Married People Online

[Dat_Boi_Gotti]

I just dont get it...your married and your online chattin or postin topics...thats not good...your kids and your husband/wife is home and your on the computer chatting...like that girl that got addicted to the somali chat room. if i was married i wouldnt even get near to a computer.

 

what do you guys think about it?

[NoVa]

What Law says that Married PEople can't be using a Computer???? :confused: Sorry bro, but what makes u think some of them don't be using the computer for their own interest wether it be school or work??? not to mention if they wanna kill 5 min of their time and wanna discuss a topic that might interest them????....so what if they do that???

 

 

What i can't put 2 my head is the fact that how one can be thinking the way ur thinking now??? Strange world we must be Living it'huh..telling PPL they Can and CANNOT do??? Where did u learn that??? Not 2 mention what makes u think that they can't be Able 2 take care of their own family???Ma adigaa la dagan kaalay??? so what if she feed the kids and put them 2 bed and she's waiting her husband 2 show up????...DOnt' get me wrong, i'm not married and I just wouldn't understand how one can say one of those weird things that ju7st don't make sense...ya feel...till next time...Ina a'deer hade soo bari, kolayba waxaa u egtahay koo oo xaaskiisa garaaci lahaa' haduu xataa ku arko iyadoo phonka ku jirto lololol... :eek:

 

p.s by the way there r alot of Married FOLKS up in here...Kolayba ha'isku soo kicin kuligood hadaba'bal or else they might just tear ya apart..lol

[MD]

Now married people cant use the computer?? Very odd indeed lol

 

Walaahe Somalis, they have a say in everything.. :rolleyes:

[Valenteenah.]

Kix kix kix kix...this is the funniest thing I have seen all day!

 

Gotti..married ppl also have views, opinions and interests. Duh!

[Pucca]

yall are takin it the wrong way....ease up on the attacks, damn! and yall said the baro were vicious. bisinka miskeenka just asked a question and I’m pretty sure he wasn’t telling anyone to do anything. I mean I would think if you’re married you would want to spend your free time with your significant other. No one is saying they aint allowed to surf the net…. But hey, whatever floats your boat.

 

ta ta

[-Serenity-]

^^ Do you think that married people wanna spend every waking hour and minute together?... hardly! Socialising with other people is healthy for a couple, I think it makes them appreciate each other more - knowing your not married to some of the loosers you meet and the mentality of the pricks on forums might actually rekindle ur relationship and help you realize what a lucky bird you are. I'm sure reading the thoughts of the likes of *insert SOL men's nick* puts a smile on every married woman's face....not to mention a sigh of relief.

[Xoogsade]

Being online is one thing, but Competing with the singles is another. I think Shukaansiga iney iska dhaafaan and keep to the socializing Only

 

 

Barambaro.

 

Haven't you noticed some people saying they are on break and at work? Most people come online when at work. That is why I think getting time for online socializing is not an issue. But if one gets addicted and tries to be online as much when at home, it can be counter productive. Your partner needs attention. Imagine your Husband laughing at the screen and you happen to check what is going on and you see Seven Of Nine? You would hit the roof wouldn't you? LOL.

 

It is nice to avoid anything that invites insecurity to a relationship. And if being online does invite such things and more, one is better off not being online. People give up a lot of freedom and make a sacrifice for the sake of the person they get married to. The days of anyone doing as they please are over once people get married. Everything that is done, is done with the other person in mind.

 

 

Seven of Nine

 

You make a good point. I wonder though if it can work the opposite way as well and you become disappointed with a relationship instead of rekindling or working on it(if it was broken) by seeing more intellectual, decent funny guy online? People change their minds if they are not well-grounded. Being online has benefits as much as it has disadvantages I think. Just a thought.

[rudy-Diiriye]

homie if u can stand the heat, then get some shade! yo! we looking for all the fours! u got somthing against that!! us married guys are in competition with the chinese okey! lolol..

 

besides, joking around, try to understand to under laying current, we r giving u single ones priority okey! u aint seen happiness till u get with nice kind loving xalimo who u adore and she does the same and both your life becomes like malab!@ okey! i say sweet!!

 

so dont fret! when u miss a beat, i be there to show u the right way!! w/o any charge!! cuz, its whollada new game to satisfy good ole xalimo.. nah! i love ya dont cut it no more!! believe me bro! aigt!! u remember the good ole when could say to good ole Ameri-gal, i luvya like a fat boy loves a cake!!shyte!and u could a home run! that aint gonna cut it homie! with bootyland xalimos, u gotta be climi boodheri on a crack!homie!! so, plz a lil thanks, will hit the spot!!

