Hibo Posted May 20, 2002 I WANNA KNOW YOUR OPINIONS BOTH MEN AND WOMEN DOES YOUR PARTNER HAVE THE RIGHT TO TELL WHAT TO DO:EI, THE RIGHT TO TELL WHAT U CAN AND CANT DO. WHAT TIME U SHOULD COME HOME. AND TO U HAVE TO ASK 4 PERMISSION Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hibo Posted May 20, 2002 lol surf H/She shouldn't be your partner UNLESS you know them inside out that's my 2 cents later ------------------ "In the end we will conserve only what we love, we will love only what we understand, we will understand only what we are taught" --Unknown Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Baydan Posted May 20, 2002 Dont look at it as "telling" but sharing after all when you married this person you promised to share life. I think your spouse should know your whereabouts and since you'll expect to know is only fair you tell. Your spouse can "try" to talk you out of doing something he/she doesnt like.. BUT there is no xoog and if you do respect one another you should take what each has to say in concideration? Okay enough finger excercise..I dont usually give advices lol [This message has been edited by Baydan (edited 05-19-2002).] Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hibo Posted May 20, 2002 You'r making the spouse sound like a Taliban. God Bless. ------------------ "Indecision is like the stepchild: if he doesn't wash his hands, he is called dirty; if he does, he is wasting the water." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hibo Posted May 20, 2002 Yes, I think they have the right to tell u what u can or can't do....up to a point. And if they hav good intentions towards u....then there's no reason why u should hav a problem with what ur partner wants for u. However, from the way ur question is phrased, it sounds like the partner u r refering to may be a control freak...which could prove to be a problem. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ARAWEELO Posted May 20, 2002 NOBODY SHOULD TELL YOU WHAT YOU SHOULD OR SHOULD NOT DO....HOWEVER IT IS ONLY FAIR TO SHARE YOUR PLANS WITH EACH OTHER IF YOU MADE COMMITMENTS TO ONE ONOTHER. THEY CAN ONLY GIVE YOU THEIR OPINION NOT GIVE YOU ORDERS. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hibo Posted May 20, 2002 i see the they have the right and no one should tell u what to do lol but here is what i think.. i don't think the person meant to tell u what to do or what not to do so u guys might wanna talk about that.. but as far being parner goes if the thing is bf/gf forgot it dude.. but if it is husband and wife i think we have some right to know where the other person is going and what time to expect them back.. just put urself in the other person's shoe for minute would u want him or her just to leave and come back 2 in the morning? i don't think so.. so what they trying to do is get some info that is all. so don't take that to the heart and think oh he/she is telling me this and that.. but good luck yo.. sallam ------------------ peace in the middle east. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dilenger Posted October 17, 2002 hey look here playa dont let any1 control u u knaw wat iam saying,i mean if she controling u and want to knaw were u been and who u kick with,that means she dont trust u and if there is no trust there is no love that is my word. peace represent columbus but originally from cali Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
