. Besides what proved to her that you guys had a good intention? Did you know that many teens got raped just because they werent careful enough to say no? The point is brother you must not get angry because the girl was islamically following her deen.Besides it is often rare that a guy stops his car and helps you unless he wants something back in return.I dont want to generalize but most of the time it is the case and I apologize in advance if any guy in the SOL get offended by this. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tuujiye Posted March 5, 2004 Foolxuma badnaa cuudu bilaahiyee..waraa socrates, by the way if you study socrates you wouldn't have used his name because the man was a gay..Him gorgious, and othe philosofers used to debate and after they are done, they used to call young boy..Cuudu bilaah....And this guy you have his pic, is also a porn star..lol..asaga oo qaabkaas leh..ajaaja... Now if you wanted to help the girl, why didn't you get out of the car and walked with and tell your boy to meat you there. help her cary the bags. Just because you are somalian doesn't mean your not a strenger. you are a man, and she is a woman..and for a girl to be alone in some were with a man thats not from her family, is haram... Religionly what you are saiying is wrong sxb...There is nothing wrong with a sister like that infact she is the profect kind of sister.. Mafahantay macalinka..ii sheeg hadi kale anaa kuu dhig dhigaayee..jar camal.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Paragon Posted March 5, 2004 Hehehe ... Socrates. Tis the old game, you know! Chase and Catch . Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Macalin Posted March 5, 2004 Socaretes...LOL Shes in ur school sowmahan?,Jiira Ufadhisa and Do the Dew. As for the topic,well u have no choice and pm ADMIN. a Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Blessed Posted March 5, 2004 Originally posted by disillusioned-N-despondent: Socrates , C'mon, I'm sure ur a lot smarter than that. Why in the world would a girl get in a car with two male strangers alone? The fact that they are Somali is irrelevant. I dont know why ur pissed coz I'm sure you'ld have advised ur own sisters to do the same thing that girl did. As for your deleted post...I kno nothing of it. looooooooooooooool! In case your looking at me now. I didn't do it neither. so the sister Mods. are in the clear Laakin, don't you think that your taking it a tad bit too seriously. I am always getting bullyed by faaraxs but that doesn't make me get annoyed with all my brothers. Like this morning, I was reading my copy of Al-Jumuah as I was waiting for my train. This brother comes along and starts chatting nasty about me to his friend...my man decided he wanted to chat my figure and how I think am sexy, that am wasting my time by going on a on a diet, that my perception of beauty was totaly ignorant and that i'll never be able to find a man... I gave him a really mean look and continued to read my mag... My mate reckons he was doing it so that I chat to him, but is such crassness necessary? All, he had to do was say ' haye walaashiis, see tahay... but nooooo, he just had to go and assume and diss the sister. And then, there was this other brother on another day, this time I was on my way from work....oh' never mind :mad: sorry - I just needed to get that off me chest, afterall this is the vent off zone right? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jaabir Posted March 5, 2004 Socrates.. are you referring to that topic where you were blatantly *** kissing?? :rolleyes: As for the girl.. be seriouse man.. I wouldn’t even ride with yo convict looking *** let alone a Somali sister Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rudy-Diiriye Posted March 5, 2004 hey ppl give homie socrates a break!! so socrates! gives us more details, was she a knock out! lol...! i believe the problem you encountered is mathematical! u know...3 a a crowd! she cant read your mind that your intentions were brotherly! instinct took over her, and she was like, hell no, i aint into 3some!! u should have told your homie, get the fricking out the car and then holla at her and start w/the good "ASLAMU CALAKUM". honestly, dude, did u say that magic word!!! i dont think soooooooo! :eek: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Grad Student Posted March 5, 2004 Lol@rudy, mathematical 3-what?you are one funny dude. Ameenah and D-n-D, thank you ladies! now at least i know the culprits are the males. man! it's a classic case of playa-hatin. Mr D. how's your day so far? Good~ about that incident, I am just saying...people are losing their innocence. :confused: that's just the way i am. If i see a somali person anywhere i like to talk to them and offer help if they need it...shuuriyaako if that person doesn't want any help! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Haneefah Posted March 5, 2004 ^^^There's different forms of help walalo. When it's a type of help that conflicts with one's own values, ie getting a ride from a total stranger....then one can easily do without that help!...u should know that much Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Reality Check Posted March 7, 2004 Originally posted by Socrates: Secondly, some chick(somali girl) at my school, was walking in the cold carrying several bags when i asked my freind to stop and give her lift to whereever she was off to, but she was like "I'M OK! i'LL WALK"....I say what the hell..as if we need anything from her but help our somali sister get to the library... Note: what's wrong with our sisters?.. [/QB] Socrates, she doesn't even know you. Why did you even think that she wouldn't turn your offer down? You are just another stranger! There is actually nothing wrong with that sister for using a little common sense. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
king_450 Posted March 7, 2004 I really hate this, Mr Socrates, was trying to do just good by offering a Lift,and what did he get back ,socratism ,lol ,the brother is a somali guy, come on ladies don't ever equate somali men to any men.Unless you can prove Mr socrates means harm which in this case he is not.Here is my advise to Mr socrates next time you see a somali lady standing by and being insulted pass by her side and pretend you didn't see anything happened.you see ladies now what you are causing!but again keep offering the sisters your lift, not all ladies are alike.You are a good man and 10x for sharing . Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Reality Check Posted March 7, 2004 King, What are you saying? That all Somali men have innocent intentions? That they are better at heart than other men who are not Somalis. Brother, tell me from where you got this idea? Lets look at this from her point of view. 2 males in a car inviting her in. They could take her anywhere against her will and do anything to her. hmmmmmm, don't think so! If you want to show chilvary, then do so by small and kind gestures like opening doors, being curteous, respectful and such. But did you really for ONE second think that she would get into YOUR car? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
