Reality Check Posted January 22, 2004 I would be lying if I said looks didn't matter. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
finestsista2005 Posted January 22, 2004 Like a lot of nomads have mentioned here. Honestly, looks in general is big picture. But if we narrowed it down it could mean how the person persents her/himself. Honestly, i have seen geniwine people who had great personalities but when it came down to things such as pleasant smile(breath), they had bad teeth, or bad breath. There clothing trends was out of date. The words of choice was little off. They lack confidence. Personally it's someone who doesn't take great care of her or himself. I know alot of people when they say someone good looking it is mostly reffered to as someone who is more healthier looking, shiny hair, great healthy looking smile and good breath. Someone who has good hygiene, knows how to dress or atleast knows what looks good on him. Someone who takes good care of his phsycal appearance. So to me, i know a healthy good looking person is someone who deffinatly takes good care of his or her physical appearance. Even if someone is an averange, with little help from orthodontist, maybe better care of themself...they can be turned in to will smith and beyonce knowels. So yes, looks matter, looks are what makes people unique, what we look for when we are longing for a mate. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
king_450 Posted January 22, 2004 with little help from orthodontist, maybe better care of themself...they can be turned in to will smith and beyonce knowels. Are you serious , Who Are They? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Modesty Posted January 23, 2004 asalaamu alaykum, A person's height, weight, and features were made by Allah, and to call the creation of Allah 'ugly' is an ugly statement. You shouldn't judge a person by their looks but more by their hygiene, piety, and intellect. Looks are superficial, they're just a worldly commodity that will one day be buried. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
finestsista2005 Posted January 23, 2004 Looks are what makes as unique, to me looks are essensial part of life. You want people to recognize you, you have to do your part then...u know what i mean........looks are what u make urself appear. NO one is talking about what mericful allah gave us. I think everyone looks good, it's the once who take care of them self...we normally say they look the Bomb. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MZanzi Posted January 23, 2004 Originally posted by mis_Nasima: Anyone that says looks don't matter is lying! Naben benta mahan lakin haka tagin caqli iyo dabeecad iyo diin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Modesty Posted January 23, 2004 NO one is talking about what mericful allah gave us. I am! Finestsista I don't think I excluded the part about taking care of yourself, as I've mentioned 'hygiene' don't get me wrong I think it's important to take care of the grace Allah has given you, but at the same time islamically speaking when you're looking for a partner we shouldn't focus on the ever changing western(now also eastern, northern, and southern) culture beauty requirements, but rather on the beauty of their inner character I firmly believe that no matter how a person looks if their internal is beautiful, then it shines externally. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Macalin Posted January 25, 2004 ^^^You may Kiss the groom...oh sorry u was talkin abt the LOOKS..ma bad ...i jst gat a adrenaline rush Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rudy-Diiriye Posted January 26, 2004 Originally posted by Modesty: A person's height, weight, and features were made by Allah, and to call the creation of Allah 'ugly' is an ugly statement. You shouldn't judge a person by their looks but more by their hygiene, piety, and intellect. Looks are superficial, they're just a worldly commodity that will one day be buried. [/QB] well, u right again sista! u cant judge a book by the cover! dont get brain washed by tv! please read or talk and discuss with your love 1 and peers! tv will only mess u brain!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Haneefah Posted January 26, 2004 Originally posted by Lakkad: ^^^You may Kiss the groom... Adi get with the program nooh, the groom is supposed to kiss the bride, not the other way around! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Changed Posted January 26, 2004 how would someone not care about looks? :confused: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Macalin Posted January 27, 2004 Nafisa Said: Adi get with the program nooh, the groom is supposed to kiss the bride, not the other way around! .... Marriage ceremony is a Programme?. Anyways have you nt seen Bridezillas?, women take charge these DAYS!..they kiss the Brooms..err Grooms Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
toronto Posted February 4, 2004 well well'' accourding to me looks matters but he/she can be charming but the deep inside he /she is a rabish, the behaviours may be from good to worse, so lets connect looks with some thing, it can be the caring issue,respect,love, faith,e.t.c :cool: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
