Over sexualized Muslim men syndrome

[Chimera]

Originally posted by NGONGE:

^^ Atta girl!

 

Now try to talk some sense to the

wadaad stalker.

 

[Ibtisam]

Siren just cannot decide what she wants Leave the brothers alone. They are trying to keep it on lock down.

[The_Siren]

LOL- What? People is it so hard to ask for a man to behave as any normal sane and polite human being would? Surely there has to be a middle ground between drooling on a woman,cratching ones crotch presence in front of her and climbing the walls in fright if one happens to say hello?

 

Why must there be extremes? A simple greeting surely doesn't take much trouble. Whatever happened to common sense? Tisk tisk

 

Ps Wadaads aren't my cup of tea, they're too damn horny for one thing. I know you'd think that you would right up my ally but I assure too much sexual fustration is not a good thing.

[Ibtisam]

^^Well you are not a man, so you don't know if there is a balance between drooling over a woman or ignoring her. If you knew what goes on guys head, you would never put "normal, polite" in their thought process. There is nothing normal or polite about it, some are just good at hiding it, descriptive words for their thoughts would be ranging from animalistic to something else.

 

This whole lets be friendly. Yet not friends is a pointless waste of time and a little game of “let me see how long he can pretend”

 

Your wadaad bashing is going to make me give you a good verbal bashing! Don't make me

 

P.s. Your argument, nor the authors has a leg to stand on in Islam, so forget about that.

[NGONGE]

[Nehanda]

A modestly dressed sister = potential partner so perhaps they simply feel shy or this is their way of expressing their respect.

[Paragon]

Cantarabaqash.

[Hassan_B]

Obviously if there is a need a brother should make sure to communicate effectively while keeping his gaze in control.

 

Originally posted by Xena:

^^Well you are not a man, so you don't know if there is a balance between drooling over a woman or ignoring her. If you knew what goes on guys head, you would never put "normal, polite" in their thought process. There is nothing normal or polite about it, some are just good at hiding it, descriptive words for their thoughts would be ranging from animalistic to something else.

 

This whole lets be friendly. Yet not friends is a pointless waste of time and a little game of “let me see how long he can pretend”

 

Your wadaad bashing is going to make me give you a good verbal bashing! Don't make me

 

P.s. Your argument, nor the authors has a leg to stand on in Islam, so forget about that.

Right on! From what I read in the article, the sister is will intentioned but woefully ignorant of what is like to be a man. had you sisters have known the inner workings of young men and perhaps older men, I assure you you would not leave you homes.

 

Ask yourself this why is prostitution and such a pornography big business among men since the dawn of time?

 

Originally posted by Nehanda:

A modestly dressed sister = potential partner so perhaps they simply feel shy or this is their way of expressing their respect.

Masha-Allah, my sentiments exactly. Brothers tend to feel there is less temptation with non-Muslim women because no self-respecting brother would want to marry a non-muslim girl, so they don't entertain such possibilities. It could be that this is in reality a delusion by shaytan.

 

I think a valid criticism would be to criticize brothers for being so lax with non-Muslim women as 1) this improper islamically 2) it will generate unwarranted desire sooner or later and 3) it makes the sisters feel that there is something wrong with them or awkwardness or some other no-so-good feeling.

 

Don't ask brothers to be as lax with you as they are with non-muslim women but rather ask them to be as scrupilous with them as they are with Muslim sisters.

[Lt-Qalbi-Adeyg]

There really should be some middle ground, and just because as men we have a potent libido doesn't mean we shouldn't be able to control it. That is what separates us from the animals. But with muslims, there is no middle ground.

 

I find non-muslim women easier to be around and feel i have to be on my best behavior around muslim women.

[Hassan_B]

Come to think of it LT, you might have a point...

 

...one thing is for sure, you sure as heck not going to come anywhere near my sisters... :cool:

[Sherban Shabeel]

Originally posted by Hassan_B:

Right on! From what I read in the article, the sister is will intentioned but woefully ignorant of what is like to be a man. had you sisters have known the inner workings of young men and perhaps older men, I assure you you would not leave you homes.

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL you underestimate the "inner workings" of young women.

[Hassan_B]

It is scientifically proven that women are not as stimulated by physique as men. And this is reflected through prophetic lens, men can bare anything above the navel and below the knees. There is great wisdom in that.

[cynical lady]

It is scientifically proven that women are not as stimulated by physique as men

What a load of rubbish.

[NGONGE]

^^ When that famous lady tore the shirt from the back and the women cut off their fingers while lost in looking, none of it had anyting to do with 'physique'.

[Hassan_B]

^