[Qac Qaac]

Dat_Boy_Gotti.. I 100% agree with u... if i was married i wouldn't get close to chat rooms and sites like this.. why waste my time... I agree with u bro.. coz we ought to teach our kids the right manners since our kids are growing in western countries.. and by u chatting the only free time u have after work.. won't help u.. yeah so i agree with u...

 

As for this ppl oo iska qeel qeelinaya ha ubixin.. i think u pressed a red botton... so yeah, why would married ppl use chat rooms/ sites like this.. good question indeed.

 

is not your business meeshaan ma taalo, meeshaan waano baa la isku lee yahay, and the boy wuu soo tuurtay tiisa.. so WHAT THE PROBLEM IS?...

 

ilmihii mar na baby sitter oo gaala ah baa haaya, marna way dac dareesan yihiin... hadhoow na we wonder where they picked up from this bad manner.. af ku celin iyo caay ba..

 

p.s. this is not attack to the married ppl here, but is an advice to them.. u r new families.. and pls qab qab iyo chat rooms ha ku bilaabina guriga.

[Sensual_Healing]

lol does this include engaged ppl?

because me and my fionce are boths CRAZY about forums when i say fionce i mean Nikkah occured which means islamically we're marriad without a house (weird) yeap i myself am trying to get used to that concept,

 

two people can't be together 24/7 it's almost impossible they will eventually hate each other

Take my word for it i've tried to do it, it's not a pretty side.you know i rather him chatting and replying in forums than going out with his mates so AL-HAMDULILLAH, and knowing that i FEAR ALLAH and he does too inshaALLAH nothing will go wrong,

[PlayMaker]

when i say fionce i mean Nikkah occured which means islamically we're marriad

Hey we supposod to keep this on the down low :mad: whas up with that?. Kidding. Mabruuk sista guurkiina guri nagi.

Back to the topic I understand where Gotti is coming from, married people can socialize but i think chatting is a big NO. That could lead you to something else so why take that chance? Personally i hate it, i think it is deceiving and it is same as cheating.

[Passion_4_Fashion]

I agree with xoogsade 123%.....is totally another thing if shukaansiyoos is kala dhacoos labo quf who isticmaaloos the forum

[-Serenity-]

Originally posted by Xoogsade:

Seven of Nine

 

You make a good point. I wonder though if it can work the opposite way as well and you become disappointed with a relationship instead of rekindling or working on it(if it was broken) by seeing more intellectual, decent funny guy online? People change their minds if they are not well-grounded. Being online has benefits as much as it has disadvantages I think. Just a thought.

It all boils down to trust, doesnt it Xoogsade? I could meet the same intellectual and decent fella in real life. Besides, I find it hard to beleive you can actually fall in love with some1 online and want to be with them. No amount of intelligence will make me want to be with a minger and so on and so forth. Besides, most likely, in a forum like this, you could like some1's style or writing, mentality, etc. But would you be able to operate on the same frequency on other levels - morals, principles, character, looks, etc. Chances are its least likely to happen cyberly and if some1 is willing to cheat, they will do it by hook or by crook.

 

Personally, over the years, I've had ma fair share of online crushes..they were mainly people who's out look to life I've liked and their intelligence. But fortunately it pretty much ends it. I've never desperately wanted to meet any of them or felt the need to meet them. Unless we had so many eerie similarities like Aeryn Sun

[Tuujiye]

maba fahmin ninkas su aashiisa...Kuligiin waxa aa qorteena maba fahmin..

 

wareer badanaa!!

[A7LA-SHU]

Originally posted by rudy:

homie if u can stand the heat, then get some shade! yo! we looking for all the fours! u got somthing against that!! us married guys are in competition with the chinese okey! lolol..

dude who is the chinese u gotta compet with hahahaha... but that was funny... and ur lovely wifey better not hear u say that fours ish... we both know what is gonna happen... lol..

 

but going back to the topic. i don't think anything wrong with married ppl spending time with other folks and doing their thing.. lets me be honest i would tell my (husband to be) sweety i married ya but i don't need to look at ur ugly face 24/7 lol.. so move a side home boy..

 

but yo some of us are online freaks, (like myself) and my mom is like she won't ask money or anything for the guy who is gonna marry, but not to have computer at home.. geeezzzzzz