ScarFace Posted January 19, 2007 Originally posted by Pujah: quote:Originally posted by ScarFace: A grown *** woman can be Manipulated if you tell her what she wants to hear... So who is manipulating who here? By giving her what she desires you are allowing yourself to be used….yet YOU think you have the upper hand. pujah i didnt say give, i've said tell her what she wants to hear....if you give then you actually buying and getting used.. i've seen a lot of farahs going thru that stage thinkin if they give a girl thinks they will get something in return.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jamster Posted January 19, 2007 Woow! it is getting too grown up and adulty for my liking! this is where I get off the train. Enjoy the ride folks. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted January 19, 2007 ^^^Is that so... You were the one who was miles ahead to start with. I am glade you have jumped off the train :cool: Scarface: same difference. both parties are getting something/s. Taking her out/ gifts/ phone bills: that is paying her dear! and you do all that without even noticing:D Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ScarFace Posted January 19, 2007 well ibby you dont need to date if you wanna marry someone...anyways i dont neeed months/yrs to know the person i wanna marry.. trust me allah knws best but i dont intend to go thru the path of datin and gettin to knw the person crap when i wana get married...... As for the dude your talkin about i couldnt care less....you can never know a persons history even if you dated them for so loooong....But I tend to scope for my future wifey with the help OF A FEW PI's....I'll have history check done Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted January 19, 2007 What on GOds earth makes you think you have a right to be so picky?? In fact would it be just served dessert if you ended up with one like you,,, same experience and all?? Secondly for a women who has been so "normal" her whole life, chance are she wants a normal man to be her husband, not one who bumps into an ex every few yards or who has been around the block one two many times. what would she want with a used and abused farah. She wants brand new one or no one. By the way I say you not because i am assuming anything but because i am talking to you Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ScarFace Posted January 19, 2007 ^^ I have been picky all my life, i dont settle for less and theres nothing called brand new in the environment we live in..No ones brand new man/woman. I'll settle for whatever allah gives me coz i belive evrything in our life is written..capish Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted January 19, 2007 You mean know one you know is brand new.... You know scarface people hardly hang their old cloths in the same place as their new ones . same way i don't think the two groups mix (call it a clash of ideas if you want) And they do exist, in fact there are many, they just keep away from the used iteams, so in turn believe they don't exist! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DigibAc Posted January 22, 2007 OOOooh... your talking about dating! I was going to provide expert advice but you changed the subject on me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cynical lady Posted January 25, 2007 ibti ure such a topic hijacker dam u silly cow Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shakti Posted January 25, 2007 lol@ silly cow... cynical, there is this Nigerian girl that sits beside me... she always says that.. n 1 day she accidentally said it 2 the sup, n when the sup said “excuse me??” her respond was “I said, u silly child”…. so why am i telling ya this? Well lets see if u can figure it out Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
