Xafsa Posted July 16, 2002 This article really touched me. I post this article in hopes that you will (sisters) reflect on your life. Enjoy! Women of Paradise -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Part 1: 'The Black Woman' Paradise is for believing men and women. We often hear speakers in Friday prayer or in admonitions talking about Paradise and all of us find our hearts, minds and thoughts tuned on to that 'frequency'. However, majority of the speakers talk about Paradise as if it were a house for men only. Reality is not like that. Paradise is for the believing men and women. The only price for it is sound belief in Allaah, love of Allaah and His Messenger salla Allaahu alaihi wa sallam, and obedience to Allaah and His Messenger salla Allaahu alaihi wa sallam. In what follows are the glad tidings given by the Messenger of Allaah salla Allaahu alaihi wa sallam, to some of the women among his companions. Narrated 'Aisha radhiya Allaahu anha: I did not feel jealous of any of the wives of the Prophet as much as I did of Khadija (although) she died before he married me, for I often heard him mentioning her, and Allaah had told him to give her the good tidings that she would have a palace of Qasab (i.e. pipes of precious stones and pearls in Paradise), and whenever he slaughtered a sheep, he would send her women-friends a good share of it. [sahih al-Bukhari] Anas reports that the Messenger of Allaah, salla Allaahu alaihi wa sallam, said: 'The best women of mankind are four: Mariam daughter of `Imraan, Assiya wife of Pharaoh, Khadija daughter of Khuwailid, and Fatima the daughter of the Messenger of Allaah.' [bukhari and Muslim] Narrated Abu Huraira: Jibreel (Gabriel) came to the Prophet and said, 'O Allaah's Apostle! This is Khadija coming to you with a dish having meat soup (or some food or drink). When she reaches you, greet her on behalf of her Lord (i.e. Allaah) and on my behalf, and give her the glad tidings of having a Qasab (palace in Paradise) wherein there will be neither any noise nor any fatigue (trouble).' [al-Bukhari] Narrated 'Ata bin Abi Rabah: Ibn 'Abbas said to me, 'Shall I show you a woman of the people of Paradise?' I said, 'Yes.' He said, 'This black woman came to the Prophet and said, 'I get attacks of epilepsy and my body becomes uncovered; please invoke Allaah for me.' The Prophet said (to her), 'If you wish, be patient and you will have (enter) Paradise; and if you wish, I will invoke Allaah to cure you.' She said, 'I will remain patient,' and added, 'but I become uncovered, so please invoke Allaah for me that I may not become uncovered.' So he invoked Allaah for her.' [al-Bukhari] The aforementioned ahadeeth clearly state the stature of some of the women given the glad tidings of Jannah (Paradise). What can the women of today do in order to achieve that pinnacle of success, Paradise? To do so one MUST learn how these women lived, how they behaved, how they spoke, how they dressed, how they walked, etc. In this issue of al-Mu'minah we will try to learn from the black woman mentioned in the last Hadith, insha'Allaah. The black woman is not even known by her name, or her exact whereabouts, rather she is known by her deeds, her faith, her modesty, her chastity, and for her being an inmate of Paradise. And, in the end, that is what matters most. When Abdullah Ibn Abbas radhiya Allaahu anhu said 'this black woman', he did not mean to point at her race or to belittle her in any way. Indeed, he but meant to teach the people around him a great principle of Islam which is mentioned in the verse, [in the meaning of] : 'O people! We have created you from a man and a woman and made you into peoples and tribes so that you may know each other, verily the most honorable among you in the sight of Allaah are the most pious.' The same principle is mentioned in the Hadith: 'Allaah does not look at your pictures (shapes) and bodies but He looks at your hearts (and your deeds).' [Muslim] She (the black woman) was physically sick, yet she sought cure in the du`a of the Messenger of Allaah, salla Allaahu alaihi wa sallam. She knew that the one who cures, ash-Shaafee, is Allaah, and Allaah would answer the du`a of His Messenger salla Allaahu alaihi wa sallam. We conclude from that that du`a heals all diseases be they of the body or of the heart. When commenting on this Hadith, al-Hafidh Ibn Hajar said: 'It is inferred from this hadith that the cure of diseases through du`a and supplication to Allaah (wa al-iltijaa' ilaa Allaah) is the most successful way of healing, but this cannot be fulfilled unless two conditions are satisfied: pure intention and sincere trust in the effectiveness of the du`a, and righteousness and reliance on Allaah. The fact that the Prophet salla Allaahu alaihi wa sallam said: 'If you wish, be patient and you will have (enter) Paradise' is a proof for the virtue and reward of patience during sickness. In another Hadith, he, salla Allaahu alaihi wa sallam, says: 'Whenever a hardship affects the Muslim, he will be forgiven for it even when he is picked by a spike.' [Muslim] And in another Hadith, also narrated by Muslim, Ummu as-Sa'ib cursed fever, to which the Prophet salla Allaahu alaihi wa sallam told her: 'Do not curse fever, for it takes away the sins like the blaze [fire] takes away the impurities of iron.' The black women preferred the suffering of this world to getting the eternal reward of Paradise! She suffered from sickness, yet her pain and discomfort did not force her to forego pleasing Allaah! And