Sensual_Healing Posted February 18, 2006 As'salamu aleykum... Bro even though you want naseeha (advice) do you think your wife would be happy about you discussing your marriage matters on SOL? Aallahu allam! Firstable the best marriage and the best love is the one that happens for the sake of Allaah subhanaAllaah'ta'aala, no doubt about that. But yeaa i would like to throw my two cents in inshaAllaah, make sure you and your wife have memorised your rights over one another.. if not here are the rights... 1Wifies rights over the husband: 2Feeds her when he feeds himself 3Clothes her 2 Is kind to her, shows love and affection, careing, compassionate and playful, preventing jelousy hatred or rancour 3)Provides in general 4) EDUCATES HER Gives quality time 5)Sexual gratification 6) Has the right not to be taken from her family (Unless he fears evil from their company influencing her) Should keep her family name Provides a seperate place if he marries another wife Should not speak ill of her in absence spreak household secrets speak about her at all in general and gossip Has the right to a khula Cannot have sex on her mensus or on her stomache Husbands rights: DObedience in that which is good, halal, and in accordance with the book and the sunnah. Does not allow people in the house he is not pleased with Does not missappropriate his money Guards his property in absence She must educate his children Gives him children if wanted Maintains the household (master of the household, basically what she says goes as long as its not on contrary with the book and the sunnah) Does not speak ill of him in his absence, spread household secrets or gossip or speak about him at all in general. Sexual gratification. Should ask permission to leave the house Should not fast voluntary, or sunnah prayer without his permission. Rights to divorce, talaq. yeaa,, this is All you need Quraan wa sunnah and these rights tell her Ittiqullah, and also you fear Allaah as we all should... I hope this helps May Allâh increase our Taq'wa, Îman, Ihsân and Ikhlas, Allâh huma amîn. May we be loyal to our Creator no matter what the circumstance, Ameen. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nas Posted February 21, 2006 Sensual Healing bro i appreciate the your words of wisdom thanks for the enlightenment brother. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