no matter who one is, if one is in the path of Allaah, one will encounter difficulties, because Paradise is rounded by hardships. If things are easy and life is rosy, then one must check oneself; are we following the true Islam? Especially in this western environment it may be difficult for a young woman to wear the dress of modesty, the hijab (even though it is mandatory), not to talk to men and keep away from them (which is also mandatory), except if necessary. All these may be difficult to achieve for some in the beginning, but when one overcomes herself for the sake of Allaah, then all the other obstacles become baseless. So, how to overcome oneself? By knowing Allaah by His names and attributes; by loving and obeying Allaah and His Messenger, salla Allaahu alaihi wa sallam; and then the help of Allaah will come, insha'Allaah. She (the black woman) preferred being patient, but could not tolerate that her honor, her modesty and her chastity be damaged or even touched, nor that any part of her body be uncovered, though she had no control over it. Indeed she was a real slave and servant of Allaah; she was a faithful, a believer, a Muslimah, a righteous and pious woman, a truthful woman, and she was loyal to Allaah and His Messenger, salla Allaahu alaihi wa sallam. Not only having these awe-inspiring qualities, she was also a wise and a great woman, as her memorable words rang ...: '... but I become uncovered, so please invoke Allaah for me that I may not become uncovered.' If words are to be written in Gold, these words should be written in gold ... Remember this simple equation: Iman + Suffering + Patience = Paradise It can also be inferred that the righteous Muslim woman inherently loves to be covered, loves modesty and chastity and hates revealing her body and her beauty. The black woman, radhiya Allaahu `anha could sustain being so sick but could not bear to be uncovered in front of people. The issue, one must understand, is not of black or white or Arab or non-Arab, rich or poor, noble[with lineage] or not, it is rather of a creed so deeply rooted in the hearts of Muslims like blood flows in the arteries and veins of people. They are those who are totally committed to Islam. Fourteen Hundred years of history showed that Muslim women could sustain hunger, poverty, sickness but could never sustain disobeying Allaah. The wife would tell her husband when leaving for work: 'Fear Allaah in us, for we can sustain hunger and thirst but we cannot sustain Hell fire [i.e. do not acquire unlawful earning].' Dear sisters, ask yourself what made Khadija radhiya Allaahu `anha be greeted by Allaah Subhanahu wa Ta`ala and by Jibreel alaihi as-Salaam. Ask yourself what made Khadija be rewarded a Palace in Jannah as no one can imagine. Reading the biography of Khadija and others like her in greatness, one would wish to be at their service; to carry their shoes, wash their clothes, to serve them in any possible way and get du`a from them. It is sad that we just don't know the great personalities of this Ummah. If only we strive to study the lives of the righteous that preceded us, we would find in them immense guidance for our existence, and if we know them and follow them we could be in the forefront of mankind ... It is said, 'Iman (faith) is not by hope, it is rather what occurs in the heart and is proved by the deeds [maa waqa`a fil qalbi wa saddaqahul-`amal].' We leave you to think about this and pray to Allaah to make us all among the dwellers of Paradise and to bestow upon us the faith and the patience that lead us to Paradise. And to bless the present Muslim Ummah with many women like the black woman, radhiya Allaahu `anha (may Allaah be pleased with her), who help us focus on the straight path ... Acknowledgment: Some of the ideas were expressed in an article written by Haled Abu Sail which appeared in the Da`wah magazine, Iss. 1514, page 32. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
_xamdiya_ Posted July 20, 2002 asalmu calykum jazakallahu khayran ya ukhti xafsa that was beautiful, may allah make us all the inmates of paradise. 'Iyad b. Him-ar reported that Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him), while delivering a sermon one day, said: Behold, my Lord commanded me that I should teach you which you do not know and which He has taught me today. (He has instructed thus) : The property which I have conferred upon them is lawful for them. I have created My servants as one having a natural inclination to the worship of Allah but it is Satan who turns them away from the right religion and he makes unlawful what has been declared lawful for them and he commands them to ascribe partnership with Re, although he has no justification for that. And verily, Allah looked towards the people of the world and He showed hatred for the Arabs and the non-Arabs, but with the exception of some remnants from the People of the Book. And He (further) said: I have sent thee (the Holy Prophet) in order to put you to test and put (those to test) through you. And I sent the Book to you which cannot be washed away by water, so that you may recite it while in the state of wakefulness or sleep. Verily, Allah commanded me to burn (kill) the Quraish. I said: My Lord, they would break my head (like the tearing) of bread, and Allah said: You turn them out as they turned you out, you fight against them and We shall help you in this, you should spend and you would be conferred upon. You send an army and I would send an army five times greater than that. Fight against those who disobey you along with those who obey you. The inmates of Paradise are three: One who wields authority and is just and fair, one who Is truthful and has been endowed with power to do good deeds. And the person who is merciful and kind hearted towards his relatives and to every pious Muslim, and one who does not stretch his hand in spite of having a large family to support. And He said: The inmates of Hell are five: the weak who lack power to (avoid evil), the (carefree) who pursue (everything irrespective of the fact that it is good or evil) and who do not have any care for their family or for their wealth. And those dishonest whose greed cannot be concealed even in the case of minor things. And the third. who betray you. morning and evening, in regard to your family and your property. He also made a mention of the miser and the liar and those who are in the habit of abusing people and using obscene and foul language. Abu Ghassan in his narration did not make mention of "Spend and there would be spent for you." muslim wasalaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kamila Posted July 21, 2002 Salaamu caleeykum Yaa Ukhtil Muslimah. Maasha alaah Maasha laah, I'm very glad to read this walaahi and insha alaah I'll do for the best I can to please Alaah Insha laah May Alaah Bless xafsa & Xamdiya, Jazaakalaah kheer. W.salaam Caleekum Waraxmatulaah Wabarakaatu Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Buubto Posted July 22, 2002 Asalaamu Aleikum Wr Wb very imformative indeed. Jazaaka Laah kheyr sisters xafsa & Xamdiya may Allah reward ya. And may Allah make us the ones that see each other in paradise (Amin) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DrRomantic Posted July 22, 2002 I came in like a shinning light to brighten the reality ! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- This is for all my fellow Somali Male spiceis! WHO AM I: the voice of all Somali man, the Faraheenta undercover in the states, the masked Farah in Somali and the the faceless Somalian male in Canada.Plus the the Farah who is playing the roll of extras in Great Britain. Ow brother, brother, deariest brother, I think it about time we join hands to combat, this desease investing in our community, They are the shame we bare today, the useless facter, that will cause the end of 'Somali man'. They are the sin that drove us out of our land, because behind every commen male their is a WOMAN, unfortunately my brothers, for us it happens to be a 'SOMALIAN WOMAN', the mother of all chaos, the sister of the mayham, the daughter of distruction, don't look too far, for the answer, why our race is doomed, why we turned out to be a blood thurst savages. I think it's about time we march, hand to hands, united in the struggle of putting to end the fangus, so called "Somalian woman". Brothers It's know or never! I can go on for ages just opening the chapter of the pain & suffering this 'WOMAN' have caused us, they are the reason Somali man are disabled, in the way of forward. Look into the dept of your volcanic hearts, can it bare the heat any longer. Take a look at the Bushes infamous"axis of evil", who the laible would soot better, if you ask me, I will tell ya, it was invented for Somaliwoman, of course, excluding my mother! and all those mothers out there. Brothers, somebody once remarked that the mostimportant word in the political vocabulary is 'WE', saying the word, "we" as Somali man, makes my tongue bitter, how I would love to exclude myself from the word, 'WE', but my epadermous flacks at every mension, meaning the word hits far beyond, what the toungue exercises, perhapes even ferther then blood ties. I strongly urge you, my fellow man to come forth, and join, this movement, that would restore our man hood, return the alian word to us, 'pride', and the uncommen word 'dignity'. "The time is now, it now or never!" Fella I as you a simple question, when was the last time you had your chin up and faces a Somalian woman with full eye contact, never ha. Then come proudly under the banner to march and repersent us. I am not promising a sudden victory, but a faith or a glimmse of hope, i feel you brothers, I feel your pain, it surely is scandles. I call for our dignity, pride, self steam, most of all man hood, self-respect, I call for a revolusion, I call for a Somali man for a none Somali woman. I say Somali woman down! My fellow man it's now or never! come, come in the hundred, thousand, come & defeate the enemy(Somaliwoman). The future is ours! --OUR MOVEMENT IS CALL:"ANTI-SOMALIAN WOMAN". --WE WILL DEMONSTATE IN EVERY COUNTRY, that the fungus(somali woman) is at large! --WE WILL FIGHT TOOTH & NAIL! --WE WILL WIN, IN THE NAME OF DIGNITY, WE WILL ABOLISH THIS WAISTE OF LIFE so called in practice "SOOMAALIWOMAN" --A great anglo proverb 'HELL HAS NO FURY LIKE A SOMALIANWOMAN'S SCORN' THANK YOU! I SAY SOMALI MAN FOREVER! -------------------- I left with a misleading impression misterously! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
_xamdiya_ Posted July 23, 2002 asalamu calykum thanxs sisters for ur reply and amin to your ducaa may allah grant us all paradise. DrRomantic, subxanallah, i am shocked but what can i say other than may allah guide u to the truth and may allah show that not all women in this world are the same, it really hurts me to see a muslim brother saying things like this about his muslim sisters in islam. may allah guide us all to right path. wasalaam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
